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Wyodiver33 · 04-02-2008, 09:08 PM

Hi all. My Fiance and I have recently entered into a Female Domination lifestyle. She and I have been together for two years and she was always so dominant and it drove me nuts. I figured I might as well ask her to Dominate me 24/7. She liked the idea but we are both clueless. I know what I want to an extent. She wants this lifestyle to work but she is a bit scared. I don't want a lot of pain or public humiliation. I just want to feel that She owns me. I don't want to be a woman or anything. I'm happy being a man. But I honestly feel that I want my SO to dominate me and control me. When She calls me "slave" I just melt. Help me, please.

Milnoc · 04-03-2008, 03:31 AM

Chastity device maybe?

Ilow · 04-03-2008, 05:53 AM

I would say find the place that you and your fiance's kinks meet. If you enjoy being told to lick her ass and she enjoys it when you do, or if she wants you to clean the house and pleasing her is your thing, or if you like to have your nuts kicked and it turns her on, then go for any and all of it. There would otherwise seem to be too many directions to go to give specific answers, you have to work out the specifics on your own. If there is one thing the internet is good for, it is providing information on non-mainstream lifestyle choices, so I would start there.

cadre · 04-03-2008, 03:38 PM

The most important thing to do in this situation is to make sure both of your boundaries are clear. Other than that, do what feels right.

Kaimi · 04-03-2008, 04:21 PM

The best advice that I could offer would be for the two of you to enter a contract. Documenting specifics on what you will and will not be willing to experience...Or even marking items as to be discussed at a later time. Even if you do not believe that you have limits it should be considered. If you look around the internet you should be able to find some similar checklist.

Strange Famous · 04-04-2008, 10:30 AM

Stuff like this... I just dont know. But if it makes you both feel better, I guess its fair enough. You probably just need to set out the things you arent prepared to be said to you or have happen, so there are some ground rules and reduced risk of it getting too far and someone freaking out.

james t kirk · 04-04-2008, 04:40 PM

Go Here first:

http://elisesutton.homestead.com/Main.html

It's what you want.

Or here:

http://www.ondominance.blogspot.com/

Warning - Nudity.

girldetective · 04-04-2008, 04:45 PM

Whoa.

04-02-2008, 09:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
Wyodiver33 Just here for the beer. Location: Ft. Lauderdale, Floriduh	Femdom Hi all. My Fiance and I have recently entered into a Female Domination lifestyle. She and I have been together for two years and she was always so dominant and it drove me nuts. I figured I might as well ask her to Dominate me 24/7. She liked the idea but we are both clueless. I know what I want to an extent. She wants this lifestyle to work but she is a bit scared. I don't want a lot of pain or public humiliation. I just want to feel that She owns me. I don't want to be a woman or anything. I'm happy being a man. But I honestly feel that I want my SO to dominate me and control me. When She calls me "slave" I just melt. Help me, please. __________________ I like stuff.

04-03-2008, 05:53 AM	#3 (permalink)
Ilow Junkie Location: Pats country	I would say find the place that you and your fiance's kinks meet. If you enjoy being told to lick her ass and she enjoys it when you do, or if she wants you to clean the house and pleasing her is your thing, or if you like to have your nuts kicked and it turns her on, then go for any and all of it. There would otherwise seem to be too many directions to go to give specific answers, you have to work out the specifics on your own. If there is one thing the internet is good for, it is providing information on non-mainstream lifestyle choices, so I would start there. __________________ "Religion is the one area of our discourse in which it is considered noble to pretend to be certain about things no human being could possibly be certain about" --Sam Harris

04-03-2008, 03:38 PM	#4 (permalink)
cadre The Worst Influence Location: Arizona	The most important thing to do in this situation is to make sure both of your boundaries are clear. Other than that, do what feels right. __________________ My life is one of those 'you had to be there' jokes.

04-04-2008, 10:30 AM	#6 (permalink)
Strange Famous follower of the child's crusade?	Stuff like this... I just dont know. But if it makes you both feel better, I guess its fair enough. You probably just need to set out the things you arent prepared to be said to you or have happen, so there are some ground rules and reduced risk of it getting too far and someone freaking out. __________________ "Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate, for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain without being uncovered." The Gospel of Thomas

04-04-2008, 04:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
girldetective sufferable	Whoa. __________________ As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons...be cheerful; strive for happiness - Desiderata

04-03-2008, 03:31 AM	#2 (permalink)
Milnoc Crazy Location: Montreal	Chastity device maybe?

04-03-2008, 04:21 PM	#5 (permalink)
Kaimi Crazy	The best advice that I could offer would be for the two of you to enter a contract. Documenting specifics on what you will and will not be willing to experience...Or even marking items as to be discussed at a later time. Even if you do not believe that you have limits it should be considered. If you look around the internet you should be able to find some similar checklist.

04-04-2008, 04:40 PM	#7 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	Go Here first: http://elisesutton.homestead.com/Main.html It's what you want. Or here: http://www.ondominance.blogspot.com/ Warning - Nudity.