Good for you, CityofAngels! Some women think they rule us with their sexuality and its good to knock'em down from that pedestal when they pull crap like that. Sure, girls have begged me for sex as well. I've never had that "I've got to have it now or I'm Gonna DIE!" urgent powerful need for sex and I think that percieved indifference has turned some women on. Go figure. Its not that I don't like sex, I do and am told I'm quite proficient but if I don't get any for a while its no big deal. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood or there is a moral or ethical issue with the particular situation. The women I've turned down for sex are always amazed and sometimes hurt (I feel bad about those) that their advances are rejected. I've never begged a woman for sex and when they've begged me I've been a bit mystified. No means no, right? If I ask a woman for sex and she says no I'm supposed to be cool and alright about it and just "enjoy the chase". I've had woman I've turned down get really mad, I've been asked if I was gay, and I had a couple of girls start crying because they thought I found them unnattractive. One girl, after I reapeatedly and politely said no left the room, came back nude and started rubbing herself all over me! If a man did that to a woman he'd be arrested. I mean hey, there are worse things than a naked woman cozying up to you but I REALLY didn't want sex at that time. The begging for sex sort of dirty talk foreplay sub/dom thing can be hot but when the "begging" becomes pressure its just not good at all.

No, I haven't had that happen to me(unless you count your gf begging for it while she's on her period) but if it did I don't think i could of turned down the offer(i know I'm weak). Good thing you held strong.

Sorry for the late reply.

It was definately an interesting night to say the least. Not to mention she was a bit drunk, which definately made the situation even more delicate. Thankfully, nothing more came out of the situation, specially considering she was next door to me.

Yeah, I had girls ask me for it during college every now and then. Being a basketball star at a small school had its advantages. Those were the days. I'm playing professional basketball in Croatia right now and I find it much harder to meet women.

Yeah - and then I woke up :D :D

Dude... you make me laugh and laugh.

Mr Mephisto

Finally, a man in control. Nice work man.

i had a complete stranger pretty much say she wanted to rape me.....she wanted me so badly. Kind of flattering but also kind of scary. The girl was all over me......and no nothing happened. Looking back though.....I bet that woulda been a real fun night / morning!

Yeah, a fun way to get all sorts of STDs! Oh joy.

Wasn't really begging, but one time my ex begged me to let her come up to my room so she could borrow a porno. When she got there she got her porn, and then started masterbating and of course you know what happened next. When we were done, she just left the porno there and went on her way.

i know this is a question for guys but i thought i could contribute.... i recently had a girls night out.. me a couple friends and a couple of thier friends... we were all dancing and drinking and having a fun time.. we started doing our typical girl on girl dancing trying to drive some guys wild.. we occasionally kissed just to really get their motors going.. i ended up making out with one of those friends of a friend...a lil while passed and she pulled me aside and confessed that she heard i was bi and had secretly wanted to do some of her expiriementing of her own with me... i laughed it off trying to downplay it but she was persistant and wanted to go back to her apt... i again declined and went back with the group.. the rest of the night she was dancing on me grinding me kissing me whispering to me how she would love to leave and and have our own private party and how she wanted me sooo bad... we closed the bar down and we all spent the night at her house.. i hurried up and passed out to avoid the situation.. the next day she apologized and said she was sorry for throwing herself at me and that she wouldnt let it happen again.. she still tells our mutual friend that we should go out just the 3 of us and constantly asks her about me

I've had a girl more than "practically" beg me for sex. I've had a number of girls ACTUALLY beg me for sex. The last one was a FB who was somewhat of a liar. She'd do something to piss me off and I'd refuse to fuck her. After a few days she'd usually invite me over to talk and I'd say 'Sure, but I'm not going to fuck you.' Then she'd beg me to spend the night, and I'd say, "OK, but I'm not going to fuck you, I'll sleep on the couch." She'd come down in about an hour and lay down with me all humpy and squirmy trying to get me turned on. Eventually she'd beg me to come upstairs and fuck her. I'd refuse until morning, when I was done being pissed off and common sense would take over. Hell, when there's a hot woman who's all over you all night you should take her up on it unless there's a damn good reason not to (like she dumped you for some other guy and now wants you back.)

Until I have a woman come to be and beg me to fuck her I just won't believe in the myth of women begging men for sex. There's just no way I could conceive of a woman approaching me for sex and begging for it.

Honestly, for every one man that turns a woman down there are twenty more lined up ready to give her the time of her life. So why would a woman get all worked up if one guy turned her down?

It just looks like that to us guys. Also, what iif she's fixated on this one guy because he's not "easy" from her point of view? He doesn't want her, so she's interested in the challenge, or maybe he's an ex or whatever.

It's called alcohol dehydrogenase, and your gf doesn't make it. Basically her body doesn't break down alcohol, so she only gets rid of it through piss and sweat (vomit too if it comes to it). It's much more common in asians than any other group. There's also some microbe that tends to infect people with a high carbohydrate diet (i.e. rice) that produces low levels of alchohol as a byproduct - most people wouldn't ever notice it, but asians w/o alcohol dehydrogenase cop a perma-buzz. I can think of worse problems,

You obviously....have never met my wife....heh

I've been asked, never begged. I've been told "fuck me or else!" but never begged. I copped a headjob in the freezer at work...but 'I' did the begging for that. Come to think of it...shit...I've never been begged for sex! That's it. Now I'm in a shitty mood.

