Anal Sex

Some people swear that its the coolest thing since Plan9, some people think its unnatural and should be illegal and punishable by fire and brimstone. a hermaphrodite friend of mine said that she (she preferred to be called a 'she') had more intense orgasms with anal sex.

i personally have never been curious enough to try giving and i refuse to receive, generous right? what about you guys and gals? is it awesome? is it unholy? better than "normal" sex?

 

I first read this as "banal sex" and was going to make an Amish joke...

Wait... ...the fuck? You just compared me to sodomy.

 

Poor Plan 9 - thats just cruel. Here you go Event - I leave it to you to let us know later if the advice on rough anal is good and true advice
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sf2S4lF4y8s

 

First:



Seriously, though:

The activity mentioned in the title, as shared between heterosexual couples (the actual topic of this thread, I'm assuming), is currently one of the biggest sex fads (closely followed by axilism) thanks to mainstream pornography and whatever Freud said about people that like to play with nature's contraband pocket. It isn't dirty and doesn't hurt anybody if it is done correctly. Roughly half of the women I've been with were cool with it; that goes with what most surveys suggest. The appeal is that it is new and amazing, delightfully sinful, some type of dom/sub thing or an alternative to vaginal sex in cases where people are too moronic to use birth control (Catholic girls, makes no sense to me). There are a ton of nerve endings down in that area of the human body and the thin bit 'o tissue that separates the two love canals on a woman allows many women to orgasm from said activity. Another popular activity is the insertion of a finger or adult toy during oral or intercourse to stimulate the aforementioned areas. If you've never had a girl riding on top of you and stick a finger in her own ass to push down on your cock while it's pumping away at her vagina, you're missing out.

/hasn't had sex in years

 

My nieces told me my sister would chase her husband around the house wearing a strap on - seems he enjoyed it - you sholdnt expect someone else to do something that you dont want to do yourself now should you.
One for the catholic girls
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0kJHQpvgB8

 

I enjoy it when I'm being topped... not so much for regular sex. That in mind, I will admit that the best sex experience I ever had was anal.

 

Yes, yes... that is often the opinion of someone who has no interest in any type of sexual activity that take place outside the hole in the blanket.

There are many different types of people and many different types of sexual relationships. "But you have to do it first!" logic is utterly ridiculous.

I mean, I've got the penis and they always look better in the corset and stockings.

/call me a dinosaur'd

 

But you probably have better legs - men often do. Surely you dont have rickety pins that couldnt stop a pig in a passage - not that there is anything wrong if you do.

 

Trollolololol-lollol-lol-lol.

 

I've never had a woman that wanted it, and I was always just ever so glad to be getting laid. I think the fascination of it is waning in my old age too.

 

I never thought of it this way, but I think it's true for me, as well. If I'm not "in the zone" subwise, it's not as pleasurable. But I have had intensely pleasant experiences with anal sex when the time was right.

 

For me, anal sex has always taken a sexual time to a heightened level. It is so easy to get desensitized as things move on and there's nothing like a quick jolt of pleasure in another place to totally bring you back into focus. Nearly all the best experiences I remember had some level of anal.

 

For my fiance and I anal has always been a nice way to mix it up. I enjoy it, though honestly I wouldn't want to do it all the time.
I will say though that I do enjoy a little backdoor play from her as well (with a finger).

 

I'm a big fan of going in the back door. Always have been. And the majority of the girls I've been with have enjoyed it quite a bit. Mrs. Levite and I haven't been doing much of it lately, because we're trying for a little Levite, but I do miss it from time to time, and I look forward to getting back to it.

It's very intimate, and, IMO, feels pleasantly naughty.

Of course, that's my perception of giving. I have never had any real desire to receive-- not in any serious way, although I have had several girlfriends in the past who would sometimes stick in a finger when giving me a blow job, which I confess I did enjoy.

 

Levite,

Say, didn't you bust out into poetry for me in the last thread on this topic?

I've missed your sagely advice and witty banter, brother. Good to see you.

 

"Luke, remember the prostate"

@EventHorizon, it is highly likely you've got one up your bum as we speak, and if you or someone else plays with it properly, your approach to orgasm will be a blend of carnival and possession; you will come forever. If your thinking of such a result makes you curious enough to test my statement, google 'prostate massage' for more info on the concept, techniques and equipment.

Given your OP, your first experiments may include elements of 'eww', or 'this is silly' or 'ouch'. At the same time, you will notice 'potential' for pleasure: that will be your compass and will help you navigate. Please, please remember to masturbate, at least a bit; you'll give your penis and prostate chance to meet each other half way and begin a 'dance' of interconnected sensations. And please, please remember to take it carefully, caringly and easily.

This is different from giving or receiving anal sex with a partner, but will hopefully let you have a safe and emotionally acceptable first-hand experience with which to make fullest sense of what you read; also a practical grasp, from a male, and generic mucus-membrane/sphincter-awareness perspective, of some of the issues involved if it became important to a sexual partner of yours.

 

So, anybody else read Zen's post as if it was in the voice of the creepy old dude from Family Guy?

There is absolutely nothing emotionally acceptable about that. In fact, I'm never sleeping again.

 

I don't know the creepy old dude from Family guy ...
So I read it as if it was in the voice of Sméagol - Gollum in LOTR.
Now I'm never sleeping again either .... My prrrrrossssstate!

I'l try some other voices as I make my dinner

 

Plan9 and Zen, you two kill me... now I will read posts with voices....

It wasn't until recently that my ex liked anal and it was getting over the fact that it's anal, and that there are certain stigmas associated with it, and we took it slow, worked our way up to it, and its more of a taboo or being naughty sense to it.... and I'm a dirty boy.

As for myself, its happened before didn't mind it but it was more of a defensive mechanism more than anything because another ex was giving me a bj and I was enjoying it too much to notice that I was holding her from coming for air.... my bad. I learned from it.