My wife has a odd degree of anxiety and what would be considered probably a higher level of neuroticism, which is already higher in women than men to start with. She's always worried what people will think of her, worst case scenarios, standing out too much. Ironically shes also something of an exhibitionist, these traits do not mesh well. Shes terrified what people will think. She likes when people see her naked (and by exhibitionist I mean consensual not the disorder type). She knows she has this anxiety but is reluctant to work on it when push comes to shove since its uncomfortable to do so. So I told her tonight we work on it, she agreed, and I have a plan to expose her to this in a safe environment where its all internal not external. Basically face her fears. So she is going to dress nice, makeup, summer dress and we are going to a popular spot, lots of walking and things to do. When we get there in the car I'm going to tell her to remove her panties. Thats it. For many its a 'yea whatever' and shes gone pantyless before but that was at swinger parties and it STILL was hard for her the first time, even in a longer dress. Mentally shes going to feel like I told her "lets walk around naked". So we will see how this goes, her anxiety really holds her back from being what she could be. Its not bad enough to warrant therapy for drugs, but its still a social impediment, especially in our lifestyle.