I don't know about begging, my wife prefers a more physical approach. Like grabbing me and taking any response as consent.
Works for me.

i have, and all the beggers have been over-sized women of ill moral repute

ugh, total gross out from old memories

You rock! Great response.

My SO has begged a couple times recently. She went off the patch and basically forced me into using condoms even though she knows i hate them with a passion. So I haven't really been interested lately, and she pretty much begged a couple times. I gave her a good lickin' instead and called it even.

I had one person when I moved back to Canada, boy am I glad I made the right decision and stayed away. She begged, and begged, and begged, she still begs till this day, now I've just blocked her on my phone, MSN, and any other way she can contact me. *shudders* I'm just glad I am with my girlfriend now.

Both of my significant exes have begged me for sex after the breakup. Denied the first, gave in to the second.

my gf did a lot while she was going through a hard time, i think she thought it would make her feel more loved. i had to turn her down though, because she was clearly not thinking straight. toughest thing i've ever done, she can be sooo hot sometimes.

not for sex proper, but close enough for government contracting.

ended up caving in once...i don't entirely regret it but it wasn't smart. after we broke up, she tried a similar line. very glad i had my head on straight for that time...she'd cheated on me, and i'd finally gotten some perspective on her damn games.

CoA, here's to moving on. :thumbsup:

Well done CityofAngels. Many men wouldn't have been able to resist the offer.

Never had a girl beg for it. There was this one girl tho that I work with, had her over to the house a couple of times. I think the most I ever gave her was a hug, but next thing I know people are telling me she said we had screwed. Lol, she must have wanted it, just never got to that begging point.

Yes, as a matter of fact it happened to me recently. There was this woman walking in front of me on a dark street. She seemed a little nervous that I was walking behind her so I gave her my friendliest "howdy-do!". Then she stopped and talked to me and asked me where I was going. She was older and very townie and not my type.

I deliberately said that I was going to a bar that I thought she wouldn't like. She followed me in anyways. Over the course of a few drinks she propositioned me many times. I tried in vain to find a nice way of saying that I wasn't interested. She rubbed my leg and touched me innapropriately. She wasn't getting the message so I told her that there was no "nice way" of putting it but she was just not my type and that she should get over it. Then she got mad at me.

Several people online and in my personal life asked me why I just didn't go for it. After all it's been over a year since I've had sex... But the fact is that I don't want to risk an STD for someone that I really don't care about -that I'd never see again ect.

And Quite frankly, I'm not that desperate. And no she wasn't ugly or fat per se. She just wasn't someone I would be interested in.

hahaha yeah.. my girlfriend started humping my leg at like 3 in the morning.... soooo funny. we slept at 1 i believe, right after finishing EuroTrip. 3 oclock comes, and i wake up to her grinding/humping my left leg and her yelling "god i want your dick NOWWW"

senior year... good times. winter formal 05.

It happened to me once. I turned her down. I still regret it to this day, because i'm still a virgin. I could have had a lifetime of fucking, but instead had this dumbass notion that I wanted to lose my virginity to somebody I loved. I've never thought of myself as a shallow guy, nor have I committed any shallow acts, but never again will I refuse sex from such a willing woman. Especially while my sex life is in a rather pathetic state.

I have, not with many women but one in particular. The first time with her was a grudge f**k. She was getting back at her ex. There is nothing like grudge sex. One time when she was begging I resisted until she finally went down on me. This woman loved to give head. She started giving me head and didn't stop until I had come 5 times.

I have to know. Did you beg her to stop? It would be such a yin-yang balance thing :D

My girlfriend would beg me at the start of our relationship, even wake me up in the middle of the night. That was cool. Then came the public places - I went through with it. We even have sex on her period.

Good one CityofAngels I wouldn't take that shit if I were you.

I look forward to the day when I attain your degree of self-control and serenity. This is one reason I'm seriously considering going full-blown celibate while I'm in grad school. This way I hope I'll learn to find contentment with myself without the pressure of having to be in a relationship to be happy, and hopefully I'll learn not to be so desperate for sex.

Amen for Canada

5-6 before getting drunk of you ass? You must not handle it very well... owel maybe I just see things differntly... Drinking is in my blood... Natural born resistance lol :crazy:

I personally don't like being begged for sex.
Here I go, admitting an egregious lack of male prowess: Sometimes I am too tired and not at all horny enough to get it up and fuck for a 5th or 6th time in a night. In the beginning of the relationship, yeah, but after some time, bleh.
Usually she wins the argument and comes once or thrice.

it's happened to me a couple of times, and it just happened to me again this weekend. i just think it's interesting how wierd some women think i am when i'm not very interested in sex. maybe it's because i come off as a very sexual person, but sex itself is only something i like when it's with someone i love. boy, did i just go off on a tangent or what?

I'm new here, but reading this thread has made me incredibly depressed.

A few times (only from women I've had sex with already) and, to be honest, it didn't turn me on. I guess I really like "the chase".

And good for you with that self-control; I doubt I could pull that off.