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Originally posted by :::OshnSoul:::
Guys don't get the message unless you tell them. All they get are mixed signals, and they don't know what to do about it.
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That is soooo true!
Well, Vicky, in a way I understand what you mean. I have the same problem sometimes, but I've begun to realize that it has often more to do with yourself, and this is in two ways.
First of all, as :::OshnSoul:::, and many before have allready pointed out: maybe you just have to be more direct with him. (I feel it quite ironical that I am posting this, since I am very bad at this myself! I've also talked to my bf about this) The only solution is that whenever something is bugging you, you just have to spill it out to him immediately, otherwhise, you're just stuck with it, and he might not even have a clue what's eating you.
The second thing is -and this also comes out of my own experience- it might have a lot to do with how you are feeling yourself, you were probably just a bit stressed by your exam, and therefor reacting in a totally irrational way (maybe?) (BTW: I have exames as well, and I know this has a major effect on how I feel and how I act; so good luck to you and me
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Anyway, before you make up your end-conclusions about this guy, and start worrying about your (future) relationship with him; give him a chance by filling him in how you feel. Stop locking it all inside of yourself, and just scream when you feel like it!