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Rubyee · 07-02-2005, 12:03 PM

So, of all the women I have spoken with, none seem to climax the same. Just wondering what all the women here are like.

I have a series of short, tiny little orgasams, and sometimes a big one. I guess in my case, I am blessed with multiple orgasams.

I also think that a lot of it is psychological, and not so much physiological.

superredhead · 07-02-2005, 12:59 PM

it goes pretty much build up to the huge one, the huge one, then afterwards a series of smaller, yet no less pleasurable ones. weird... ive known some women never to had one

ngdawg · 07-04-2005, 09:10 PM

I usually have one good smaller one and if everything's going well, one or two huge ones after. I actually don't like having those little fast ones because I know then the great one won't arrive-little NG kinda gives out.

In trying to explain how it gets to that point, the closest I could get in describing was, it's like a building itch...
I also think it's highly psychological.(Our primary sex organ is the brain, after all). Those small annoying O's are more when I'm self-conscious, tired or not into what I'm doing.

*Nikki* · 07-05-2005, 07:10 AM

I just have one big one then I want to go to sleep

ShaniFaye · 07-05-2005, 07:14 AM

90% of the time its one BIG one and like nikki....I want to sleep....I pass out just like a guy lol

Dave is the ONLY man I've ever had multiples with and its been happening more and more frequently these days with him....and then...I pass out just like a guy heheheheh

snowy · 07-05-2005, 07:28 AM

It depends--with masturbation I tend to have one big one versus sex where I have lots of little ones. The multiple little ones are more satisfying to me than the big one. I should note that the little ones come easily during sex but the big one is harder to get to, which is another reason I prefer the little ones.

Mm, orgasms.

Sugar&Spice · 07-05-2005, 06:04 PM

One big one and then I go limp. I'm like a rag doll. It also depends on the position. If I am on top I can have one big one and then three minutes later have a slightly smaller one in a different position.

Minx · 07-07-2005, 01:02 PM

I'm like onesnowyowl....I tend to have big ones when I'm masturbating. When I am with a guy I tend to have lots and lots (and lots) of smaller ones. It's all good, either way!

I do find that if I am on top of the guy I tend to have stronger ones then in the old missionary position. My best, biggest, "rock my world" O's have come when he's doing me from behind and touching my clit at the same time. Then it's......OH BABY!

jillian · 07-12-2005, 06:24 PM

i hvae several small ones during foreplay... then sevral more small ones during sex and then the big one during sex and if the guy/girl is working it in the right spot one fraking huge one that makes me just about black out... legs shaking ragdoll type followed by several teeny tiny ones that i just consider aftershocks

JustJess · 07-13-2005, 08:04 AM

Huh. I am generally a one-shot kind of girl - it's grand and lovely and then I enjoy the ride that comes after, especially since that shot just made for some perfect lube. And I am definitely a passer-outer... just let me sleep!!!

sexymama · 07-14-2005, 08:59 PM

I could almost quote Shani -- only with Lebell, not Dave. The passing out is interesting as Lebell wants to cuddle (Isn't that the woman's role?) and I want to sleep.

StormBerlin · 07-14-2005, 11:02 PM

When I masturbate, I can think of anything under the sun and I'll still get off. It's kinda weird

But normally it's one powerful orgasm, then I have to take a few minutes to recooperate, then i'm ready for another big orgasm. As for sex, I can have a few small ones in a row, but normally I have one big one then i'm done. I get super dry after I orgasm too, so lube is a must if we're still going at it

bad jane · 07-15-2005, 12:24 PM

depends on a lot of factors--my mood, the position, the intensity, the situation, etc. and sex is different than masturbation for me.

sometimes i get lots of little ones that are perfectly satisfying--other times it is lots of little ones that leave me aching for the big one (where it isn't just wanting to get off--but needing it). then there are big ones too, but even then, the sensation is different. sometimes it's implosive where i just want to draw everything in, other times it's explosive and i loose all sense of myself.

i think a lot of it is in the head though. i know the closer and more loving i'm feeling to my partner, the more intense and implosive the orgasms. a quickie is more likely to result in a big orgasm with small waves after. rougher sex gives intense orgasms that are very explosive but typically leave me feeling super cuddly and loving after.

lots of variation for me lol

neveroddoreven · 07-15-2005, 01:21 PM

There is generally quite a build up to a big one. Then one or two even bigger ones with the intercourse that generally follows the oral.

