Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community  

Go Back   Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community > Chatter > Ladies Lounge


 
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 07-20-2003, 07:26 PM   #1 (permalink)
Crazy
 
Do you like to watch (or listen)?

Nikki asked if you keep your eyes open during sex, but I want to know if there are any female voyeurs out there.

Once in college, my bf was over and my roommate was in her room with her fiance (they had just gotten engaged recently). The apartment had bedrooms upstairs that had cutout windows in the walls that looked out onto a tall 2-story den. I was on the phone in my bedroom downstairs, and my bf was watching tv in the den. It was late at night after we had been all out together, and my bf comes in and says, "come in here, I think your roomate and her fiance are going at it!" I was about to chastize him for listening in on them, but as I came into the den, I could hear them too. Something at that moment made me really horny and I was transfixed by the sounds of the lovemaking. We both stared at the cutout window for a moment or two, then headed back to my bedroom to take care of business ourselves.

I never thought before that I would enjoy the thought of others making love, but being so close to it without them knowing about it was sort of exciting for me. I never told them that we could hear them, and I've never been close to others having sex since then, but the thought still excites me.

Anyone else have similar experiences?
awanderingsoul is offline  
Old 07-20-2003, 07:32 PM   #2 (permalink)
Insane
 
Location: Seattle
oh, definitely.
i was at my boyfriend's apartment with another couple of mutual friends and a fifth wheel... my boyfriend went to make sure that the fifth wheel got on her bus alright and i was left alone with the other couple having sex in my boyfriend's bedroom. i got incredibly turned on and downright giddy. hehe.

and to everyone who enjoys watching and listening, do you enjoy watching a partner masturbate as a sort of foreplay? i do.
__________________
"I could be the walrus ... I'd still have to bum rides off people." -Ferris Bueller.
darksparkles is offline  
Old 07-20-2003, 08:58 PM   #3 (permalink)
Psycho
 
Location: Tempe,Az....until I figure things out...
I can say I have seen and heard people having sex and it really does nothing for me. much like watching/listening to porn.. no effect. I lived with an ex and another couple a few years ago... one afternoon they didn't know I'd come home and my roommates were having sex... steph yelled out "PUNISH MY PUSSY!" in the middle of it.. and all I can do is laugh and tell everyone about this. but that is also a big reason listening does nothing for me. But that's awesome it gets others in the mood.
__________________
"Things can only get so bad before they have no choice but to get better.."

Quote:
Nitz Walsh : It's not fair God. Why am I still a virgin?........ Stupid gnome.
BlueBongo is offline  
Old 07-20-2003, 11:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
Hiya Puddin'! Miss me?
 
Location: Silicon Valley, CA
For me, it depends on the people who are involved. One of my friends got involved in a foursome once. I had to wait for her to finish before we could go back to her home. That didn't do anything for me. Another time though, a close high school friend was playing with her boyfriend in the backseat of my boyfriend's car. That was really hot. Watching and listening can both be a turn on in certain situations.
__________________
=^-^= motdakasha =^-^=
Just Google It.
BA Psychology & Photography
(I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)
motdakasha is offline  
Old 07-21-2003, 10:35 AM   #5 (permalink)
Addict
 
Location: Northeast Ohio
I like to watch and listen, but I like to be involved in it even more!
__________________
"Every tomorrow brings new opportunities, challenges we must address...A chance to affirm all our wishes and dreams, to seek beauty and true happiness."
sierra2774 is offline  
Old 07-21-2003, 07:31 PM   #6 (permalink)
Junkie
 
SabrinaFair's Avatar
 
Location: Louisville, KY
Ew...I once heard my parents getting it on. Such a turn-off that I didn't even want to *think* about sex for a few days. I've never had a really positive experience seeing or hearing other people in real life, and porn always sounds so fake that it doesn't seem like an example of what "real" sex is like.
__________________
"With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
-Desiderata
SabrinaFair is offline  
Old 07-21-2003, 08:40 PM   #7 (permalink)
Crazy
 
Sabrina-

Ok, you turned up another dimension to this question, but I'll let someone else start a new thread with it. I've never heard my parents having sex (or walked in on them or anything like that), but the thought of them having sex gives me the creeps. Why is that? I just don't like to think of them that way!

Most of the time, commercial porn doesn't do it for me either, but somehow, watching (or hearing) two people I know have sex is a big turn-on for me. Maybe because of the authentic passion involved, I don't know.
awanderingsoul is offline  
Old 07-21-2003, 08:46 PM   #8 (permalink)
Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash
 
anti fishstick's Avatar
 
Location: oregon
i've never been in that situation. and i would be shy to do stuff knowing someone could be watching or listening. but i think i should get over this fear.. at least somewhat bcos my bf and i are going camping to see a concert with his friends in a couple weeks.. and we get our own tent
__________________
And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anais Nin
anti fishstick is offline  
Old 07-23-2003, 08:05 AM   #9 (permalink)
Junkie
 
Minx's Avatar
 
Location: Up yonder
I find the thought of watching or listening to someone else having sex is highly erotic. It definately gets me going!! A very very long time ago my boyfriend and I fooled around with another couple in the same room and it was a huge huge turn on. Both watching them and knowing they were watching us. I would have to be very selective over who was watching though if I was ever going to do it again. I guess there's a little of the exhibitionist in me as I find it very exciting doing it in a public place where you might be watched.

Quote:
Originally posted by darksparkles
and to everyone who enjoys watching and listening, do you enjoy watching a partner masturbate as a sort of foreplay? i do.
OMG yes yes yes! This is a huge turn on!!
__________________
You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!

Last edited by Minx; 07-23-2003 at 08:09 AM..
Minx is offline  
Old 07-30-2003, 01:22 PM   #10 (permalink)
Turn off your TV.
 
Location: ... .- -. ..-. .-. .- -. -.-. .. ... -.-. --- --..-- -.-. .-
I don't like to watch unless I get to participate somehow.
__________________
"inhuman fiery goat worship" is an anagram for "information superhighway" -kingvolc
collide is offline  
Old 10-25-2010, 11:31 PM   #11 (permalink)
Crazy
 
tasineah's Avatar
 
Location: NE region of the united states
I am fiercely protective of what I claim as mine, so I will not let anyone be involved with me and mine.

but between what is mine, and I...my eyes stay open. And I want his open as well. I want his eyes to watch my lips lock around...I want him to see the desire on my face and the thrusting of my body and my sweat on my brow and the twitches in my arms as my muscles tire...I want to absorb his needs and read what he needs next and how far to go and how his eyes fly open wider and ....

sex is sensual...meaning senses...all of them...
tasineah is offline  
 

Tags
listen, person, perspective, watch

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 05:19 PM.

Tilted Forum Project

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0 PL2
© 2002-2012 Tilted Forum Project

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360