Okay girls,
I need some advice...
Maybe I should first steem of a bit, but let me use u girls as ventilation-system!
I have a boyfriend, for quite some time now, and I love him very much, and I know for a fact that he loves me too (I don't doubt that at all).
The thing is, that he can seem so totally uninterested in me, in what I do, in what's going on in my life -besides him. The reason I'm so pissed of right now is because I have an exam tomorrow (I really should be studying!!!) and I called him just now because I felt all stressed and nervous and stuff. I just wanted to hear him, and you know, let him comfort me a bit. But he is so bad at it!!!
Our call didn't take even more than four minutes. FOUR MINUTES! He was all like "you'll do fine, it 'll be okay" the usual, but it was as if he wasn't even listening to me at all! I bet, he doesn't even know what course I have tomorrow.
I can get so angry because of that. I've told him before that that bothers me a lot, and he apologises, but doesn't seem to improve at all!
The thing is, I am a very stubborn girl, so I don't explicitly tell him when I'm angry, but I'm sure he could tell just by my voice. I just hang up on him after he was saying "yeah, so, okay... you'll do great, so.. goodbye!" and I just said, goodbye (with a very harsh tone) and hung up. I cannot believe that he wouldn't get it. I mean, he must know that I was pissed off, but he didn't even ask or called back or anything...
i know that this is probably a "typicallly male thing", but, right now, I am totally fed up with it! I'm just imagining what life would be like with him, say in ten years when we both have jobs and maybe children. We'll probably be living together without knowing what's going on in each others lives. And that is not what I am looking for...
Anyway (I seem to be cooling of now), you girls probably have experienced lots of similarities like this one, so maybe you can tell me how to handle this?
Thanks,
Vicky
(I've just re-read my own post, and I allready feel like a nagging-bitch, but I'll post it anyway, let me know what you think)