If it's been awhile the first one comes too fast and is not all that satisfying. I guess because there is less build up.

mandy · 07-25-2005, 04:02 AM

fortunately for me, like rubyee, i too am blessed with multiple orgasms.there will be build up and i'll have a really good one then there'll be more build up and i'll have a series of nice ones, then theres the final one where i cant move afterwards and i'll just lie there for like half an hour and have a smoke.then we have the other occasions when there's just this huge amount of build up and i'll have just one huge one and be tired after that.thats when i've not had sex in a while...

hip hip hooray for multiple orgasms!!! whose with me?:-)

chelsea_9 · 08-07-2005, 05:34 PM

i think i've climaxed twice in a 5 month relationship. it sometimes makes me feel pretty
"sub-par", if you will.
and for some reason, i have this idea in my head that if i gave any pointers on what he should be doing that'd it'd be pretty insulting to him.
but i am the rookie [just for lack of a better word], so it could be called for.

Eweser · 08-07-2005, 05:58 PM

i thought i was the only one that did the sleeping thing. like sexymamma, my husband is the cuddler; i just want to crash. i tend to just have one orgasm, but if i'm not too tired i'll have one during foreplay and one during sex. i have had more than two before, but it hasn't happened often.

cellophanedeity · 08-07-2005, 07:46 PM

Oops! Thought this was a different thread.

Wrong window.

lillala · 08-08-2005, 04:20 PM

I used to always have one big one but with my current boyfriend I have several small ones and usually one or two big ones. It's absolutely amazing.

Jenni_bell · 08-23-2005, 11:27 AM

I really don't have small ones or the faintest idea what small ones you gals are talking about. I have multiple ones but the first one is intense and the second is really intense and the third I squirt which is out of this world freaky intense but makes a big mess and NO that is not pee. Squirting is a solo thing right now. A guy has yet to get me to g-spot but I am working at that

Jenni

shesus · 08-23-2005, 11:50 AM

I have the multiple ones and usually the big one first. Although, sometimes I think the first one is the big one, but the last one comes and it is black-out time. I love the ones where I black out because they are so intense. I just lay there and quiver for awhile afterwards. I'm not sure if blacking out is healthy, but it sure feels good!

5757 · 08-23-2005, 11:59 AM

Bad Jane... you described exactly what I go through. To a T... You know whats funny, Im dating a guy right now who is completely inexperienced! I took his virginity... so I don't think I will be having very many orgasams. (sigh) I can work it to the point where I have a big one... but if I'm going to reach that point, I need there to be passion.. I need to go slow, kiss slowly. He doesn't understand. In time.[B]

taboo · 09-24-2005, 01:07 PM

i normally have one big one during sex, and maybe some small ones after..mayyyybe

pyreglow · 09-28-2005, 02:03 PM

i'm so jealous of all of you.

Gilda · 09-28-2005, 10:18 PM

It depends greatly upon what we're doing. Grace has me all tuned up where in the course of regular vanilla stuff I can be having the little ones one right after another stacked up on top of each other pretty much for as long as I can stand it. I've never really been in the right mind to count. But that almost never leads to a big one. For the big sustained orgasm, it takes a lot of build right up to the edge, back off, build up, back off, repeat as needed. The longer the teasing, the longer and more intense the orgasm when it does come. It took us quite a while to learn enough about my body to be able to get to where I could have a big one, and there are still times when it we miss the mark by a bit and I end up with the series of smaller ones, which still isn't a bad thing. When I do have one of those monster ones, there's usually a second, smaller one or two, what she, like a couple of ladies above, likes to call "aftershocks".

Hers work differently, with a short series of them, three or four, gradually building in intensity until she hits the big one.

With masturbation, it's pretty much one shot and I'm done.

wikkachik · 10-22-2005, 07:20 PM

mine are just plain weird. they tend to change almost everytime... but i've only been with one guy so im sure i even have anything to compare right now.

07-02-2005, 12:03 PM	#1 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	Describe your normal course of orgasam So, of all the women I have spoken with, none seem to climax the same. Just wondering what all the women here are like. I have a series of short, tiny little orgasams, and sometimes a big one. I guess in my case, I am blessed with multiple orgasams. I also think that a lot of it is psychological, and not so much physiological. __________________ You don't know from fun.

