She dumped me, and she updates her relationship status with another guy the same day.

So, when my ex broke up with me, she vaguely just said "things have not been the same anymore, and I have been going through a lot recently". She deleted me on facebook, and wouldn't really communicate with me at all.

2 weeks later, I'm on her facebook profile and I look at some of the guys liking her photos. I look at his profile, and see his relationship status. He is in a relationship with my ex, since the same exact day she broke it off with me, according to his facebook status.

Now, I kept that to myself for a while. Couple of months go by, they break up. We start talking again. After a little argument, I lose my **** and tell her about how I know that she dumped me for this guy.

First thing she says "no I didn't leave you for x wtf"

To which I respond with the facebook evidence, and how she was in a relationship with him since the same exact date she broke it off with me.

She then just says "Woah that's my personal life, and he cheated on me so I don't like talking about it"

After I tell her that I would fully forgive her for everything, and how I apologised for snooping around her facebook, she just says "I can't do this anymore. I can't trust you. Sorry"

So we said goodbye to eachother.

Now my question: Is there a possibility that I was wrong about the fact that she dumped me for this other fella?

 

Chances are she was seeing him a few weeks on the side while with you, sensing things were going downhill. No coincidence that the day she broke it off with you, someone else posts their new relationship. Like the last post stated, she has some growing up, move forward and don't look back. It'll drive you nuts otherwise. Just block her for your sanity.


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I know you think that it is easy for us to say 'move on' while you have all this baggage and feelings make it impossible but I'm afraid that is the only healthy advice we can offer.
She will not give you anything that even smacks of closure.
If you continue to worry this thing like a dog with a bone all it will do is make you heartsick.
Saying to yourself that what happened, just happened and it is time to go live my life is the best thing for you.
If it doesn't feel like you can do that it might be worth investing in some therapy sessions.
As someone who has been going for a while, I'm not saying because I think you're crazy, just that everyone can use a little help especially if they are stuck in spot they can't get out of.

 

One more thing, take her number out of your contact list and block that also. You'll regret the drunk texting otherwise.


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Living well is the best revenge. Find someone who loves you for you. In the meantime, maximize your appeal by working on yourself, whether it's working out or picking up a new skill, i.e. dancing (salsa classes are a great way to meet women).

She did a shitty thing. There's no closure. C'est la vie.

One more thing: Don't buy in to the mindfuck that you did anything wrong by digging up that information. Know what's right and what's wrong and remain firm in your convictions.

 

Kinda sounds like she basically had another guy already and decided to break it off with you.