Cyborg Ninja

Have you done it? Have you been propositioned? What's your opinion -- tacky or hot?

I ask because I just did it, though I eventually brought her to the restroom because I felt uncomfortable. At first, I didn't realize she was drunk. As time went on, she seemed too loose but I was a little buzzed and on my meds at the time and turned on. She was quite attractive. Even though she came onto me, I feel like I took advantage of her. I always thought that I would never do something like that.

The details are kind of funny/hot... should I spill?

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Yes, do tell.

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All the info. ^_^

Plan9

I hope you used a condom.

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Aladdin Sane

I haven't been to a dance club in a while. Is sex on the dance floor common? Condoned?

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I've never done or seen it happen. That said, I'd definitely watch.

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Ustwo

While I've seen things come close in a public night club, I'd be surprised at a club that allowed it.

One cell phone call to the cops = shut down at least for that night.

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Psycho Dad

I half wonder if that is a risk a club would be willing to take. No calls = a full house the next night hoping to see more.

Been a long time since I've been to a club where such activity may occur, but a few years ago I went to a club where the band was getting girls up on stage. Once one flashed her chest, more followed. Not quite the same thing I realize but nobody complained. I imagine the club, local and crowd would play a large part in how this behavior would be welcomed.

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Cyborg Ninja

I honestly feel quite dirty for doing it. Even though I'd _love_ to see a couple of other girls do it, it was wrong for me to. I really need to learn how to say "no."

So anyway, here are the details. I went to the local gay club for the night, alone. I haven't been there in months. I'm dancing in the corner, and a hot black chick with a short white skirt comes up to me and starts chatting. I didn't realize she was drunk at the time. Of course it was really difficult for me to hear her with all that loud music, but I tried. Among the more interesting things, she told me she was a Marine, and her and her bi friend drove an hour and a half to go to this town.

So we're dancing and she's getting very close to me, forcing me to rub up against her. You can imagine it. I spanked her a few times. ) Then she's all over me, kissing my neck, feeling my breasts and kissing them. This is OK to talk about here, right? That came as a shock to me because that's when I realized she must be either really horny or really drunk. Only for a short moment does she try to go stick her hand down my pants. I kiss her lips, her neck, feel her breasts briefly.

Sometime during this she moves over to the Exit door, and... we fall down on concrete outside! LOL! I ask her if she's ok and we try to pretend it never happened. A guy who was apparently watching us the whole time helped us up. I thought we had been covert enough, but apparently not.

I ask her if perhaps we should go back to my place, but she says she can't. So we keep dancing, but she's getting hot and begs me to fuck her right there. She grabs my hand and puts it under her skirt. So I'm feeling her, kissing her and she takes me over to another area where she can lay down and asks me to fuck her right there. I'm like "Holy shit... what have I gotten myself into?" I take her into the restroom instead.

She begs me again to fuck her, this time in the restroom stall. So I do, in whatever position she wants me to. She keeps asking for it harder. She sits on the sink and I keep fingering her there until she comes. The club is closing and we leave.

I feel like such a skank. Whenever I go to a club someone tries to get me to have sex with them, even if it's in public. Do I attract the exhibitionists or what?

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works for me

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Ustwo

My guess is the unwritten rules on this are a bit more lax at a gay club than a straight one.

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World's King

I was DJing one night. This girl kept coming up in the booth. I'd ask her to leave. She'd come back a few minutes later. After like six times I just gave up and let her stay. She started grinding on me. Which made it really hard to do my job. So I quickly finished my set because she kept shoving her hands down my pants and trying to jerk me off. Which again... not so easy to DJ and get a hand job. To make a long story short... when I finished we went out the back door and she blew me in the alley. Afterwards she got up off her knees, went inside, did a shot and left. I never saw her again.

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World's King

I think you're sending mixed signals.

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uncle phil

nope, she's ok with it...

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cadre

I've heard of people going at it on dance floors but I have yet to see it myself. Then again, I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't common place (somewhat) at some of the really popular and crowded clubs.

I agree that at gay clubs it's probably somewhat more common but I don't know from experience.

But hey, you didn't get kicked out and I'm guessing you enjoyed it so I wouldn't be ashamed.

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Shauk

must be a DJ thing... I dunno, I got head while doing a set once. fairly secluded private booth and all. it was unique

World's King

It's more then defiantly a DJ thing. No girl ever pays attention to me in clubs till I get into the booth.

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...watch how she holds that mic.

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MrFriendly

Was it just me, or did Cyborg Ninja's story make anyone else feel funny in there pants?

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World's King

I need that song.

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Menoman

Damn near erotica, I've done alot of shit. But I totally am vicariously living that right now... and maybe again later ^_^

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Ustwo

Interesting and a bit off topic, but after you have been to a few sex clubs, you can be having a beer talking about sports while thats going on next to you and not feel the need to pay attention.

Sort of a sensory overload.

"Hey there are two chicks dancing naked on the dance floor, hey shes giving that guy a bj, so what do you think about the Bears so far this season?"

Its all about the context.

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Menoman

How about a tiny list of places that this thing is so prevelant that it's not even noteworthy pls?

for umm.... research.....on... social .... whatever I just want a blowjob on a dance floor ffs!!

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Ustwo

These places are just about all BOYP and the few that arn't, you will get very little play as a single male. Sorry.

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LazyBoy

didn't even know it happened...interesting

-Will

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Menoman

psh it's about knowing how to play it. I wouldn't go by myself I'd take one of my hot female friends with me, to 'show how cool' I am and stir up the female need to compete.

Hell even if its byop I know I could find someone ^_^

I am lacking all but the location of a place such as this in ohio

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mandy

I definately felt some vibration down there

Well, i don't know about inside the club, but i definately know about outside in the park opposite the club

and restaurant bathrooms

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Cyborg Ninja

Every village has a nympho.

I told the story, but I left out several juicy details because I was embarrassed. But I don't mind putting a smile on someone's face, even if it means exhibitionism. Just as long as that person doesn't try to get involved. I was damn lucky no man tried to include himself that night. Instead, they just watched and even helped out when we fell that one time (lol).

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I was once witness to a woman's orgasm on the dance floor. The long story short is that she was enthralled with the gentleman and he kept stringing her along. Slow dancing with many thigh thrusts between her legs led to an obvious spine stiffening during a particularly deep thrust by him...

We were sitting at the next table and she was begging him to take her home...he refused.