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Old 09-12-2003, 08:20 AM   #1 (permalink)
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BJ Questions - Why can't I cum in certain positions?

This is kinda weird, so I'll start here:

Why can't I cum in certain positions while having a BJ? The only way I can is laying down.. It doesn't work standing or sitting, and it's really annoying

I've also been having a problem from cumming at all by a BJ, hands have worked for me more lately, though I know some meds I take make it harder.. What do you guys concentrate on that helps you come during a BJ? I usually look at my wife and tell her how pretty she is, etc.. It helps a bit but I wish there was a sure-fire way to cum..

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Old 09-12-2003, 08:39 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I have noticed it's much easier for me to get off from head if I spread my legs as much as possible. Don't know why but when I sense she's getting tired I just open my legs as wide as I can without getting a hip cramp and it works for me within a minute or two. I think it's partially due to the extra exposure of my genital area makes it more sensitive. Maybe it will work for you.
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Old 09-12-2003, 08:57 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I have trouble getting off if I'm laying down and one of my legs is bent. Don't know why, I can cum standing up, sitting down, kneeling and of course laying down. I usually fantasize about being with multiple partners or my wife being with multiple partners and me watching. That will get me off EVERY time!
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Old 09-12-2003, 10:58 AM   #4 (permalink)
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When I am getting oral sex it always has to include the use of her hands. Otherwise I won't cum.

The mouth is great for warmth and wetness but not for pressure in the right places. Only the addition of fingers or a fist can do that...
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Old 09-12-2003, 02:13 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Sorry I can't help, I could cum running backwards if motivated slightly
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Old 09-12-2003, 02:50 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Sorry I can't help, I could cum running backwards if motivated slightly
LOL, consider yourself lucky. I have never come from a BJ, ever. Of course, I still always want them...
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Old 09-12-2003, 11:21 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Same here! I've never come from a BJ either. They're nice, but just no go. I barely orgasm from sex! Takes forever.
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Old 09-13-2003, 05:05 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Same here! I've never come from a BJ either. They're nice, but just no go. I barely orgasm from sex! Takes forever.
During intercourse it's fairly easy to cum, but that's kinda obvious. How could you not being inside your SO and starring at each other
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Old 09-13-2003, 09:38 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Perhaps it's concentrating on not falling over? Seriously, lying down is the most relaxed one can be, and also for most people the most familiar place for sexual activity. Standing up can feel a little... exposed.
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Old 09-14-2003, 03:08 PM   #10 (permalink)
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i dunno, lying down it takes me a god damn age to cum. i find it easier to cum when im upright, i guess its just one of those things thats different for everyone.

but even if i am lying on my back it's worth the wait, i've had the most intense orgasms ever from bj's. I think its because it takes such a long time for me to slowly build up that by the time i do cum, i go off like a damn volcano.
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Old 09-14-2003, 07:19 PM   #11 (permalink)
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This is a funny thread. I too, can't cum in certain positions. Sitting on a chair helps.

I, also, can't cum unless - a) she's VERY skilled with her mouth, or b) she uses her mouth AND hand. B tends to happen more often than A... only had one girl. And jeez... heh.

And I'll also agree that BJ orgasms blow sex orgasms out of the water.
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Old 09-14-2003, 07:29 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I have no trouble at all getting off from a blowjob - in fact, I often have trouble holding off. Something about the "sweet, innocent, good little girl" look in her eyes when she's staring up at me with my cock in her mouth ... hell, I've got wood just thinking about it.

Any position goes for me. Lying, sitting, standing, it's all good.
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Old 09-14-2003, 07:32 PM   #13 (permalink)
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It's hard to cum "up" - meaning that if you're pointing towards the sky, no matter what you're doing, it's going to take more effort to work the cum against gravity.

I don't KNOW that it's true, but it always seems to be true. It explains why girl-on-top takes longer to cum, at least most of the time.
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Old 09-14-2003, 07:38 PM   #14 (permalink)
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It's hard to cum "up" - meaning that if you're pointing towards the sky, no matter what you're doing, it's going to take more effort to work the cum against gravity.

I don't KNOW that it's true, but it always seems to be true. It explains why girl-on-top takes longer to cum, at least most of the time.
Girl-on-top takes longer because there's less direct friction on the glans. (IIRC) It's certainly not for lack of visual stimulation, I'll tell you that much.
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