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Old 09-11-2003, 06:44 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Do women really enjoy anal sex?

My gf and I enjoy some anal play now and then (half the time I finger and fuck her and the other she fingers and fucks me with a strap on). I know that it is painful for her but she still asks me if I want to fuck her ass. She says it's a good pain.

How many women out there actually enjoy anal sex?
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Old 09-11-2003, 06:52 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 09-11-2003, 06:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I dont know but I know most of the women that I have been with dont like it. Theyll do it sometimes, but most say they dont like it.
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Old 09-11-2003, 07:25 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Do women really enjoy anal sex?

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I know that it is painful for her but she still asks me if I want to fuck her ass. She says it's a good pain.
If it's painful for her, you're doing it wrong. Either she's not relaxed enough or you're not using enough lube.
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Old 09-11-2003, 07:47 AM   #5 (permalink)
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If it's painful for her, you're doing it wrong. Either she's not relaxed enough or you're not using enough lube.
as a woman I'd have to agree, another problem may be the position. Just like vaginal sex every woman has a particular position that feels better than others
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Old 09-11-2003, 08:08 AM   #6 (permalink)
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We use lots of lube... both for her and for me!

We've only tried it doggy style. Do you think she might prefer it on her back or if she mounted me? What other positions would you suggest?
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Old 09-11-2003, 10:48 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Me personally, the best ways are on my back, but the best way is on top of him because that way I'm in control of the pressure and how deep it goes. So you might try it that way. It's a lot easier to relax enough when you know that if it hurts you are the one who can move away and all that. Just be patiant. It also may help if you "stretch her out" (how vulger of me, sorry) with a toy before you do it too.
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Old 09-11-2003, 10:56 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Do women really enjoy anal sex?

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How many women out there actually enjoy anal sex?
/me raises her hand

i love it. but the situation/conditions need to be right.
which mostly means my butt needs to be cooperating

when done properly (lube + patience) it feels very good.
plus i love giving *that* to my bf. and he likes getting it

try her on top, i like to start that way personally.

another thing to try too if not done already is have you/her play with her clit whilst being assfucked.
it can help with keeping the sensations on the good side of intense

good luck.
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Old 09-11-2003, 04:06 PM   #9 (permalink)
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/me raises her hand
i love it. but the situation/conditions need to be right.
which mostly means my butt needs to be cooperating
Haha my wife says that too
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Old 09-11-2003, 04:37 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Well, the girl I had sex with last night rolled over grabbed my dick and shoved it in.


Um... Yeah. How do you react to something like that. I just kept on humping like no ones buisness. Now, it got even stranger when she kept screaming, "Come on my ass." It was straight porn style. Needless to say I wasn't that turned on by the whole situation and I don't think I will be going out with this girl again.
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Old 09-11-2003, 07:14 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Well, the girl I had sex with last night rolled over grabbed my dick and shoved it in.

Um... Yeah. How do you react to something like that. I just kept on humping like no ones buisness. Now, it got even stranger when she kept screaming, "Come on my ass." It was straight porn style. Needless to say I wasn't that turned on by the whole situation and I don't think I will be going out with this girl again.
Why the hell not? Don't you ever have one of those nights where you want... just... nasty, carnal, animalistic sex? Where you go fuckin nuts and pound the shit out of the girl because you're pumped up a little extra?

I've noticed on several occasions of girls who (with some more often than others) will have a night of dirty, raunchy, filthy-talking sex. I think it gives them some empowerment to be controlling the tempo by pushing your limits. Also, girls have said that it gets them REALLY hot. Why you think a lot of girls like it when you talk dirty to them? *wink wink*

Oh, and for the guy with the sore-ass girl, doggie is one of the tightest positions for that. The easiest is typically when you're both lying down on your sides (her facing away, obviously... you can either be on your side too or kneeling behind her) and you penetrate her then... she can still have some control because she's in reaching distance, but it doesn't flex or stretch any of the muscles in or around the butt.

Great topic!
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Old 09-11-2003, 08:09 PM   #12 (permalink)
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At least in fantasy. I love anal toys and look forward to trying "the real thing."
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Old 09-12-2003, 06:18 PM   #13 (permalink)
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my girlfriend likes it.. more than vaginal sex actually. It helps her a bit if you rub the area alot with lube beforehand to relax it.. then use a finger first to get it a bit more relaxed.. then shes ready for big time.
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Old 09-12-2003, 06:35 PM   #14 (permalink)
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It is like asking "do women really like apricots?" some do, some don't. Some eat them frequently and some just once in a while. Some have never tried apricots and don't ever want to - and I'm ok with that, because these kind of apricots smell like shit. Some women shove apricots up their asses, but that is a different story.
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Old 09-12-2003, 07:30 PM   #15 (permalink)
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It is like asking "do women really like apricots?" some do, some don't. Some eat them frequently and some just once in a while. Some have never tried apricots and don't ever want to - and I'm ok with that, because these kind of apricots smell like shit. Some women shove apricots up their asses, but that is a different story.

