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Old 06-15-2003, 05:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Does your body size?

Does your body size affect your sex life?

I know it affects mine...It sucks to only be able to do it a couple of ways because I am so big
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Old 06-16-2003, 02:06 PM   #2 (permalink)
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my body IMAGE more than my body size effects my sex life...

if i am "feeling fat"... then certain positions make me feel even more fat... ugly... vulnerable...

Willow is more than understanding, loving, and actually prefers me heavier than i usually am.... but i still limit myself with my own feelings and perceptions... it's hard on him, as he is often saying he wishes that i could see myself through his eyes...

i feel pretty sad about it at times... and am working on changing it... talking about it with others and realizing i am not alone helps a lot...

thanks to those of you who come here and share so openly...
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Old 06-17-2003, 09:17 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Does your body size?

First, though you didn't ask, two suggestions. Go to sizewise.com for many resources for large women. A book suggested there, called Big, Big Love, by Hanne Blank, has a lot of info/suggestions on sexual positions that work well for larger people.

To answer your query. My weight has fluctuated 100 lbs. over my life time thus far.
When I was very big, exposing my naked body to my lover bothered me a lot. Getting a comfy sexual positon was difficult and I never wanted the lights on, even tho' my lover preferred to be able to see me. Also, I declined his suggestions to shower together. I had a lot of body shame & hatred.

I regret now that I wasted many intimate moments. No matter what my size, I am a sexual person- and I will no longer let my body shape or size get in the way of being fully sexual, alone or with my partner.


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Does your body size affect your sex life?

I know it affects mine...It sucks to only be able to do it a couple of ways because I am so big
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Old 06-17-2003, 09:25 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Re: Does your body size?

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I regret now that I wasted many intimate moments. No matter what my size, I am a sexual person- and I will no longer let my body shape or size get in the way of being fully sexual, alone or with my partner.
AWESOME attitude!
DoubleD thanks for being so real in your response... thanks Divine, for starting the thread...
as i said earlier, talking about it and sharing with others helps me... your post just helped... this thread helps... i hope it's doing the same for everyone else...

*feeling pretty good about LL right now*... *sappy smile*

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