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Juicy_B · 06-18-2003, 06:47 PM

I was under the assumption that girls plecentas break and it probobally hurts and then they bleed.

Regardless, i'm fairly sure she's a virgin as she's told me she was, and *was* rediculously tight.

anywho i was just wondering how easy it is for a girl to loose that membrane before her first time.

note she's never masturbated

jackassidy · 06-18-2003, 07:18 PM

uh. well where to begin. Ok.....um.. the thing is a placenta is ; in the most basic term where the baby grows inside of a woman when she is pregnant.It is like a sack that protects the baby and provide nutrients. So we can assume you didnt break that. Now, some girls do break their hymen the first time they have sex. That is a thin membrane covering the vaginaa little ways inside. However most time it is torn during activities like sports and excersise. and masterbation wouldnt neccessarily break it(considering most girls rarely penetrate themselves while masterbating and only rub thier clitoris) if your ? was serious i hope i could help.

mirevolver · 06-18-2003, 07:19 PM

Bit of a personal question, but does she use tampons?

MacGnG · 06-18-2003, 07:59 PM

it isn't the placenta. it's the hymen.
there are many others ways it can break (horse back riding, gymnastics, exercise, etc...).

you really don't need to worry about it cause it's nothing important, making sure SHE is feeling ok and happy, is important.

clockworkgreen · 06-18-2003, 08:09 PM

This is when guys who aren't getting laid can't believe someone like this is. :-)

Slims · 06-19-2003, 01:08 AM

um, the placenta is a non issue unless the girl is pregnant, and even then you couldn't 'break' it without the help of a broom stick and a lot of muscle grease.

What is traditionally broken is the hymen, which covers the girls vagina and protects from foreign objects sneaking in therer when she isn't looking. When you first have sex, it traditionally breaks and bleeds. These days, that isn't the case. Most girls aren't even born with one, and most of the ones that are, break them by the time the reach puberty (From sports and such, or tampons). Even if a gir is a virgin, if you are gentle enough, she shouldn't bleed.

If I were you, I would chalk her lack of bleeding up to either her already losing it (not from sex) or to your awesome gentleness.

Oh, and if you are both inexperienced, which you definitely seem to be, dont' be ashamed to go to the library and get some books on the subject.

The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort is probaby the ultra clasic, but there are many others that will give you many other tips and tricks that you won't learn unless you either read the books, or sleep with lots of women who are more experienced than you.

Good Luck!

Sparhawk · 06-19-2003, 04:01 AM

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Originally posted by clockworkgreen
This is when guys who aren't getting laid can't believe someone like this is. :-)

Heheh.

Frowning Budah · 06-20-2003, 03:00 PM

clockworkgreen LOL.

Greg700 thanks for having the ability to answer what I hope was a sincere question with out loosing your composure.

I am afraid I was un-able to.

Conclamo Ludus · 06-20-2003, 11:27 PM

She probably broke it some other way. It happens all the time. Girls can break their hymen accidentally far before they have sex for the first time. I wouldn't worry about it. Congratulations on your first time!

MacGnG · 06-21-2003, 02:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by clockworkgreen
This is when guys who aren't getting laid can't believe someone like this is. :-)

yea

Uuudar · 06-21-2003, 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by clockworkgreen
This is when guys who aren't getting laid can't believe someone like this is. :-)

Exactly what I was thinking

06-18-2003, 06:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
Juicy_B Upright	Girlfriend didn't bleed our first time... I was under the assumption that girls plecentas break and it probobally hurts and then they bleed. Regardless, i'm fairly sure she's a virgin as she's told me she was, and was rediculously tight. anywho i was just wondering how easy it is for a girl to loose that membrane before her first time. note she's never masturbated

06-18-2003, 07:19 PM	#3 (permalink)
mirevolver Inspired by the mind's eye. Location: Between the darkness and the light.	Bit of a personal question, but does she use tampons? __________________ Aside from my great plans to become the future dictator of the moon, I have little interest in political discussions.

06-19-2003, 01:08 AM	#6 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	um, the placenta is a non issue unless the girl is pregnant, and even then you couldn't 'break' it without the help of a broom stick and a lot of muscle grease. What is traditionally broken is the hymen, which covers the girls vagina and protects from foreign objects sneaking in therer when she isn't looking. When you first have sex, it traditionally breaks and bleeds. These days, that isn't the case. Most girls aren't even born with one, and most of the ones that are, break them by the time the reach puberty (From sports and such, or tampons). Even if a gir is a virgin, if you are gentle enough, she shouldn't bleed. If I were you, I would chalk her lack of bleeding up to either her already losing it (not from sex) or to your awesome gentleness. Oh, and if you are both inexperienced, which you definitely seem to be, dont' be ashamed to go to the library and get some books on the subject. The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort is probaby the ultra clasic, but there are many others that will give you many other tips and tricks that you won't learn unless you either read the books, or sleep with lots of women who are more experienced than you. Good Luck! __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence

06-20-2003, 11:27 PM	#9 (permalink)
Conclamo Ludus Modern Man Location: West Michigan	She probably broke it some other way. It happens all the time. Girls can break their hymen accidentally far before they have sex for the first time. I wouldn't worry about it. Congratulations on your first time! __________________ Lord, have mercy on my wicked soul I wouldn't mistreat you baby, for my weight in gold. -Son House, Death Letter Blues

06-18-2003, 07:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
jackassidy Tilted	uh. well where to begin. Ok.....um.. the thing is a placenta is ; in the most basic term where the baby grows inside of a woman when she is pregnant.It is like a sack that protects the baby and provide nutrients. So we can assume you didnt break that. Now, some girls do break their hymen the first time they have sex. That is a thin membrane covering the vaginaa little ways inside. However most time it is torn during activities like sports and excersise. and masterbation wouldnt neccessarily break it(considering most girls rarely penetrate themselves while masterbating and only rub thier clitoris) if your ? was serious i hope i could help.

06-18-2003, 07:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
MacGnG Know Where!	it isn't the placenta. it's the hymen. there are many others ways it can break (horse back riding, gymnastics, exercise, etc...). you really don't need to worry about it cause it's nothing important, making sure SHE is feeling ok and happy, is important.

06-18-2003, 08:09 PM	#5 (permalink)
clockworkgreen Psycho Location: DC	This is when guys who aren't getting laid can't believe someone like this is. :-)

06-20-2003, 03:00 PM	#8 (permalink)
Frowning Budah Slave of Fear	clockworkgreen LOL. Greg700 thanks for having the ability to answer what I hope was a sincere question with out loosing your composure. I am afraid I was un-able to.