It has happened to me twice. But, to be fair, I was drunk off my ass both times. I had to beat one out of me after the chick left to avoid blue balls. I didn't get it the other time though. Heh

Sure it's OK. Every once in a great while she feels like having sex but I don't. I don't have a problem at all with making her come several times without doing so myself. I get a lot of personal pleasure just from her satisfaction.

it happened to me one time because i had to pee. sex is mental, isn't it? i mean there's nothing about the pumping that actually causes you to start hosing your partner. i guess.

alcohol may be the answer. the good news is that even if you don't blow your load at least you'll be drunk.

I always feel bad when my bf doesn't come. He says don't worry about it but I don't feel it's fair... but that's life I guess.

So did you let her get lots of practice in?