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blahblah454 · 11-09-2006, 07:48 PM

Well I talked to her a little and she said that although she hasent she will and she is still shy with me. I guess we will see.

bunny1321 · 11-21-2006, 12:29 AM

she is being way immature, maybe she was sheltered as a kid or was given some twisted advice on sex. if you really like her, take it slow you have a lot of stuff to work through

Sanstrian · 11-21-2006, 04:33 AM

Leave her. There is no way you should be stuck with her - you deserve better. She won't satisfy your needs so find someone who will. Good luck either way.

ruggerp11 · 05-15-2007, 10:03 AM

I know this was a few months ago but the situation was interesting to me. Is there any update to how all of this worked out?

skier · 05-15-2007, 11:34 AM

yeah i would like to see an update as well. Have you guys worked on the issue? Let it slide back to what it was before? Broken up about it?

ItWasMe · 05-15-2007, 10:02 PM

When I read your post it sounded almost exactly like my ex-husband. It never got better; it got a lot worse over time. We never got to the 'why.' And no matter 'why'... I can tell you first hand that resigning yourself to a situation like that, (honey i love you, I just can't stand to touch you or look at you), eventually wreaks havoc on your entire self esteem. And the damage can take a lot longer to get over than it does to cause.

I hope things worked out for the best for you, whether or not you kept the girl.

05-15-2007, 10:03 AM	#44 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	I know this was a few months ago but the situation was interesting to me. Is there any update to how all of this worked out? __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

05-15-2007, 11:34 AM	#45 (permalink)
skier Rawr! Location: Edmontania	yeah i would like to see an update as well. Have you guys worked on the issue? Let it slide back to what it was before? Broken up about it? __________________ "Asking a bomb squad if an old bomb is still "real" is not the best thing to do if you want to save it." - denim

05-15-2007, 10:02 PM	#46 (permalink)
ItWasMe But You'll Never Prove It. Location: under your bed	When I read your post it sounded almost exactly like my ex-husband. It never got better; it got a lot worse over time. We never got to the 'why.' And no matter 'why'... I can tell you first hand that resigning yourself to a situation like that, (honey i love you, I just can't stand to touch you or look at you), eventually wreaks havoc on your entire self esteem. And the damage can take a lot longer to get over than it does to cause. I hope things worked out for the best for you, whether or not you kept the girl. __________________ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . "Ok, no more truth-or-dare until somebody returns my underwear" ~ George Lopez I bake cookies just so I can lick the bowl. ~ ItWasMe

11-09-2006, 07:48 PM	#41 (permalink)
blahblah454 Let's put a smile on that face Location: On the road...	Well I talked to her a little and she said that although she hasent she will and she is still shy with me. I guess we will see.

11-21-2006, 12:29 AM	#42 (permalink)
bunny1321 Upright	she is being way immature, maybe she was sheltered as a kid or was given some twisted advice on sex. if you really like her, take it slow you have a lot of stuff to work through

11-21-2006, 04:33 AM	#43 (permalink)
Sanstrian Upright Location: Wilmington, NC	Leave her. There is no way you should be stuck with her - you deserve better. She won't satisfy your needs so find someone who will. Good luck either way.