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Old 06-08-2003, 11:45 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Relationship troubles

Been dating this girl for a few weeks and i REALLY like her.. She likes me too, but she just doesnt seem to care abuot me much. She hangs out with her friends, doesnt call me and its really been buging me. However I do know that we are meant for eachother.

So the other day she tells me she cant go out with me anymore. She says there is no spark between us, but I disagree.. I tried to talk to her abuot it but she wants to end it.

I need advice how I can make a HUGE impression that will show her how much I like her. I know it can be done, i just dont know what to say and how to go abuot doing it. Please help
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Old 06-08-2003, 12:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hmmm ... sounds to me like she has never really been that into you. (sorry if I'm being harsh, I'm not trying to hurt you or anything) I seriously doubt if she'll end up looking at this the way you do. Even if you get into a relationship that would give her an immense power over you.

Now, over to the constructive side
If you really want to make an impression, you need to so something that touches her. What this is I cannot know (nor can anyone else here) since I don't know the girl. Just try and think about what she has told you she likes. Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself. And maybe if you post some info about her there might be some help in finding out what you can do as well
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Old 06-08-2003, 03:07 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Atan your right I made it sound like she wasnt interested in me, but she was, its only reciently that shes been acting different (not as interested in me). This is why I feel i could get another chance.
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Old 06-08-2003, 03:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Okay, then we still need some info about her likes and dislikes before we are in any way able to give any suggestions as to what you can do beyond longshots.

And talking to her about you "knowing" that you're meant for each other might not be the best move ... nor trying to "talk her into" anything. Just be a good guy and let her do what she wants
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Old 06-08-2003, 04:10 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Alright cool thanks.
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Old 06-09-2003, 05:41 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I wil be the asshole here for a minute. Take another girl out right in front of her eyes. Sometimes women want what they can't have, and by you showing up with another girl it will make her realize that.
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Old 06-09-2003, 11:44 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Forks your right.. its just hard breakin up with someone you really liked, heh

Thanks for the help
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Old 06-09-2003, 12:54 PM   #8 (permalink)
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take a hint dude. you're just gonna look pathetic if you mope around hoping for her.
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Old 06-09-2003, 03:28 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I hate to say it, but I would move on. And yes, flaunting another girl in front of her make work well, of course by that time you may not wante her back.

The hate of moving on.
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Old 06-09-2003, 03:43 PM   #10 (permalink)
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This is a very sticky situation.

I have yet to find a good way to peak a girls interest without coming off needy or stalkerish. Women need to feel like they are needed and wanted... but on the other side they want an independant man that can take of everything if needed.


I started writing this and it struck me that I am probly reading into this too much... she more likly than not just doesn't dig you like you dig her. No harm in that. Now by you saying that you know you two are meant for each other after a few weeks I can't blame her in wanting out... that's a tad on the creepy side.

Just my twisted opion... sorry if I'm way off.
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Old 06-09-2003, 05:04 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Well,if she's not into you,that really is her decision.Just because a relationship may not be on the horizon with her,doesn't mean you can't have a great friendship with her. Sometimes the strongest relationships come out of strong friendships.You never know what might happen down the road between the two of you.
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Old 06-09-2003, 06:08 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Dont even bother giving more advise, we got in a huge fight, it was kind of funny actually but thats the end of that. Thanks for the help guys, time to move on!
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Old 06-09-2003, 07:25 PM   #13 (permalink)
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you're lucky dude, you might not realize it right now, but it's best that it ended before you got into it/her...

believe me i know, and i feel for ya!
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