07-02-2005, 12:59 PM	#2 (permalink)
superredhead Crazy Location: Around So Cal.	it goes pretty much build up to the huge one, the huge one, then afterwards a series of smaller, yet no less pleasurable ones. weird... ive known some women never to had one __________________ yawn

07-04-2005, 09:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	I usually have one good smaller one and if everything's going well, one or two huge ones after. I actually don't like having those little fast ones because I know then the great one won't arrive-little NG kinda gives out. In trying to explain how it gets to that point, the closest I could get in describing was, it's like a building itch... I also think it's highly psychological.(Our primary sex organ is the brain, after all). Those small annoying O's are more when I'm self-conscious, tired or not into what I'm doing. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

07-05-2005, 07:14 AM	#5 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	90% of the time its one BIG one and like nikki....I want to sleep....I pass out just like a guy lol Dave is the ONLY man I've ever had multiples with and its been happening more and more frequently these days with him....and then...I pass out just like a guy heheheheh __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

07-05-2005, 07:28 AM	#6 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	It depends--with masturbation I tend to have one big one versus sex where I have lots of little ones. The multiple little ones are more satisfying to me than the big one. I should note that the little ones come easily during sex but the big one is harder to get to, which is another reason I prefer the little ones. Mm, orgasms. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

07-05-2005, 07:10 AM	#4 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	I just have one big one then I want to go to sleep

07-05-2005, 06:04 PM	#7 (permalink)
Sugar&Spice Psycho	One big one and then I go limp. I'm like a rag doll. It also depends on the position. If I am on top I can have one big one and then three minutes later have a slightly smaller one in a different position. __________________ -Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

07-07-2005, 01:02 PM	#8 (permalink)
Minx Junkie Location: Up yonder	I'm like onesnowyowl....I tend to have big ones when I'm masturbating. When I am with a guy I tend to have lots and lots (and lots) of smaller ones. It's all good, either way! I do find that if I am on top of the guy I tend to have stronger ones then in the old missionary position. My best, biggest, "rock my world" O's have come when he's doing me from behind and touching my clit at the same time. Then it's......OH BABY! __________________ You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!

07-12-2005, 06:24 PM	#9 (permalink)
jillian Crazy Location: indiana	i hvae several small ones during foreplay... then sevral more small ones during sex and then the big one during sex and if the guy/girl is working it in the right spot one fraking huge one that makes me just about black out... legs shaking ragdoll type followed by several teeny tiny ones that i just consider aftershocks

07-13-2005, 08:04 AM	#10 (permalink)
JustJess Unencapsulated Location: Kittyville	Huh. I am generally a one-shot kind of girl - it's grand and lovely and then I enjoy the ride that comes after, especially since that shot just made for some perfect lube. And I am definitely a passer-outer... just let me sleep!!! __________________ My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.

07-14-2005, 08:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I could almost quote Shani -- only with Lebell, not Dave. The passing out is interesting as Lebell wants to cuddle (Isn't that the woman's role?) and I want to sleep. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

07-14-2005, 11:02 PM	#12 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	When I masturbate, I can think of anything under the sun and I'll still get off. It's kinda weird But normally it's one powerful orgasm, then I have to take a few minutes to recooperate, then i'm ready for another big orgasm. As for sex, I can have a few small ones in a row, but normally I have one big one then i'm done. I get super dry after I orgasm too, so lube is a must if we're still going at it __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane

07-15-2005, 12:24 PM	#13 (permalink)
bad jane Insane	depends on a lot of factors--my mood, the position, the intensity, the situation, etc. and sex is different than masturbation for me. sometimes i get lots of little ones that are perfectly satisfying--other times it is lots of little ones that leave me aching for the big one (where it isn't just wanting to get off--but needing it). then there are big ones too, but even then, the sensation is different. sometimes it's implosive where i just want to draw everything in, other times it's explosive and i loose all sense of myself. i think a lot of it is in the head though. i know the closer and more loving i'm feeling to my partner, the more intense and implosive the orgasms. a quickie is more likely to result in a big orgasm with small waves after. rougher sex gives intense orgasms that are very explosive but typically leave me feeling super cuddly and loving after. lots of variation for me lol

07-15-2005, 01:21 PM	#14 (permalink)
neveroddoreven Upright	There is generally quite a build up to a big one. Then one or two even bigger ones with the intercourse that generally follows the oral. If it's been awhile the first one comes too fast and is not all that satisfying. I guess because there is less build up. __________________ sticking feathers in your butt does not make you a chicken!

