Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community  

Go Back   Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community > The Academy > Tilted Life


 
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 01-06-2005, 10:49 AM   #1 (permalink)
NotMVH
Guest
 
Anxiousness to Excitment:

I have decided to that I will conquer certain aspects of my life that I feel unsatisfied with. One of them is forming positive relationships with beautiful woman.

I find that the main challange I face is taking action. When I am successful I turn my anxiousness to excitement and take action. I don't understand my emotions and have not found trying to be usefull, I don't want to stop feeling excited because it is what drives me to feel enthusiastic and passionate about what im doing but I need to learn ways to consistantly force myself to fight agianst my subconscious and do what I am uncomfortable with. This challenge in-myself applies to all aspects of my life. I want to force myself further then what I belive I can acheive, it means feeling anxious but remaining persistant, passionate, focused and bold. It is feeling alive to me.

I post this in the hopes that someone here can find flaw in my plan, help me grow or discuss what has worked in their own lives?
 
Old 01-06-2005, 11:09 AM   #2 (permalink)
Getting Medieval on your ass
 
Coppertop's Avatar
 
Location: 13th century Europe
You sound like someone I know. Their biggest fear is always taking that first step. Good luck in your endeavors.
Coppertop is offline  
Old 01-06-2005, 01:36 PM   #3 (permalink)
zen_tom
Guest
 
Quote:
I need to learn ways to consistantly force myself to fight agianst my subconscious
I might be way off here, but I've often found that it's my subconscious that get's things right most of the time and it's been my inability to trust it that's stopped me from acting. I'd say, listen to your subconscious and learn to trust it, he rest should come naturally.

The anxiousness comes from stopping yourself from doing what you want to do for fear of failure, it's your subconscious that wants these things, and knows how to get them. Give it a go at driving every once in a while. All you need to do is learn to be a confident passenger.
 
Old 01-06-2005, 07:34 PM   #4 (permalink)
NotMVH
Guest
 
I see your point of veiw but that part of me labeled as the subconscious lead the way for too many years. I was unhappy, lazy, undisciplined and lacked motivation or inspiration. I have grown and changed since I began this existance so perhaps now I can place more trust their.
 
Old 01-07-2005, 10:55 AM   #5 (permalink)
Psycho
 
Location: Dallas, Tx
Quote:
Originally Posted by NotMVH
I see your point of veiw but that part of me labeled as the subconscious lead the way for too many years. I was unhappy, lazy, undisciplined and lacked motivation or inspiration. I have grown and changed since I began this existance so perhaps now I can place more trust their.
but why were you this way? who cares if its the subconscious or not. you were this way because you chose to be this way...now ask yourself WHY. you need to consciously be aware of your decission making process.

the more WHY's i asked the more i learned about myself. then i realized i had been chasing happiness and not just being happy.
st33lr4t is offline  
Old 01-07-2005, 02:06 PM   #6 (permalink)
NotMVH
Guest
 
That was part of what happened. I still question myself, at the time I lived that lifestyle because I didn't have focus. I knew I wanted to be successful but I hadn't yet found what that lifestlye was that I needed to create. Although I have not yet become the man I want to be, I accept myself with my strengths and weakness and know that I have the power to change all of this. I find alot of joy working towards my goals every day.
 
 

Tags
anxiousness, excitment

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 02:46 PM.

Tilted Forum Project

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0 PL2
© 2002-2012 Tilted Forum Project

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360