She should definitely swallow.

Ain't that the truth.

Once they get into it, it really doesn't matter. My wife loves being surprised by my load spontaneously shooting out - it all goes down.

Feels really good.

For those who like swallowing:

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/journal...72&action=view

heh ... my gf has swallowed 2 times ... said it tasted like salt-water-jelly ... i ain't never forcing no-one to swallow salt-water-jelly ....

tenaglia

My gf use to spit everytime i would go in her mouth which was really a turnoff cause sometimes she would spit it back on me, now she justs swallows cause its less trouble. But it really doesnt matter cause i try to not go in her mouth whenever possible.

I have only swallowed two times but it was so good! Depends on who the man is and how much I love him.

Now on to the last frontier! The best is out there I'm sure.

Well if she swallows then it great :) but if she don't then it's okay,i don't wanna force people to do something the don't like.

Prefer swallow, but it's not a big issue.

My wife is a swallower, or, a wearer. She loves facials, she loves oral, I'm a damn lucky man! I've never had a spitter either.

Why the quotes around 'she'?

Anyway, I'm totally for swallowing. Take it down, it's far more erotic. Still, my girlfriend does a great job either way, so no complaints.

I'm sure it would be taste. Humiliation, fright, and "getting it in the eyes" are not givens, especially if the girl is not just a one-night stand, because then humiliation and fright automatically go out the window.

Lucky for us hetero guys, we don't have to worry about this!

My wife swallows (several times) and jacks me off till the last drop is out and sucks on me more. Could I be more lucky? :D

I'm not complaining :)

You want the truth?

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!

I actually prefer to fuck for a few hours and leave a little "something" behind.....

But that's just me.

I'll swallow if it's a quicky or needs to be clean for whatever reason. I'd much rather have it go on and in other places, though.... Sex is supposed to be messy!


I did spit once, though, but the bastard deserved it. He was throwing a party at his place, and said I could sleep there if I wanted. In the past, that's never been a problem. That night, though he pestered me non stop for 3 hours to give him a blowjob. So finally I gave in on the condition that he would never ask for anything like this from me ever again. When he came, it was the most wretched flavor in the world. So I spat it on him full force and left him to clean himself up.

Nice motdakasha haha!

Another vote for "As long as they're doing it, I don't care"

One thing about spitting though... it's hard to explain... it somehow feels like that usually means the girl didn't enjoy it as much, and if that's the case, she's less likely to do it again.

So I guess my real vote is "whatever keeps her coming back for more: :)

At that point, I'm just too damned happy to care.

My g/f swallows because she says it is the right thing to do in the situation. To me, there is no other way I would prefer it finished.

I don't care either way, as long as it gets to the point where she has to decide that.

How not to answer this question if she asks it:

"Once it's out of me, WTF do I care?."

/speaking from experience (it was a very selfish phase - I know)

as the teen kids say on television show, it is all good to me!

If I trust the guy, and he's nummy (like my hubby) I swallow and keep on strokin (stroke, stroke) till nuttin else comes out. Foreskin rox!!!

I prefer swallow. Porn style would be nice but messy. spitting after is fine. Finishing by hand is a real let down.

Swallow....always swallow...I find it disrespectful to the guy not to swallow (unless of course he's asked to come on me if a specific location..at that point I prefer the boobs so I can lick it off and still swallow)

A woman who swallows is a keeper!

The first time I had a BJ I was 16, laid up in bed with my leg in a cast. Broke it a few weeks earlier. My g/f came over and gave me my first BJ. took her 30 minutes, but I finally came. I thought she swallowed, but after I was done she stood up and said "I gohha go hrow up.. is noh eecause of hiss i jus haven hrown up in a hile" (she had a mouthful).

Ever since then I am wary of spitters....

I get really offended if a girl doesnt swallow. It is like her saying "You getting off is gross". That ruins the whole mood and no matter how good her technique was you cant classify that as a good blow job. It is like if I get my girlfriend off and then turn around and say how filthy it was. I dont think there would be many girls who would like that. Why should men like the same sort of sentiment?

1 vote for swallowing, my wife usually swallows and it is definately much better than having to grab the kleenex box after.

i feel bad so if they spit its a-ok

I like it when the wife swallows keeps the orgasam going

hm wish this was a poll so we could really see but my girl likes to spit. Does really mind the actually blow taste but she doesn't like it.

Swallow. It's less mess and it's about the only thing I can do to show I care. I don't really see how it's such a big deal but since he seems to appreciate it... I'll just go with the flow.

I think we're blood brothers. :D
I like to call the whole ensemble a "money shot".

Yeah, same with me..

Swallow, My ex used to finish with a handjob, but the first one my current gf gave me she swallowed adn it blew my mind it was almost better than sex, she even licked off some that ended up on my stomach, adn then didnt stop sucking the top till i was limp, It is heaven every time she goes down on me

Never had a woman that was a spitter...not that I would care if she did or not.

Swallow!

I wouldn't really like it if the girl spitted it out, it would be like she is disgusted by it... if you don't like it don't take it in your mouth, shooting on womens tits is almost as fun although not as pleasurable as shooting in their mouths. :D

SWALLOW

And HELL YES it does make a difference!

