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Did you ever do this or do you find it weird?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by WildKard616, Oct 24, 2014.

  1. Usually I like porn but sometimes a fantasy is better when I think of someone I knew/know that I still find hot ..not celebs or anything..

    I guess almost like facebook/Instagram is better than pics of celebs or porn pics ..

    Is that weird? Not even always to get off just more appealing and enjoyable too? ...
     
  2. Snoogans

    Snoogans Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Uppsala, Sweden
    Whatever floats your boat, guy!

    I guess proximity to the person one thinks about, and the "dirty secret" adds to the excitement of the fantasy.

    Fantasies are just that, as long as it doesn't involve doing something truly horrible(at wich point one really should seek a professional to talk to)(not a hooker or contract killer) one shouldn't overthink it so much.
     
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  3. Justin Chaschowy

    Justin Chaschowy New Member

    This is actually much more healthy. In my opinion masturbation is healthy and normal but porn is unhealthy and degrading.

    Think about it, are you ever going to have sex with a porn star? No you're at worst a cuckold and at best a voyeur.

    Fantasizing about real life people you've come into contact with and not made up "fake" images is going to make you feel better in the end. It was a realer experience. It also means that one day you'll be able to fulfill these fantasies because you may end up having sex with one of the girls you're fantasizing about. Subconsciously your brain may help you along that path as well because it knows this is something you want.

    Not to mention that using your imagination is way healthier in itself than being a passive observer staring at a screen.
     
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  4. sijalica New Member

    I used to do that when I was younger but now porn is better option :D
     
  5. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC

    That's a BINGO!! :cool:
     
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  6. Levite

    Levite Levitical Yet Funky

    Location:
    The Windy City
    I don't think it's an either/or. I like celebs and (homemade) porn pics. But I confess that I also have some hot friends and acquaintances who have been known to post pics of themselves on vacations or whatnot in bikinis or tight workout/yoga clothes or excessively cleavagey tops and suchlike, and I have unabashedly used those pics as wank material or eye candy. It's not like I wouldn't have been fantasizing about them anyhow: almost all of my serious fantasies are about women I know.
     
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  7. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I pretty much never fantasize about people I know.
     
  8. Levite

    Levite Levitical Yet Funky

    Location:
    The Windy City
    Pretty sure no one who knows you can say the same, though.
     
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  9. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Out at dinner the other night, I was talking to my friend, and when he didn't respond to a question right away, he shook himself, apologized, and said that "they jiggled," thus he was distracted.
     
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  10. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I was quite the "distraction" earlier today. We went out for lunch Monday afternoon to Red Robin burger joint. The A/C was on, and it was SO COLD! I mean, I wished I had a jacket. Maybe a parka.

    We'd been doing some yard work and to the nursery, and I was wearing jeans and this kind of tight light-grey sleeveless tee. Due to the cold, my nipples were standing proudly at attention, and these two mid-teens boys, sitting with their family a couple of tables away, just could not keep their eyes off my tits,:) elbowing each other in the ribs and snickering.

    So, of course, my dancer's instincts took over, and I would look away and tweak the nips a couple of times, just add a little tease to keep their interest. Walked past their table on my way to the ladies room. When we got up to leave I did a nice slow stretch, looked right at one of them, and winked.;) Grabbed Sig's butt on the way out, too.:D

    I was quite pleased with myself, and it really turned me on that at age 38 I might still look good enough to attract a teenager's interest.:D

    Got home, I grabbed Sig by the belt and without a word pulled him down the hall straight to the bedroom. Fucked my guy, and fantasized about those two kids. Then did it again. Now, isn't that naughty?:)
     
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  11. Levite

    Levite Levitical Yet Funky

    Location:
    The Windy City
    They should film that story and show it every Christmas.
     
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  12. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North


    You know those boys went home and did some serious wanking so I think it was a fair exchange.
     
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  13. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I hope they enjoyed their fantasy as much as I did mine.:D As a dancer one of my schticks involved wrapping my boobs around a customer's long neck (I meant his beer bottle.)
     
  14. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Yeah, in my head, anyone possibly under 18 is off limits.
     
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  15. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    At work..
    one can not like this too much. need a LIKE ALOT button
     
  16. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    I cannot read this thread and look at your avatar and wonder who was he thinking about the last time.
     
  17. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC

    Damn, this thing is tight...lady got it on wrong. :confused:
     
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