LOL

my ex used to orgasm harder and more often durring anal then anything else. she would cum within seconds of starting, it was amazing. man was she a good girl....
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Old 09-23-2003, 06:08 AM   #16 (permalink)
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It depends on the girl. Most of my ex's dont like it but I came across one who had some of her most powerfull orgasms during anal sex
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Old 09-23-2003, 07:38 AM   #17 (permalink)
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Well, spontaneously no. If I know we are going there or there is a possiblity I will enema and then I feel clean and comfortable. As For enjoying it. It is okay. I mean it can be pleasureable but I never find myself in orgasm from it... Now a good sandwiching That can put me waaaaay over the edge. I'm small and my main partner is large. I usually take him in anally first and then if he is holding me, I am open and helpless for the other partner to enter my pussy. That is wild.... It is the feeling of both pressed so deep in me Ohhhh god!!!
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Old 09-23-2003, 09:17 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Well, spontaneously no. If I know we are going there or there is a possiblity I will enema and then I feel clean and comfortable. As For enjoying it. It is okay. I mean it can be pleasureable but I never find myself in orgasm from it... Now a good sandwiching That can put me waaaaay over the edge. I'm small and my main partner is large. I usually take him in anally first and then if he is holding me, I am open and helpless for the other partner to enter my pussy. That is wild.... It is the feeling of both pressed so deep in me Ohhhh god!!!
This is something I love to fantacise about lots!

I have tried anal but my partner and I were both unexperienced and I was very tense. I would like to try it again sometime. It was uncomfortable the first time but judging from what I did enjoy about it I know I could love it with patience the next time.
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Old 09-23-2003, 09:30 AM   #19 (permalink)
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It also may help if you "stretch her out" (how vulger of me, sorry) with a toy before you do it too.
That's how I do it anyway. We use a small toy to get me relaxed first. Also clit stimulation which i think someone mentioned is also good, that way I'm focused on the pleasure from that while my husband starts sliding the toy in.
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Old 09-23-2003, 06:18 PM   #20 (permalink)
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I've read your posts, I've given thoughful consideration, and now I've decided. All the best women in the world are in this place. Wow.
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Old 09-24-2003, 01:04 AM   #21 (permalink)
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I've read your posts, I've given thoughful consideration, and now I've decided. All the best women in the world are in this place. Wow.
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Old 09-24-2003, 05:37 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Well, the girl I had sex with last night rolled over grabbed my dick and shoved it in.


Um... Yeah. How do you react to something like that. I just kept on humping like no ones buisness. Now, it got even stranger when she kept screaming, "Come on my ass." It was straight porn style. Needless to say I wasn't that turned on by the whole situation and I don't think I will be going out with this girl again.
If you aren't going to see her again, send me her number and i will look her up.
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Old 09-24-2003, 07:32 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Old 02-12-2004, 05:47 PM   #24 (permalink)
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My girlfriend cums much harder when we have anal sex than when we do it vaginally.

One good trick is to have the woman stimulate her clit with the vibrator while you penetrate her anally. It works wonders for my girlfriend.
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Old 02-12-2004, 06:05 PM   #25 (permalink)
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If my man likes it, then I'm ready for whatever he wants. If it makes him harder - I do it and love it cuz he's so hot and it feels so good to make him hotter. And practice helps make it better and more sensual. Really. When he cums in me while pumping there it's amazing.
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Old 02-12-2004, 06:16 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Do I enjoy it? Well... I don't DISLIKE it. It's more the fact that he's so turned on by it that turns me on. I like a little finger and tongue play though, that's always fun.
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Old 02-12-2004, 07:42 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Well, the girl I had sex with last night rolled over grabbed my dick and shoved it in.


Um... Yeah. How do you react to something like that. I just kept on humping like no ones buisness. Now, it got even stranger when she kept screaming, "Come on my ass." It was straight porn style. Needless to say I wasn't that turned on by the whole situation and I don't think I will be going out with this girl again.
How many months later and I have no idea who I'm talking about. Is that a bad thing?
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Old 02-12-2004, 07:49 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Old 02-12-2004, 10:19 PM   #29 (permalink)
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In response to the thread title, "Do men really enjoy anal sex?"
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Old 02-12-2004, 10:29 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Apparently yes!

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Old 02-13-2004, 01:30 AM   #31 (permalink)
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The first time you do it as a guy is odd. It's not as easy as they make it look in porn.
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Old 02-13-2004, 02:25 AM   #32 (permalink)
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Old 02-13-2004, 04:48 AM   #33 (permalink)
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LOL

my ex used to orgasm harder and more often durring anal then anything else. she would cum within seconds of starting, it was amazing. man was she a good girl....
Same thing happens for me... that's why i loooooove anal sex!
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Old 02-13-2004, 07:36 AM   #34 (permalink)
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I never dated one that even wanted to try. But I like it all (so far) so I'm OK with that.
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Old 02-13-2004, 08:01 AM   #35 (permalink)
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My ex was totally into Anal. She loved everything about it. The smell, the feel, the pain. She says its a good pain and of course I loved doing it
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Old 02-13-2004, 02:20 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Hmm, I'm always the one that suggests/initiates anal - but I think it's because you do have to be into it to enjoy it- the couple of times I was halfhearted about the idea, I wasn't able to enjoy it at all. If I'm into it tho- woah, look out! So yeah, I enjoy it.

I'll wait until he suggests receiving it before I even go that route
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