Well, where did he say he was trying to "force" the issue? For the most part I agree with post #10. First of all, if a guy flirts with my wife, I don't get angry. It makes her feel good, and I know she's not going anywhere. If "Guy B" comes along and hits on my wife, I win! If "Guy B" comes up and talks to my wife... so the hell what? I'm not going to prevent my wife from talking to men, that's assinine. If he comes over and starts with some "Hey, wanna upgrade?" She'd probably slap the shit out of him and walk away... again it's no loss to me. HOWEVER.....

Having been in a relationship that was unhealthy but comfortable, I can say it would've been BETTER in my case if someone had come along that swept her off her feet... and it would've been better for her, too. Neither of us would've had to go through the heartache and she would've not ogne through feeling bad about herself.

So, in the end, I agree that this is not immoral or wrong. If "Guy B" walks up to a girl who isn't happy where she's at, it's the best thing that can happen for her (meaning hey, Guy A just wasn't cutting it... better to cut the line then lose the fisherman). If "Guy B" walks up to a girl that is happy with "Guy A" then again, no harm is done. The girls ego gets stroked and life moves along as it should.

Yar. I read this thread for the first time and as I read the posts I repsonded seperately to each one. Hence the many posts in a row.

I don't think I could ID them. I don't know that many girls closely on such a level to know. I would only know if they are taken or not.

Aint my choice :D