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Old 04-26-2003, 02:53 PM   #1 (permalink)
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How long do you girls normally wait before having sex with a new partner??
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Old 04-26-2003, 04:19 PM   #2 (permalink)
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no certain amount of time... just wait til it feels right
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Old 04-26-2003, 07:26 PM   #3 (permalink)
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well... my general rule of thumb is to wait 2 months... that way i know if the guy is interested in me for me or me for sex.... most guys won't wait 2 months if they just want to get laid.... that being said, most of my friends wait between 2-4 weeks.... not that i'm a prude but... the method worked for me... i've been with the guy who waited the 2 months for 2 and a half years now...
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Old 04-26-2003, 11:47 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Whatever I'm in the mood for...sometimes I don't want to wait...sometimes I'm in a prudish mood and won't have sex for weeks. It just depends on the situation and how I feel.
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Old 04-27-2003, 11:29 AM   #5 (permalink)
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It depends on the situation. Right now, I think I would be ready now! It's been awhile.
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Old 04-27-2003, 02:17 PM   #6 (permalink)
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For religous reasons, I'm waiting till marriage to have sex. But, if it weren't for that, I'd say whenever both people feel comfortable with it, and its clearly communicated. I don't think there can be a set time, every single relationship is different.
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Old 04-27-2003, 10:56 PM   #7 (permalink)
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hrmmm... used to be I'd wait quite a while... (at least 2 months) ...but the way my current relationship started it was right away. Can't deny that, but we're both happy and I know we'll be together for a very very very very long time. So good things come out of strange beginnings.
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Old 04-28-2003, 02:04 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Sometimes I waited, sometimes I didn't. But I made a promise to myself about this very topic. I'm going to wait at least until there is a ring on my finger, if not until after I'm married again. What can it hurt?
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Old 04-28-2003, 05:36 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Jadzia I can only hope to one day be as strong as you.

Unfortunately my hormones still outweigh logical thinking at this point in my life.
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Old 04-28-2003, 08:24 AM   #10 (permalink)
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interesting that no one's mentioned yet to wait until you've got proof that you and the other are free from STD/HIV.

granted, at one point, i didn't care about such things, but now i think it's smart to keep such things in mind.

other than that tho, just depends. on the people, the situations, etc.
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Old 04-28-2003, 08:52 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I try to wait until I have a pretty good feeling for what the other person is like, what their intentions are, are they truly interested, am I truly interested in them?

There are a few factors involved. I don't have a certain time frame that I restrain myself to. I think if I did, I would spend most of the time thinking about the "big day" and spend enough time thinking about the real issue at hand, which for me is compatibility.
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Old 04-28-2003, 03:25 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Never thought about having a set time before. Whenever you think its right.
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Old 04-29-2003, 07:50 AM   #13 (permalink)
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i don't guess i feel like there is a set time.... i guess when both the involved people feel ready and are comfortable with each other
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Old 05-07-2003, 04:27 PM   #14 (permalink)
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i don't guess i feel like there is a set time.... i guess when both the involved people feel ready and are comfortable with each other
i have to go with my roommate on this one. i want to know that both of us are comfortable with each other. i want to know that we really care about one another and that sex isn't going to change us or our relationship. std's are a concern, but if i care about a guy enough (which i do now) and know that i will probably end up staying with him, i'm willing to take the chance.
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Old 05-08-2003, 03:52 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Old 05-15-2003, 11:18 AM   #16 (permalink)
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I think it all boils down to if the timing is right myself. I also like to know a little about them first, as far as STD's go.
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Old 05-15-2003, 12:34 PM   #17 (permalink)
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There isn't a set time limit...when it feels right you just know. Sometimes it is fast and sometimes slow - depends on the man and the moment.
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