Ladies... Quickness to orgasm vs Goodness of orgasm
 

Is there a correlation or an inverse relationship between the two?

For some reason, when i'm masturbating my SO during her period, she seems to come really quickly. (faster then me... even) Now, you would think that that faster equates to better. But this doesn't seem to be the case.

Same thing when i go down on her. I've made her come in less than 5 minutes before, but those were nowhere near 'memorable'. The better ones seem to be when i'm having a 'bad' day down there, and take very long to get her off...

WHY??!!

Uh... well, if it takes longer, you're having a good time longer. If she came after 5 minutes, are you still gonna stick around there? Not likely.

Just cause it takes longer, doesnt mean youre having a "bad" day. Not to me anyway!

The longer it takes (the more build up time) the better the orgasm, at least for my g/f.

That doesn't always mean that quick orgasms are no good. Sometimes my g/f just wants to get off, other times we can take hours and not care.

My general experience has also been the longer it takes the better the orgasm.

I'm sure that, like anyone, the more you want it the faster it will come. Of course intensity has to be variable based on the person I'm guessing.

and it depends on the mood, the situation and possibly how long it's been since you had sex.

Re: Ladies... Quickness to orgasm vs Goodness of orgasm
 

um...

as in, how is that logical? or is it just manthinking vs. womanthinking...

prooly, becuase (regardless of my OWN orgasmic experience..) i would think it sensible to think that the longer it takes my bf to orgasm, the better it is.

it's all about the buildup of pleasure. :)

it's all about how much/intense the leadup is. but, somedays, it's about getting off and getting to sleep, ESPECIALLY when on periods, so... the long and short of it is, enjoy what you're doing and make sure SHE'S enjoying what you're donig, and all will be well. :)

as you good people have been saying, the longer the buildup the better... far better =)

Besides, who doesn't want something like that to last? Longer it takes, the better it is because you want it really badly after all the buildup.

If your woman says she likes it, assume she likes it. Women who fake orgasms and lie to their partners about how things feel have issues of their own so it's not your fault if she doesn't tell you something doesn't feel good.

and I agree, the longer, the more intense the orgasm.

any orgasm is a good orgasm . . . poor me going on 2 weeks without, masterbation isnt helping cuz i just moved into the dorms and its just wierd.

Lets have a visual here.. lets say we fill a balloon with water.. the water is the amount of pleasure and the bursting of the balloon is the orgasm.. ;)

Fast sex can be hot if you're doing it in the closet or something. Other than that, I'll take the long way around.

fast is good when it has to be fast (need to get to sleep or something), but slower is better in almost all other cases. take a while to go next time, and you'll see what we mean.

There are two kinds of long:

1. Taking too long because it ain't working or she isn't in the mood.
2. You teasing her, getting her close and not letting her over the edge until you're good and ready.

Go for number 2. Make her beg for it once or twice.

And there are such things as bad orgasms... believe me...