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Today is "no panties day" my wife doesn't know it yet.

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Herculite, Jun 28, 2019.

  1. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    My wife has a odd degree of anxiety and what would be considered probably a higher level of neuroticism, which is already higher in women than men to start with. She's always worried what people will think of her, worst case scenarios, standing out too much.

    Ironically shes also something of an exhibitionist, these traits do not mesh well.

    Shes terrified what people will think.

    She likes when people see her naked (and by exhibitionist I mean consensual not the disorder type).

    She knows she has this anxiety but is reluctant to work on it when push comes to shove since its uncomfortable to do so. So I told her tonight we work on it, she agreed, and I have a plan to expose her to this in a safe environment where its all internal not external. Basically face her fears.

    So she is going to dress nice, makeup, summer dress and we are going to a popular spot, lots of walking and things to do. When we get there in the car I'm going to tell her to remove her panties. Thats it. For many its a 'yea whatever' and shes gone pantyless before but that was at swinger parties and it STILL was hard for her the first time, even in a longer dress. Mentally shes going to feel like I told her "lets walk around naked".

    So we will see how this goes, her anxiety really holds her back from being what she could be. Its not bad enough to warrant therapy for drugs, but its still a social impediment, especially in our lifestyle.
     
    Herculite, Jun 28, 2019
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  2. bobby

    bobby More Than Slightly Tilted ! Donor

    Location:
    An Island off the coast of Seattle
    Hope she likes your suggestion !

    xoxoxoo
     
    bobby, Jun 28, 2019
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  3. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Now THIS is a holiday I can celebrate. :cool:

    Now what traditions can we make for it??


    BTW, Good luck for her tryout, @Herculite :)
     
    rogue49, Jun 28, 2019
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  4. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    It went well other than a "fuck you" when she took them off :D

    She understood though, we had a good night, ended up talking a lot with a unicorn so a rare good night.
     
    Herculite, Jun 29, 2019
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  5. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I love going pantie-free. It helps to negate the unfair advantage that men have for quickie sex - with that cock sticking out there and just a quick un-zipp away from freedom and a quick BJ or whatever. I go sans panties fairly often in nice or especially really hot weather. Usually in a lightweight dress or skirt. Not so much wearing jeans. I have a healthy appetite for makin' whoopie and going pantie-free makes a hot quickie easy and convenient for doggie or riding cowgirl. Besides making sex easy, it also makes a quick pee easier to accomplish.:) I've been noticed a few times, but seems to bother the viewer more than it does me.;) I'm sitting at my desk in front of my computer right now and I just slipped them off down my legs and flicked them off my foot. Now they're lying by the office door. I can hike up my little dress and touch myself... sitting in my chair slouching down with legs spread...Damn! Mr. Hitachi is in the bedroom, not in my desk!:oops:
     
    Lindy, Jun 29, 2019
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  6. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    That was unexpectedly erotic.
     
    Herculite, Jun 29, 2019
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  7. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    This may seem a little weird, but I owe my eroticism to my mom.;) She and Dad (a couple of unrepentant hippies) made sure that I didn't grow up thinking that sex was "dirty." Naughty, yes; could be messy, yes; inappropriate, sometimes; and my folks never made me feel ashamed of my body. Mom and Dad never tried to hide that the were "doing it." And gave my my favorite euphemism for sex: Makin' whoopee.:p Even as a hyper-sexual fifteen year old. Mom made sure I understood STDs and got me on birth control pills so I didn't end up pregnant and having a baby or an abortion. And that I didn't need booze or drugs as a prelude to sex. And after my mom got me pointed in the right direction my cousin Chrissy (three years older) took over and began my practicum. :D
     
    Lindy, Jun 29, 2019
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  8. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Do we have a place for our erotic writings? I've got my teen diaries and journals.:D
     
    Lindy, Jul 1, 2019
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  9. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    I used to wonder if someone took pictures of them self underage and then posted them later as an adult if they would get busted for child porn. Apparently someone did that, and yes they got arrested for child pornography of themself. Its one of those stupid laws which actually makes sense, in a weird about way (you could see someone paying off say parents and then posting later).

    I'm not sure where teen erotica falls :eek:
     
    Herculite, Jul 1, 2019
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  10. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    More parents need to do this. Mine did, my wife's,..not so much

    Sent from my VS996 using Tapatalk
     
    ralphie250, Jul 2, 2019
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  11. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Actually, we do :) ...in our exclusive Exhibition area
    Just translate the age a touch when posting, it would be lovely to peruse the misadventures
     
    rogue49, Jul 4, 2019
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  12. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I wonder if standards are different for verbal as opposed to visual. I can't find anything on prosecution for child porn for things like Fanny Hill, or Lolita. The usual disclaimer that this is a work of fiction and any resemblance is purely coincidental...
     
    Lindy, Jul 5, 2019
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  13. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I found this when someone 'liked' my post in an old thread from 2012. I didn't say "skirt or dress with no panties" but it seems obvious that was what I meant.

    (And no panties!);)
     
    Lindy, Jul 6, 2019
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  14. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    I don't think there is a law, but I'm sure someone is tempted to make one :confused:
     
    Herculite, Jul 7, 2019
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