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A shy question: why do people love sex dolls?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by jeen, Apr 13, 2019.

  1. jeen New Member

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    Some people shy away from the word "sex doll" and even hate to bring it up. Items like "sex dolls" have been around for a long time, and some people even think about her. Although this special feelings and has always been regarded as the weird, but in the present, more and more people will be your feelings onto the "baby", or they suffer from social phobia, or disabled, it is difficult to build relationships with people, "dolls" have become the people that they imagined, "and sex life is not a distorted the doll. "As women become more assertive, sex dolls provide an opportunity for men to return to the kind of relationship in which they are in control.


    People who buy sex dolls have good reasons, some of them sympathetic. Some people simply find it funny; Some have social phobias, even disabilities that make it difficult to form relationships. Some people only use them to take pictures. Surprisingly, the sex doll phenomenon is hard to define.


    Living with dolls is not a twisted act. As women become more assertive, sex dolls provide an opportunity for men to return to the kind of relationship in which they are in control. Sex dolls bring comfort, fidelity and loneliness to men. Sex dolls never change men, much less do anything to make them feel ridiculous.
     

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  2. Cayvmann

    Cayvmann Very Tilted

    I don't think the problem is that women are more assertive. They may be more choosy, as they have a right to be. Dealing with people is just too hard.

    If a doll satisfies your wants and wishes, more power to you. I think I know a few people who have them and still have 'real world' relationships.
     
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  3. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted

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    I think the dating world has changed drastically in the past 50-100 years. Attractive women have a lot more options in who they will date, and a lot of them are willing and able to travel to the big cities to live. In the past they had to settle for whoever was close by.

    The companies are getting a lot better at making the dolls look realistic, and it is only a matter of time before they have some basic movements and recorded audio built in. If some heaters were added, heartbeat simulated, eyelids that blink, and a few other things I could see it being a replacement to even needing to deal with the dating scene. Add in an offline Siri/Alexa system that is basically a million or two questions and answers that it has picked up from TV shows and movies and it could hold conversations just fine. New or expanded audio packs could be downloaded from a local computer.

    Control is one part, but I don't think it is a big one. You won't have to worry about getting nagged to improve or get off the computer. And you don't need to worry about being perfect all the time or with a doll breaking up with you for someone else. I do wonder how many single guys and girls are out there working boring jobs who admire the Instagram/YouTube couples that said screw it, we are quitting and traveling the world. That might be another form of control, telling a girlfriend that she would have to give up her job and seeing her friends for a few years as you go on a big RV roadtrip, build a tinyhouse in the mountains, or go sailing around the world is a tough thing to ask. I think myself and many others would judge single guys as failures if they did any of those without a partner though. It is the whole, "living in a van down by the river" thing. But finding a willing partner who doesn't mind suffering a little for the Instagram lifestyle is not easy either.

    Once they learn how to walk or talk well enough to take over some jobs is when it might be more socially acceptable to have one. If it can be my scheduler and load and unload a dishwasher, along with folding and hanging up laundry, in addition to managing my e-mail and organizing pictures, I could see the benefits to getting one. If it takes over for some hotel front desk jobs and fast food ordering, it people might see them more and more.
     
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  4. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

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    You know I hadn't thought of it this way but why not.
    With a love doll you can get someone who will listen to you go into great detail about your hobby without getting annoyed and will dress up for you.

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  5. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

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    @redravin I see at least two musical instruments in that steampunk contraption!
     
  6. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

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    I know.
    That, the gear she has on and the piece in the background, if the person didn't make themselves, cost as much as she did.
     
  7. Herculite

    Herculite Slightly Tilted



    Like much of Futurama this isn't far off the mark.

    I personally see sex dolls as giving up by some men. Its pretty alien to me too, I can't "get" it because to me they make no sense beyond just a jack off sex toy. I couldn't ever see them replacement for real sex anymore than I see my hand as such.

    I don't see them as wrong (though apparently the UK seized a bunch of child sex dolls because fake pedophilia is illegal too, but most things seem to be in the UK these days) I just don't see them as anything to really talk about as important.

    There has always been a segment of men who for various reasons drop out of the sexual marketplace and turned to porn and other sex aids. This is just a nicer version.
     
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  8. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted

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    Black mirror tried to do something like it when it came to replacing the partner who died with a copy, but I wonder if they would do a show about what happens if the robots are perfect partners. Especially female robot partners. They could add in that the guy can't really cheat by having sex with other robots, and that fantasy sex could be done. It would be something closer to the movie Ex Machina, but if it would be an ideal outcome and world for the guy.
     
  9. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

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    Baltimore/DC
    Because often the sex you're interested in is attached to particularities or circumstances that you cannot surpass.
    Face facts sometimes others are picky or toxic...and fate has thrown your way more than your fair share.

    So, you get a play thing...which is a larger equivalent of a vibrator.

    Myself, I couldn't do it...because I get off on responses and passion.
    So until they get incredibly realistic...it's not an option.
    Even then, I need a connection...brains, humor, etc. (this is just me) so it wouldn't likely work.

    Not that I judge or disapprove of others at all.
    Whatever floats a person's boat. Honestly, I've been impressed how far they've come.

    Quite frankly, at times, I think it would be easier...but alas, I'm a guy that needs more.
    As I've said before, the dick is attached to my head & heart.
     
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  10. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted

    Location:
    Where ever I roam
    I was expecting with the advent of Siri, and then Alexa and the rest of the voice commands and responses, that they would have improved a lot more than they have in the past few years. I was expecting Siri to actually be proactive and inform me of sting things going on, news events, and helping to keep me on task and up to date. She should be doing a lot of the "personal assistant" types of tasks that are able to be done by an AI. But, I could see it being programmed to become your friend. I would be willing to buy a dedicated computer that did nothing else but run Siri and had a few TB of voice responses all ready to go without having to go out and get a response from the Internet for everything. But also be programmed to ask if I would like to post things to Facebook/Twitter/Instagram and do it for me, manage my photos/videos since it should be able to process what the photos are of and when/where they were taken, and keep up to date on meetings and events that I might be interested in.

    And yes, the AI should learn about you and what you like to make conversations. It can also help you out to improve your life.

    The first part of the movie Her showed how this could work pretty well. The second half missed the mark because the AI/computer should have been put inside of a silicone humanoid.

    And I am pretty sure that if a human woman can fake sounding interested in sex, that a robot can simulate the same noises/phrases. And with the right motion control, act real enough.