I agree with most of you... When going #2 or taking a shower ( cause it gets cold) the door should be closed.. But I mean.. for everything else.. whats the big deal? We give eachother oral sex, and have seen, touched, and what not.. I don't see the issue... I can never really tell when she's doing #2 but she's fine with keeping the door open.. I need to have the door closed.. i dunno why...just a comfort thing.. its funny, because just last night I'm going #2 and she walks into the bathroom to get something and I say.. "you know...the door was closed for a reason....." she knows thats the only time I close the door... now i'm gonna have to lock it too..