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  1. I doubt many remember me.. I am me. I met my wife here. I used to write here all the time. And now I need you. I'm producing my book, my baby, my novel ad a serial and I'm looking for readers and for critics. This place used to have silly rules against links to other sites so to not piss off the powers that be I wont post the like yet... can someone let me know if a WordPress link is ok?
     
  2. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    Wow, I've never seen such a shitty way of "asking the powers that be" for a favor.

    Send me and cynthetiq the links in a PM, and we'll review. I'm trying to be nice, which is why I haven't automatically said "no". We'll have to change things behind the scenes if we're going to allow you to do this since you haven't posted enough to prove that you're not a spammer.
     
  3. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    You can't post links yet anyway ;) It takes a few posts to get that power to prevent spammers. After that point, it should be okay to post a link.
     

  4. Nice intro losthellhound . great way to win us over.
    Personally id rather not be used for your personal gain. Many of us here have been here for many years and own our own businesses (including myself), but we've never thought about subjecting the good folks here to spam or advetisements for extra traffic to our personal sites.

    Rules are in place for a reason. If Cynthtiq or Jazz decide to allow it, they will, after taking the interest of the rest of the members of board into consideration.

    Again, personally, if you're not shy in telling me about our shitty rules, i wont be shy in telling you to go fuck yourself with that book of yours. Personally.
     
  5. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    losthellhound, I recall you, don't remember who your wife was, but send us a PM we'll see what it means and what can and cannot happen within the structure we have here.
     
  6. wow.. thats the best welcome back I've gotten.. evar!

    Did I ask for personal gain? no.. I asked for readers.. and no I dont make a dime.. and aggressive responses like what you gave are exactly why myself and Averett left here. I'll PM Cynthetiq cause at least they had a human non.. whatever you threw at me.. response :)

     
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  7. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    I'm sorry, but how are we supposed to know that you're not making anything off this? How do we know you're not in it for personal gain?

    Listen, you left a long time ago, before most of us where here. Of the 6 posts you've made, half are complaints about the reboot in one fashion or another - and I'm counting the one I quoted because you seem to think that you deserve something.

    Since my opinion matters here, I'm just going to state for the record that I'm even less inclined to give you what you want simply because of your attitude - that your past 1600 posts at the old TFP mean something here and that our rules should not apply to you. I'll review what it is you send to cynthetiq because he'll share it with me - that's the way things work at the new TFP, not that you'd know because you haven't bothered to participate here or even find out how the new TFP is different than the old - but, as I said before, you have a strange way of asking for favors.

    Oh, and sorry about the server lag (or whatever it is) that made you doublepost. We know that there's an issue and we're trying to figure out what it is.
     
  8. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    Ahhhh averette!!!

    Just remember we're an amalgam of all of everything so don't focus on the negative. Sometimes we take turns at being protective or welcoming of this space. Please don't take offense.

    My god I hope you both have some tales to tell! Been a long time for sure!
     
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  9. No worries Jazz.. and no I didnt think my 1600 posts would matter, not what I contributed before.. just a more welcome response then what I got.. I didn't know that my membership was reset, and originally no matter how many posts you had hlal would attack any 'personal' link that wasn't porn.. hence my request
    --- merged: Jan 6, 2013 at 5:16 PM ---
    No worries Jazz.. and no I didnt think my 1600 posts would matter, not what I contributed before.. just a more welcome response then what I got.. I didn't know that my membership was reset, and originally no matter how many posts you had hlal would attack any 'personal' link that wasn't porn.. hence my request
     
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  10. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    Guys. This is losthellhound. He and his wife Averett met on TFP. I can vouch for him.

    Besides... he's Canadian. Don't mess with Canadians. ;)
     
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  11. Charlatan!!! Lion City!?!? But Toronto needs you to fight against Ford!!
     
  12. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    If all goes well today, he will lose his appeal and the latest battle against Ford will be won!
     
  13. amonkie

    amonkie Very Tilted

    Location:
    Windy City
    I can vouch for Losthellhound too - welcome back man! Tell Averett hi for me.
    --- merged: Jan 6, 2013 at 8:32 PM ---
    I can vouch for Losthellhound too - welcome back man! Tell Averett hi for me.
     
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  14. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    Oh yes! Good one amonkie. How rude of me.

