marcopolo

I got into this convo today with a co-worker. Needless to say, we still haven't come up with a decent answer. So, is it possible for a woman to rape a man? I personally have yet to hear a man object to sex ,but then again, there maybe an exception to this rule . Possibly with an, *ahem* foreign object ... what do you think ?

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degrawj

of course it's possible. it's just not common for a man to admit to being raped by a woman.

Macheath

Yes I think it would be possible, but I suppose the feeling of violation might be more based on being psychologically manipulated than simple brute force. This, as degrawj said, would also make the man less likely to talk about it.

Lebell

Very possible, just not as common.

For example, when you get an erection in your sleep it is generally just a physical reaction and not to erotica. Fear can occassionally cause the same reaction. Not commonly, but it can.

Also, rape can mean sodomy as well as unwanted physical contact.

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snowy

It totally depends on the definition of rape being used--and there are lots of different definitions. It's easier to see how a woman can rape a man if one defines rape as saying no to sexual contact but sexual contact happening anyways, despite the no. Women (being one myself) can be very psychologically manipulative--but then again, so can men. Hopefully, though, in that kind of situation, the man has the power to walk away.

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yournamehere

Rape can mean "without knowledge" as well as "without consent". Also, I imagine it's possible for a man to be rendered incabable of giving consent (sleeping, drugs, alcohol), but still be "up" to the task.

I had a friend who passed out at a party once - he woke up to a really ugly girl blowing him. I suppose by definition he was being raped. I know for a fact he puked.

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vermin

Have you never seen a hideous woman? A cock-ring could be used to force an erection. A handgun to discourage resistance. It'd have to be woman-on-top you'd think.

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onodrim

Its more rare I'm sure, bur definently possible.

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Somenosuke

Yes, it's possible.

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Rodao

Definitely possible, although this doesn't happen anywhere near as often as male/female rape. Haven't you guys ever seent he movie Thursday ? Or was it Tuesday ? I don't remember.

Grondar

I used to wonder this.

It is certainly possible, but it rarely happens from what I have heard/read.

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Zello

Good luck trying to file a complaint on that.

I've never actually heard of it happening but I would guess it has happened.

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uncle phil

what lebell said, as well as age differences in most states (new hampshire and oregon come to mind recently...)

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Peetster

Clearly possible, but most guys would not think of it in those terms.

BigJayz

Definately!!! And I don't think I'd mind being raped by the right woman!!!

Sun Tzu

I know Im perverted, but the thought a woman raping me is a turn on. (provided there's no strap on or similiar direction being considered--then its turning into a bad scenerio)

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Daval

I think it would be possible, but the shame factor especially for men would cause most to be unreported

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The_Dude

why not?

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BoCo

If I wanted it, then I'd be hard, and it wouldn't be rape. If I didn't want it, then I wouldn't be hard, and she couldn't fuck me.

So, no, I don't think it's really possible.

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ARTelevision

no difference between genders in my book - so it's a no brainer.

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Binder

i think not only is it possible, but it is a reality. it just happens much less frequently than men raping women.

Ghost Bladder

BoCo what if she used a strap on?

Lebell

Just curious,

Is it the fantasy that turns you on or the reality?

I can't imagine enjoying sex with anyone if there was a 9mm in my mouth or the point of a knife was at my throat drawing blood.

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Somenosuke

There are going to be times in people's lives where they are going to respond to stimulation whether it's wanted or not. If a woman gets wet while being groped rudely, that doesn't mean she likes it. The body is going to respond to the stimulation whether the person feels it should or not. This is not to say that a person's desire not to become physically aroused could not override the body's natural response, but in some cases, that just isn't possible.

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Ghost Bladder

Hasn't anyone heard the statistic of straight men being raped by other men, which often results in the victim getting hard? Your porksword has a mind of it's own.

jets

Yes. Some bitches are huge.

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Johnny Rotten

Well, I imagine it's not too farfetched once a strap-on gets involved.

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SecretMethod70

Definitely possible. I'm pretty sure it's not as common as the other way around - the genetic wiring just isn't there in females to create the same frequency. But it's definitely possible and does happen.

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Spungfoo

Yes, it does happen... I know someone who's girlfriend would fuck him (violently)while he was asleep.

juanvaldes

Yes.

But were all horney bastards so it's not very common

oane

I sincerely hope he puked on the bitch's face

And oh yes, watch Thursday. It's a funny movie, enjoyable too. Then Paulina Porizkova rapes our hero........

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duckduck

Definitely. This was *kinda* touched on in Crichton's book that became a movie with Demi Moore and Michael Douglas (I forget the name).

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Cynthetiq

hmm.... remember Mr. Wallace from Pulp Fiction... oh that's right we're not supposed to talk about that scene with the gimp.

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Oilman

I think if a man is raped, he is still fairly happy, he still "got laid" even if it was forced upon him... On a serious note, I never heard of a woman raping a man (or even a man raping a man). I think guys are to macho to admit it anyways

mpedrummer2

Micheal Crichton wrote a book about this...Disclosure, I think...might be a movie too...I forget.

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Dragonlich

As usual, the fantasy isn't quite as nice as reality.

Fantasy: gorgeous woman (women?) tie you to your bed, force you to have hot monkey love with them, you both enjoy it.

Reality: hideous, fat, scary-looking thing (once a woman) ties you up, kicks your arse, insults you for being a wimp, forces you to have an erection (not that hard with the proper physiological stimulus), and rides you. She then leaves before you even come. You cry like a baby and feel utterly violated and dirty. (And this doesn't even include a strap-on...)

Remember, kids... rape isn't about sex, it's about *power*.

Nad Adam

It's possible, it just takes a lot of determination.

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Spidey

In New Zealand there is this fucked up law.
Women can legally have sex with people under 16 without concent, while males can't have sex with females under the age of 16 WITH concent.

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rsl12

an illustrative example would be helpful. has there been ANY reported cases of women raping men in the US?

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BoCo

Stay away from my ass, woman!!!

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