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Anyone know a good place to meet internet/sex freinds?

Manic_Skafe

I actually use site all the time. It's pretty awesome.

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Martian

Well played, Skafey. Well played.

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Punk.of.Ages

Gets me every time.....

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Want chicks?

Go outside and meet one.

It gets easier as you go.

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imkeen

I had wondered whether AdultFriendFinder and the like actually yielded results for people and what "quality" they received. Maybe quality doesn't matter at that point...never actually followed through. Probably a good thing...

MSD

Yes. Yes I do.

Tully Mars

Every time I follow a link to or visit a site like Redtube or Tube 8 there's always an AdultFriendFinder ad banner that reads something like "Meet chicks who want to fuck you tonight in Merida." Merida's the closest large city to me. In the ad Merida is often misspelled and the girls are usually taken from the video clips. I never really paid that much attention to them until one day I was watching a video of some vintage 50-60's footage. I glanced over at the ad only to see a grainy B&W photo of the girl from the clip. The ad stated she was 26, Bi and on-line right now. I almost couldn't stop laughing.

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Starshine

Go to a bar like a normal creepy guy, sheesh!

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dlish

skafe... that was definately a ROFLMAO

that must be how you met your woman i presume??

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The_Jazz

Excellent example of "ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer" Skafe. Maybe one of our best yet...

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imkeen

Funny thing about AFF and the like is that they can tell where on the Internet you're coming from, so they create fake ads that try to seem real to make you take the bait. There are certainly some women that are into random fucking of guys, but I doubt they're going to advertise given the sheer volume of willing guys. (just to state the obvious)

Its a clever ploy to separate your money from your wallet, 99% of the time, I have to believe.

Cernunnos

A good place is wherever you enjoy spending your time. If a girl is already in the same community, you're bound to share something in common (whatever binds the community together). My advice is to join some sort of local Meet Up group where your interest (perhaps expertise) in a subject is noticeable and cross-gender interaction is expected.

If you are a yoga fanatic, join a yoga club. If you are a hippy environmentalist, join a hippy environmentalist club. There's a solid chance that several females joined said club for the purpose of hooking up with males such as yourself.

MrFriendly

LOL, that's classic, I haven't seen someone get Rickrolled in ages.

I think Cernunnos is on the money there. If you want to make friends and perhaps find a sexual partner, the best way is to just get out there and meet people who are into similar things you are.

The great thing about the internet is make finding those communities that are near you easier too find. There's a lot of ways to meet people man :-)

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Seaver

I prefer to go down to the local Middle School and impress the ladies with the fact I can drive and buy alcohol

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Shaindra

Hmmm. Is it really a problem finding people to have sex with? You learn something new everyday.

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Rigel

There are scummy bars, and there are nice bars. I go to the nice ones a few times a week. Not fancy ones, just the kind where there are no bottles flying around. You know.
I go because I want/need a drink. Not to meet girls. But I do meet nice women once in a while. Perhaps once a month or more I meet a decent, pretty woman. Depending on how much we had to drink, I usually end up having sex with her that night. At her place. My wife doesn't have a sense of humour, nor does she have a sex drive.
So, that's about it. Don't get too drunk. Don't get pushy. Flirt. No worries if you have a wedding band on, it doesn't seem to matter. Don't go after the really good looking ones. Go after the pretty girls with a few extra pounds. They're the best ones, and the nicest.
Good luck.

Halx

Any Latin country. Just take a Spanish class and you're good to go.

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Pholeus

i have actually met a few people from the internet for no strings attached fun. the one problem you will find is that it will be VERY hard to actually find a woman on these sites. it's mostly guys.

Willravel

Hookers.

World's King

Rio. Any high end brothel.


$100 American for your first fuck. After that it's up to you. Although I must warn you. Jerking off in the bathroom still costs $45

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MSD

You can meet other couples for swinging, but if you're a single guy, the signal-to-noise is pathetically low due to porn ads and hookers.

mixedmedia

I met my boyfriend on Adult Friendfinder.

But it seems more circumstantial than anything. Neither of us were looking for what we got.

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Tully Mars

Hmm, ladies of MM's quality are actually on AF? Might have to reconsider my opinion of them. Though I highly doubt the ads they show for the cities down here in Mexico are anything but BS. The city names are all wrong and the pictures are clearly taken from clips on porn sites.

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mixedmedia

Yes, there really are real ladies at AFF. I have contacted and conversed with quite a few of them. Very attractive ones, too. But, I'm a woman so it's easier for me. You have to realize that, as a woman, the sheer volume of emails you get from men there (even within just a few hours of signing up) is totally overwhelming. A man really has to differentiate himself. With Phillip, he differentiated himself with words. And once I saw them, I got AFF myopia, lol. I wasn't interested in corresponding with anyone else.

