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Just a question that came up between my husband & I as to whether women look at male pornography to get off as guys do with female pornography.
Seems like a good question to get feedback on. I never really cared to do so, but other women may.

Nancy

never tried it but maybe I should. I've seen a couple of movies and read some erotic novels and they aroused me quite a bit!

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*Nikki*

Even though I am in a relationship with a man and always have been, I have absolutely no interest in looking at naked men.

It does nothing for me. I would much rather see naked women. I have never sought out pictures of naked men and I don't see myself ever doing that for any reason.

Good question!

Averett

Ditto what Nikki said.

Well, I guess except for the first part. Naked men are great if they're right there in front of you

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sillygirl

The answer to the question is no. But it IS a good question. I think that most women share the same opinio

I work at a company that deals with a lot of adult websites. And very rarely does a woman call about her account to a porn site. n.

I think a man in boxers is sexier than a man naked. Or something showing just enough of that "V". Maybe that's just my personal opinion.

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SiN

^ what *Nikki* & Averett said.

I can have naked men in my porn, with 1 or more chicks, fine.

but on their own? nope, no way. no thanks.

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SabrinaFair

To get off? No.

Occasionally check out The Full Monty just to look at some guys so I don't forget what the nude male form looks like, but does very little for me sexual.

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ladyadmin

I do not look at male or female pornography to get off; I am able to get off on it but moreso apt to when the person is in front of me.

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sexymama

I don't look at pictures, unless it is a man making love with his mate -- that is beautiful and sensual. What I enjoy much more is reading.

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anti fishstick

nope, i'd much rather look at naked women.
i think part of the reason is that the standard 'look' in male porn are men with a lot of muscle and big physiques and that doesn't really do anything for me at *all*.

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raeanna74

As sexymama said, reading about it does more for me than looking at pictures.

I do find pictures of naked men a turn-on. Pictures of a couple in the act or of woman seems to do more for me though. I have never looked at them to "get off".

When I get turned on enough though I'll go play with Dei37 a little and he can tell by how aroused I am that I've been either reading or looking at pictures. To me it's more like foreplay, just a part of the big picture.

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CinnamonGirl

It seems most men in porn are there because they're well-endowed...I can't say I've ever seen a hot guy in a porn (or maybe I'm just not looking hard enough...hmmm...)

Edit: Oh, right---I forgot to actually answer the question Not really, although FFM seems to strike a chord with me *shrug* Other than that, I get much more out of books/erotic short stories/etc.

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brianna

y'all should check out "sweet action" magazine -- a couple of girls put it together to make a more female friendly porn magazine: www.sweetactionmag.com.

:::OshnSoul:::

I think women get off by stimulation-touch
men can get off just by looking............lol, isn't that funny..........

*Nikki*

brianna that mag actually seems kinda cool.....

brianna

nikki -- i ordered a copy of it to be supportive (cause i think the founders are making a valiant attempt to even the scales) and i really like it -- the articles are good and the pictures walk the line between art and porn (something I think is important -- not all female friendly porn needs to be in black and white!).

onodrim

The quick answer is no. Sometimes the pictures can be stimulating, but never enough for me to really get off on.

Nope I totally agree with you there.

Agreed here too.

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gabshu

Male gay porn is the only porn that really turns me on, and it doesn't have to seem like they are "making love" or whatever. I don't know why. Girl porn doesn't do it for me either

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Eclipse26

A man alone doesn't do a whole lot for me, but paired with a woman or 2 it can be quite the turn on. It's still not enough to get off though.

For me, it's all the visuals in my head, more actions that I envision, than just looking at someone.

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venusinfurs

nothing like a hot naked asian man...or gay porn to do the trick when i am not in the mood for girl on girl action.

fallenangel

i'm straight, well let's go with bi-curious, but i'd honestly rather look at a guy and a girl, or two chicks than just checkin out a naked guy in a porno, and i've seen my fair share of porn i guess as a chick at least. Maybe there's just something erotic about two chicks, but i dunno, i can appreciate the male form, but it's not exactly something i'd like to oggle while trying to get off...

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tinkerbell

I don't like male nudity at all, it just doesn't do it for me. I'm straight, but I'd rather look at nude girls.

NoLa

^ Same here, male poronography is gross.

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diddagirl

I dont really find male porn that arousing. I would get off far more watching 2 chicks.

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I don't prefer to look at nekkid men at all, unless it's my husband, of course.
Women's bodies are so much more defined and sexy, to tell you the truth.

wannabenakid247

Any porn is cool in my view.

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^^^ are you a guy? Just have a strange feeling.......not trying to assume anything.....

Angel

I'm with the majority here.
As far as a man goes, the suggestion of nudity is far more attractive to me than the actual full visual nudity. Unless it is personal pictures I have for myself.

I prefer viewing girls together or a guy and a girl / girls. I tend to get more aroused seeing a girl receiving oral than anything else and it doesn't matter if she is getting it from a guy or a girl. YUM!

And yet I LOVE having sex with my man!!! *shrugs*

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Mel

Male porn doesn't excite me in anyway... men really don't have anything going for them on screens, sorry guys! In person though... SO's are great

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qtpye4u84

I dont really like naked men, I like from the belly button up the chest and ass are the best.
I Like female sex films, or male female or female female male porn for when I get off.

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bernadette

sorry girlfriends... i just skimmed this thread.

but no, i don't look at any porn, male or otherwise, except for the porn that i am randomly exposed to in threads on message boards.

i'd rather just have the real thing, my husband.
don't need pictures or movies for arousal.
naked bodies. yeah everyone has one. so what?
penis, ass, tits, vagina, parts is parts. in & out. porn is boring to me.

i watched that lesbian video today with the eels that was posted in nonsense, but the thread has obviously been deleted.
anyway, that kinda shit is just fuckin weird to me. i don't get it. i don't want to get it either.

i don't simply have sex. i make love with my husband.

but whatever turns ya on, it's all a personal thing.

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darksparkles

it doesn't do anything for me - i'm not entirely sure why.

by the way, hello everyone! i think it's been around six months since i've posted :\

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jazz

A naked man in a magazine does absolutely nothing for me. I received an issue of Playgirl once and it didn't turn me on in the slightest. I need the naked guy to be right there in front of me in order for any excitement to happen.

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Crusader

I find it arousing, but I don't 'get off' on it. Seeing a picture of a naked hunk is a real turn on. The reason there isn't male porn isn't popular with females is because men are visual creatures, whereas women prefer touch.

Unfortunately I don't think there will ever be equality in the porn industry. Gay porn tends to have boyish guys, which I am not into. There are some porn magazines out there that cater to women, but I'm sure they struggle.

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qtpye4u84

It has to be ruffff rufff sex, that can make me get some really fast.
Porn thats ruff I ment.

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la petite moi

No, don't like male bodies other than Nwlinkvxd's.

I usually read stories, or look at other girls.

maleficent

No.
Pornography is about fantasy.
Most, if not all male porn is geared towards gay men.

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Redgirl

I do look at male porn to get excited. I like to watch people having sex. Whether it's 2 guys, 2 girls, or any combination thereof. It can be pictures or videos, but something has to be happening. Just standing there being naked doesn't do anything for me.

Like Raeanna said, it's just foreplay really. I go find my SO when I'm actually ready to do the deed. I do find it erotic to watch a porn while my SO and I are having sex. Just glance at it from time to time and see what's going on.

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Redgirl

I thought I was the only chick who liked watching male gay porn! Nice to meetcha!!

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Amethyst

No, I don't watch male pornography to get off. I would rather watch a guy and a girl or two girls and a guy. I am not into reading either.