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Old 06-29-2011, 09:21 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Willing to try something "FUN" with not very close friends?

I dunno, I kinda wanna have some fun with a not-so-close friend... have some one on one time i guess? Is that okay, or just dirty?
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Old 06-29-2011, 11:23 PM   #2 (permalink)
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As long as it feels OK for you and your not-so-close friend it should be OK. Two consenting adults having some "FUN" is pretty common and accepted in most societies.

Since you feel the need of asking "the internet" if it's OK or weird then it's probably not OK with you and you should let it go.
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Old 06-30-2011, 02:35 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I think you need to explain what kind of "FUN" you are talking about. I can think of lots of different things that are "FUN" with no very close friends.
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Old 06-30-2011, 04:24 AM   #4 (permalink)
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It's fine. Unless you want to poop in his mouth. That's dirty.

As long as you're not going to hurt a third party, go bang each other. I don't see the harm.
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Old 06-30-2011, 05:37 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I think you need to explain what kind of "FUN" you are talking about. I can think of lots of different things that are "FUN" with no very close friends.
Just your typical BJ... maybe in the shower if we ain't drunk ;D
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Old 06-30-2011, 05:44 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Just your typical BJ... maybe in the shower if we ain't drunk ;D
Explain to me why you think this might be "dirty". I'm not seeing what the downside is.
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:21 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I dunno, I only just met this person last year and don't want to take it to far... because I am a perverse person, so yeah... -3-"
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:25 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Well, you know, oral sex is a gateway drug that leads to anal.
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:35 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Well, you know, oral sex is a gateway drug that leads to anal.
Which obviously leads to donkey punches. Don't be a donkey puncher.

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I dunno, I only just met this person last year and don't want to take it to far... because I am a perverse person, so yeah... -3-"
Hi. This is 2011. You've apprently mistaken us for 1956. Back then a blowjob amongst showering friends was socially frowned upon. Here in 2011, it's not so much. That's assuming that you're not living in a place - like Saudi Arabia or Afganistan - that still upholds the cultural mores of 1956.

Let's review: You've known this person at least 7 months; you think he's cute; you'd like to gargle his snake; he may be into it; you're looking for permission.

Go suck a cock, young lady. And I mean that in the most complimentary, empowering and sex-positive way I'm capable of.
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:37 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Let me get this straight:

You have shown that you are uncomfortable stating explicitly your interest in oral sex, and instead have chosen to ambiguously describe this action as "fun."

You have asked an anonymous group of strangers if it is an acceptable course of action to have oral sex with someone you know.

You do not bother to mention any details that would assist us in reaching an educated decision on the matter. Therefore, everyone responds with a general "yes."

What makes this person a not-so-close friend? How do you distinguish this relationship from an acquaintance? Would you like this experience of "fun" to develop into something more substantial, or are you planning on it being a one-time deal that includes loss of said not-so-close friend at its conclusion?

Are you concerned about the reaction of mutual friends, or others in your social sphere? Do you need to interact with this person at work or another professional venue? Are you concerned with the social or political implications of your "fun?"

This thread demands more substance.
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:40 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I think he's a dude, Jazz.
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:43 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I'd have to agree with genuinegirly. Lack of substance allows us to make up our own details, which can only lead to bad things.

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I think he's a dude, Jazz.
Perhaps. I'm just playing the 90/10 odds.

Just in case you're right:

Go suck a cock, young man!
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:48 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Perhaps. I'm just playing the 90/10 odds.

Just in case you're right:

Go suck a cock, young man!
It would be more inclusive to just say, "Go get it wet!"

More details. We need more details.
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Old 06-30-2011, 12:51 PM   #14 (permalink)
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It would be more inclusive to just say, "Go get it wet!"
Only if you're a Cannuckistani and into ice soccer. Down where the real people live, no one would know what you're talking about, mainly because neither Will Smith nor George Clooney would ever say that about a blowjob.

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More details. We need more details.
Yeah, see what happens without details?
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Old 06-30-2011, 01:11 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Only if you're a Cannuckistani and into ice soccer. Down where the real people live, no one would know what you're talking about, mainly because neither Will Smith nor George Clooney would ever say that about a blowjob.
Wait, I thought it was because blowjobs are illegal in the U.S.....
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Old 06-30-2011, 01:28 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Wait, I thought it was because blowjobs are illegal in the U.S.....
Mississippi is not the US. There are 49 other states, most of which are blowjob-friendly.
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Old 06-30-2011, 02:51 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Mississippi is not the US. There are 49 other states, most of which are blowjob-friendly.
Whatever. It's six of one, half a dozen of the other.

Congratulations to you guys for finally liberalizing oral sex. That must of been fairly recently. Was it a full legalization, or is it one of those decriminalization jobbies?

And what is with those uptight Mississippians? The irony is that so many of them could really use a blowjob. Amirite?
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Old 06-30-2011, 03:29 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Old 06-30-2011, 03:33 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Details? What this thread needs is photos!
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Old 06-30-2011, 03:45 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Details? What this thread needs is photos!
...... Charlatan, is there something you want to tell us why you want pics of two young males sucking each other off?
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Old 06-30-2011, 03:59 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Lack of substance allows us to make up our own details, which can only lead to bad things.
It was more fun making up details. I decided that I was going to read the whole thread assuming he was talking about going bowling then you jerks ruined it all by prying for details
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