fitmn47

Hello everyone. I joined this forum just yesterday, and was poking around just to see what goes on here. It was fun reading, but I didn’t imagine I would be positing a question so soon.

Anyway – I was shopping on the internet today. I have a secret lover, for whom I am thinking I might want to buy some erotic jewelry... nipple rings (perhaps with a nice chain between), clitoral jewelry, -- all pierce-less stuff. I think it is very pretty, and might make for some fun play. But …

I am really interested in what women think. Am I all wet here? If not, what would be a nice turn-on gift?

Halx

I dunno.. sounds like a creepy proposition. Also knowing a little bit of the crazy female mind, I'm inclined to anticipate the following argument: "You don't like the way I look naturally?" And by having a secret lover, do you mean to say you are someone's sugar daddy? Are you having an affair?

My own two cents say there are better ways to turn a girl on than the equivalent of a clip-on bow tie on her vagina.

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Seaver

Welcome to the TFP, I do suggest you check out the Tilted Sexuality section of TF (http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/forumdisplay.php?f=8).

Sorry I don't have a constructive reply on the topic, I have no experience in the piercings/etc in those areas.

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fitmn47

Halx - thanks for the repluy - Suggestions for a nice turn-on gift?

Halx

Well, not to say it wont work. All girls are different. Have you actually had sex with this girl? Multiple times? If so, maybe a tiny, discreet vibrator would be a sweet little gift.

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Charlatan

Moved to Sexuality.

What you buy would depend on the woman.

Some like to receive lingerie, others don't. Some would like to get a sex toy, other wouldn't.

You need to know the personality of your woman.

If you buy lingerie, make sure you get her size right. Nothing worse than over or under estimating size.


Your best bet is to just buy flowers or something like that.

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LoganSnake

Turn-on gifts are entirely subjective. What might turn one woman on will cause the other to deliver you a swift kick in the nuts. Anything from a can of whipped cream to a gimp suit can be considered a turn-on present depending on who you ask.

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fitmn47

Halx - Yes I have... but there's an answer I didn't see coming. Guess I have to open this old mind of mine

Sultana

I'd say give the gift of time--take her to lunch, stop by that little shop, she if she's interested, take it from there. If not, go to a lingerie shop, a dress shop, a SHOE STORE (heh hehe), etc. Go with her, let her try stuff on (if possible), pick out what she likes that pleases you, go home and play with it.

Heck, sometimes going to Home Depot can be fun, knowing that we're gonna work on stuff together afterwards, even if not specifically erotic.

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Acetylene

Temporary tattos! Get some for each of you and decorate each other

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