07-25-2005, 04:02 AM	#15 (permalink)
mandy Addict Location: Port Elizabeth, South Africa	fortunately for me, like rubyee, i too am blessed with multiple orgasms.there will be build up and i'll have a really good one then there'll be more build up and i'll have a series of nice ones, then theres the final one where i cant move afterwards and i'll just lie there for like half an hour and have a smoke.then we have the other occasions when there's just this huge amount of build up and i'll have just one huge one and be tired after that.thats when i've not had sex in a while... hip hip hooray for multiple orgasms!!! whose with me?:-)

09-28-2005, 02:03 PM	#24 (permalink)
pyreglow Upright	i'm so jealous of all of you. Last edited by pyreglow; 02-20-2009 at 08:40 AM..

08-07-2005, 05:34 PM	#16 (permalink)
chelsea_9 Crazy Location: somewhere i intend to leave	i think i've climaxed twice in a 5 month relationship. it sometimes makes me feel pretty "sub-par", if you will. and for some reason, i have this idea in my head that if i gave any pointers on what he should be doing that'd it'd be pretty insulting to him. but i am the rookie [just for lack of a better word], so it could be called for.

08-07-2005, 05:58 PM	#17 (permalink)
Eweser Psycho Location: O-K-L-A-H-O-M-A	i thought i was the only one that did the sleeping thing. like sexymamma, my husband is the cuddler; i just want to crash. i tend to just have one orgasm, but if i'm not too tired i'll have one during foreplay and one during sex. i have had more than two before, but it hasn't happened often. __________________ "Whoever wrote this episode should die!"

08-07-2005, 07:46 PM	#18 (permalink)
cellophanedeity Heliotrope Location: A warm room	Oops! Thought this was a different thread. Wrong window.

08-08-2005, 04:20 PM	#19 (permalink)
lillala Upright Location: Thousand Oaks, CA	I used to always have one big one but with my current boyfriend I have several small ones and usually one or two big ones. It's absolutely amazing.

08-23-2005, 11:27 AM	#20 (permalink)
Jenni_bell Upright Location: canada	I really don't have small ones or the faintest idea what small ones you gals are talking about. I have multiple ones but the first one is intense and the second is really intense and the third I squirt which is out of this world freaky intense but makes a big mess and NO that is not pee. Squirting is a solo thing right now. A guy has yet to get me to g-spot but I am working at that Jenni

08-23-2005, 11:50 AM	#21 (permalink)
shesus Fancy Location: Chicago	I have the multiple ones and usually the big one first. Although, sometimes I think the first one is the big one, but the last one comes and it is black-out time. I love the ones where I black out because they are so intense. I just lay there and quiver for awhile afterwards. I'm not sure if blacking out is healthy, but it sure feels good! __________________ Whatever did happen to your soul? I heard you sold it Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company

08-23-2005, 11:59 AM	#22 (permalink)
5757 Insane Location: Vegas!!	Bad Jane... you described exactly what I go through. To a T... You know whats funny, Im dating a guy right now who is completely inexperienced! I took his virginity... so I don't think I will be having very many orgasams. (sigh) I can work it to the point where I have a big one... but if I'm going to reach that point, I need there to be passion.. I need to go slow, kiss slowly. He doesn't understand. In time.[B] __________________ Hey! Wait! I've got a new complaint, Forever in debt to ((your)) priceless advice. - Nirvana

09-24-2005, 01:07 PM	#23 (permalink)
taboo Crazy	i normally have one big one during sex, and maybe some small ones after..mayyyybe

09-28-2005, 10:18 PM	#25 (permalink)
Gilda 32 flavors and then some Location: Out on a wire.	It depends greatly upon what we're doing. Grace has me all tuned up where in the course of regular vanilla stuff I can be having the little ones one right after another stacked up on top of each other pretty much for as long as I can stand it. I've never really been in the right mind to count. But that almost never leads to a big one. For the big sustained orgasm, it takes a lot of build right up to the edge, back off, build up, back off, repeat as needed. The longer the teasing, the longer and more intense the orgasm when it does come. It took us quite a while to learn enough about my body to be able to get to where I could have a big one, and there are still times when it we miss the mark by a bit and I end up with the series of smaller ones, which still isn't a bad thing. When I do have one of those monster ones, there's usually a second, smaller one or two, what she, like a couple of ladies above, likes to call "aftershocks". Hers work differently, with a short series of them, three or four, gradually building in intensity until she hits the big one. With masturbation, it's pretty much one shot and I'm done. __________________ I'm against ending blackness. I believe that everyone has a right to be black, it's a choice, and I support that. ~Steven Colbert

10-22-2005, 07:20 PM	#26 (permalink)
wikkachik Upright	mine are just plain weird. they tend to change almost everytime... but i've only been with one guy so im sure i even have anything to compare right now.