Well I talked to her a little and she said that although she hasent she will and she is still shy with me. I guess we will see.

she is being way immature, maybe she was sheltered as a kid or was given some twisted advice on sex. if you really like her, take it slow you have a lot of stuff to work through

Leave her. There is no way you should be stuck with her - you deserve better. She won't satisfy your needs so find someone who will. Good luck either way.

I know this was a few months ago but the situation was interesting to me. Is there any update to how all of this worked out?

yeah i would like to see an update as well. Have you guys worked on the issue? Let it slide back to what it was before? Broken up about it?

When I read your post it sounded almost exactly like my ex-husband. It never got better; it got a lot worse over time. We never got to the 'why.' And no matter 'why'... I can tell you first hand that resigning yourself to a situation like that, (honey i love you, I just can't stand to touch you or look at you), eventually wreaks havoc on your entire self esteem. And the damage can take a lot longer to get over than it does to cause.

I hope things worked out for the best for you, whether or not you kept the girl.