    Welcome back, losthellhound. Please give a big hello to Averett.
     
  15. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    Guys, I'm very well aware of who he is, and I know at least part of the story. My issue here is that from the first post in this thread, the guy asking for the favor has belittled TFP ("silly rules") and shown no interest in anything other than what HE wants. Until Charlatan posted, there was no attempt to reconnect with another old member or even to acknowledge the passing of Uncle Phil.

    losthellhound, you'll eventually get what you want, but I'll be damned if I'm going to raise a finger to help you get it. Good luck with the book and all, but I can't believe that you'd seriously come back and behave this disrespectfully when all you had to do was ask nicely.
     
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  16. I dont understand, this was me asking nicely.. not asking nicely would have been posting the link ;p and in the grand scheme of things, a ban on external personal links for a community online site IS a silly rule. As for reconnecting, this was the fastest route to reconnect. I used to have Charlatan's contact information, and Malificant's, but at the end of the day, I asked for something, and those who were friends, or recognized me as part of the community could come forward to greet me. Those who didn't know me would react with hostility as I was a stranger, and that is what happened.

    There was no disrespect from my part..

    as for Uncle Phil.. you of course realize there were different communities even within the community.. and I never interacted with them.. Though even if I did.. my regards to the family of the deceased is a private thing, even more private then most everything else I shared here.
     
  17. TheSurgeOn

    TheSurgeOn Getting Tilted

    Location:
    England
    We've got a lot in common.:)
     
  18. the_jazz

    the_jazz Accused old lady puncher

    1) Go reread the last sentence of your first post in this thread and think about it if you were a TFP staffer. The way I read it, we're all assholes.
    2) You haven't bothered to read any of forum rules, which easily could have been changed in the 7 or 8 years since you've been gone. I'll give you a hint: they were.
    http://www.thetfp.com/threads/general-rules-and-guidelines-of-tfp-5-0.1131/
    3) If you'd even looked at one link further down from those new rules you would have seen this:
    http://www.thetfp.com/threads/a-reminder-about-staff-interaction-especially-for-our-long-time-members.1877/
    which seems spot on for your particular situation here. Matter of fact, I'll go so far as to say openly that if you'd have PM'd me something politely I would have been all for it - or even if you hadn't taken the tone in your opening post that the rules that exist are there for a reason and that the staff isn't actually out to get you. Instead, you can't be bothered to know the rules of the space and you're predisposed to trashing the staff.

    In the Bad Old Days, you'd have been banned by now. You're not, which I think says a lot. Matter of fact in about 5 posts, you're going to be able to post your link, and I'm not going to kill the thread and ban you for it (nor is any other staffer). My sole point from the beginning has been that you want something from us (both TFP and its staff), and you've asked for it in a way that I and others feel is disrespectful. Personally, I would have at least tried asking another way or apologized for accidentally being a jackass, but maybe that's me. But keep on thinking that you haven't been disrespectful. It's been working wonders for you so far.
     
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  19. Well I do apologize if you feel I was disrespectful to you. I do find the entirety of it odd though, as I did just now read that post you pointed out..

    I didnt say YOU were silly.. I said "This place used to have silly rules against links to other sites so to not piss off the powers that be"

    I quite liked most of the powers that be, including some of those that posted here today... If you see the above statement as an attack you need to re-calibrate. It was a silly rule.. I didn't want to piss off the admins.. though by asking about it I seem to have done just that. Never see "powers that be" as an attack.. its quite the wonderful title actually. I strive to be a power that be..

    And yes, the blame is mine, because if I did spend a few hours going through posts I would have found that you were running the show earlier.. but for some reason on my connection and on my phone.. the site takes four or five attempts to load.. which made it easier to ask.. but now I see the hornets nest, already kicked..
    --- merged: Jan 6, 2013 at 9:38 PM ---
    you're the English me.. I'm the Canadian me..
     
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  20. losthellhound , i dont know you from a bar of soap. So i have no reason to be nice or not nice to you. You may not be a stranger to some of the old timers here, but you're a stanger to me. And when strangers come into my place and shit on my floor, then telling me how nice my carpet is, im still going to be pissed.

    You asked about personal gain. It doesnt need to be monetary. I'm not benefitting out of your links in any way, nor do i want to. You'll be benefitting readers/members or whatever t is that you're after. To me, thats still a personal gain.
     
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