The vast majority of guys there will send you an email with a picture of their cock and a 'yo, what's up?' That just doesn't do it for me. And it's not the picture of the cock, it's the 'yo, what's up?' I imagined hearing a knock on my door and opening it to find some dude standing there with his pants around his ankles saying, 'yo, what's up?'

So, yeah. Differentiate yourself.

And don't be a sleazebag. Although, Tully, I know that's not your style.
I have every confidence in your ability to bag one on AFF.

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LoganSnake

So...how did he differentiate himself?

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Tully Mars

So I don't need to invest in that wide angle zoom?


That might be true in the states, down here I'm not so sure. I rarely meet a expat that's not already in my social circle. Though it's possible, I guess, you might see an ad and it would end up being someone you know, just didn't know what their interests were.

As far as the locals- I've had a couple bad experiences with the Mexican locals. I think this is partly due to my lack of understanding not only the language but the culture. I didn't come down here seriously looking, but in the back of my tiny brain I figured I've have a companion by now. The two times I've seen locals it's been one implosion and one explosion. Drama seems to drive the M/F culture down here, I don't get it. Well I get some of it, but what I get I don't like. Drama, drama, drama- none for me thanks.

The expats I've met, so far, are not my tastes. So that leaves tourists. Which can be freaking awesome.. for a week. Then it's a long distance thing which is most certainly not awesome.

Meh, it'll happen when it happens. Until then I'll go diving.

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mixedmedia

He seduced me. He read my profile and used what he read to communicate with me. And I don't mean to say that he lied or pretended to be something he was not, we are definitely copacetic - sexually and otherwise, but he responded to more than just the fact that I was a woman with a picture on a sex site. His interaction with me, from the very first email, didn't come off as throwaway lines that he emailed to 25 women a day. Like,
the dreaded, 'Yo, what's up.'
or
'You're really hot. Let's talk.'
'Wanna suck this?'
'I love to lick pussy. Can I lick yours?'
oh, and some of my favorites 'I'm going to be in town on such and such a day, wanna get together and fuck?'

And at the same time, you want to avoid being too asexual. You don't want to bullshit and pretend that you're not there to meet people for sex because that's just silly. Of course, you're there to meet people for sex, everyone is there to meet people for sex. It's just that, and I'm only talking about myself here, I wanted to meet interesting people for sex (or, in my case, I was looking for a cyber-relationship). I realize that interesting guys might be behaving in these typical ways because they're under the impression that it's what they are supposed to do, but it works against them when they are dealing with women like me. And, from what I have learned from other women at AFF, lots of others, too. Especially if they have been on the site for an extended period of time.

So, I think it's important to:
1. treat the women like they are more than just an advertisment - there are real women behind the ads (except for the ones who are not, lol - some really are just ads; and some of them aren't women at all!)

2. be sexy, but not stupid

3. realize that these women are probably getting 40+ emails a day from men and most of them are coming across as either, sleazy (like Dimitri, the lover, heh) or dull and unimaginative.

If I had more time, I could try to discuss it in more detail. If anyone's interested in talking about this subject we could do that. I find it kind of interesting now that I'm sitting here and thinking about it.

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RangerJoe

Now I'm half tempted to go on AFF.

LoganSnake

I have never tried the site personally, but my friend has hooked up with quite a few females from the AFF. One just wanted to lose her virginity to a stranger to get it over with. The back seat was like a scene from Pulp Fiction. Good times.

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Tully Mars

I can honestly say I've had more women hit on me with a wedding ring on then without.

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Poppinjay

One of my former cow-orkers and I had a discussion about that. She says married guys are considered prime material because they're "safe".

What that means, I'm not sure. Maybe that we're not friendless assholes, can make a commitment. But the part about breaking the vows would be bad sign, you would think.

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mindscrape69

I want to say i became a paying member and it is all a sham. When i search my male i get 2 groups of responses . one is i get some email that conveniently is ONLY from standard members and you need to PAY MORE to email them. bait and switch kinda deal The rest are members who they CLAIM have turned off their profile or are no longer members. I am sure if they temporarily suspend their account they cannot email me . Not to mention if they have terminated their account they certainly cannot email me. It is so obvious that it is all a sham. Do not join . Once they have their money your screwed.

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Definitely not adultfiendfinder.com

Plan9

Hmm, seems pretty easy. Let me Google that for you.

Hot damn, OkCupid and PlentyOfFish are in the top 5.

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xenonman

I've generally regarded the veracity of those "localized" personal ads as highly dubious.
Some of those folks need to be tossed into a "cenote"

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