a cross gender forum for questions to the opposiste sex
 

a place to ask advice or opinions that has a good draw for both sexes would be nice.

at the very top of the index list, the first forum listed is Coming Together. i think if you have a look, i think you'll find that this forum would be an appropriate place to do what you're suggesting.

that makes sense and i tried it, but i don't think it gets a good chunk of the female traffic i was hoping for. maybe i'm wrong i'm new at this, but after having a look at the ladies lounge i'm thinking it gets skimmed over.

I don't think it gets a good chunk of any traffic. The Coming Together forum doesn't seem to get a whole lot of posters. Probably because it's so close to the top, it gets overlooked just like the stickies :/