I love to swallow just because my bf likes it. i would really love him to come all over my boobs and face

The thought of spitting it out after it's already in your mouth sounds gross to me. Therefore I do the opposite. :D

Swallow is the only way to go. I just love getting inside me someway, it's so hot!

Can't say I'd refuse a blow job if it was spat, but I definitely get off on her trying to keep it going with me in her mouth as I come. Wow!

everyone tastes different. i've swallowed most times but i prefer to spit.

hehe, definately swallow!!!

Let him know... I'm sure he'd oblige ;)


As for my preference, well I'm really not bothered! Never even thought about it before now.

Ok I will admit I did a bit of a victory dance the first time I got the SO to come orally, simply because it was the first time he ever orgasm'd from oral sex (bad incident involving scarring on his genatalia when he was a teen) and I was freaking proud of myself. Apparently it's because I seem to enjoy it more then his previous partners, I will admit I do love giving head :shy:

Personally I prefer to swallow, I'm not sure why. It feels more complete that way, and ofcourse it makes it much easier to milk him completely dry, though I worry sometimes since I've been told that over stimulus directly after or during orgasm can be painful. I'm not overly fond of the texture or taste so I cheat a bit and deep throat when he says he's about to come, that way I don't really have to taste him as much (and the swallowing gives him a pleasant sensation during orgasm with my throat muscles contracting and relaxing). Other times he tastes absolutely delicious, I can generally guess which of the two it will be since we eat together most times so I know what his diet has been like lately.

We stay away from the porn like cumming all over me deal though, when you're required to watch 4 hours of porn a night for work purposes, well it loses it's appeal.

I definitely prefer to swallow.

Spitting is a nasty habit.
:)

What is your job? If you're tired of it maybe I can give you a break once in a while :thumbsup:

Well the So works / runs a sex store - as in they sell dildoes, fetish gear, costumes, porn

All the porn that they sell has to be watched by him or one other man to check the contents since any pornography with any aspect of violence in it is a strict no - no here in Australia.

That means we watch half the porn that goes through his store.

I don't do decoratino, so I always swallow. It's particularly satifying if I take it as deep as possible.

Does not really matter to me but I think it is sexier when she swallows. I am just happy getting touched lol, it is a win-win in my book either way.

My SO does swallow willingly and enjoys it (says she does at least). I just love it when the girlie is really into the action and wants it, that is the hot part for me.

I've only been spat once, and it was okay, except I wasn't expecting it and she was suddenly GONE to the sink... All in all, I'm more a fan of swallowing.

I read a statistic some time ago which said that about 50% of women who do oral, take the load in their mouth. From what I read here, it looks like most of these 50% do swallow, and quite readily.

From my own experiemce, I think most men who do oral swallow.

I feel quite guilty having read through this thread. I usually spit if I can, though, if someone comes at the back of your throat, you've swallowed it almost before you knew it was there. I didn't realise it was so important to so many men for their partner to swallow.

as long as i get off, i don't care what she does with it after...

I dont care either way, (lets be honest I just came so the next few seconds are a blur anways) but if I had to chose I would prefer her to swallow just is easier for all involved I believe as long as she dosent mind.

Spit, being bi I know how much I personally would rather not swallow so I don't want to ask someone to do what I wouldn't unless they like it.

There is an OVER FIVE YEAR gap between post #137 and 138 on this thread :eek:

To me the most important distinction is between finishing me off with her mouth vs asking me to warn her so she can finish me off with a hand. having to worry about whether i'm about to cum or not takes some of the fun out of it.

I don't care so long as they keep going while you're coming till you've finished before they leave to spit it.

Ruins it otherwise.

BlueStar, I guess someone felt it was time to restore the topic, or refresh the responses.

As for me, I LOVE it when she swallows. Like other posters have said, I'd take it either way or any way that I can get it, but it is really great when the orgasm just keeps rolling along while you are still engorged in her mouth.

Unfortunately for me, my wife and I had an 'incident' when we were boyfriend-girlfriend. She was giving me head and at the moment of release my hips contracted and thrust forward slightly. Her gag-reflex was triggered and she threw up a little bit, ran to the sink and washed up. Needless to say, I felt terrible about it. I apologized though there was little I could do about it, particularly afterward. From that day on, she didn't swallow anymore. From time to time in the past (we've been together 12 years, married nearly 10) she's said that she'd like to get back to doing that for me or at least try, but it hasn't worked out. I understand her difficulty, or try to, but I have to admit that it is disappointing.

Of course, the follow-up to my sad story is that I haven't had a single blowjob in over a year now. So at this point I'd be happy with a relatively lackluster handjob just to have some kind of contact.

is there a problem?

Not a problem, just a surprise. On the topic: I'm turned on by women who swallow (uninhibited = sexy) but the act itself doesn't do that much for me these days. Also I don't think I've ever been with a spitter, though I know they exist. I think most non-swallowers don't let sperm in their mouth in the first place. My current partner only rarely gives a bj to ejaculation (usually it is just foreplay) but she swallows when it happens.

i never had a swallower, just spitters. Love to have a swallower some time...

I don't care as long as I finish in the mouth without having to stop the action.

What he said.