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Sex sober 57 85.07%
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Old 09-26-2003, 12:13 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Which is better:

Well, i am sitting here drunk, and I was pondering, which is better: Sex drunk, or sex sober? What do you think, and why.

Feel free to explore casual sex vs meaningful sex, etc.

I cant think of what else to discuss, and this is written before i passout(proofread 3 times), so without further adu, chat it up, and feel free to post personal experiances/ personal bests!

PS- Mods; But if this should go in tilted sexuality, please move it, and im sorry!
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Old 09-26-2003, 03:57 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Sex drunk is usually a messy experience. When I have sex I wanna be in total contron & feel everything. Booze disconnects you from your senses & I think you loose out. & If youre really drunk you wont remember the next day. I dont really see any argument here - Sex sober is the best.
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Old 09-26-2003, 04:47 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Actually, I've never had sex while drunk. Must work on that
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Old 09-26-2003, 04:53 AM   #4 (permalink)
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As long as the drunk sex is not almost past out drunk. Ususally the inhibitions will be down a lot, and you can let loose even more than ususal.
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Old 09-26-2003, 04:55 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Well... I've done things while drunk. Inhibitions down for sure! I was drunk... The guy was in the passed out drunk stage. Otherwise I'm sure I woulda had drunken sex. Damn drunken men anyway..
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Old 09-26-2003, 05:04 AM   #6 (permalink)
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i don't drink anymore, so drunk sex = no sex = bad.
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Old 09-26-2003, 07:11 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Sober sex allows for a lot more intimacy and connection (as well as great deal more physical sensation), but that's not to knock drunk sex. It's been my experience that being inebriated really allows one to let go of control and just have a good time. Depends on the stage of drunkeness though, I suppose.
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Old 09-26-2003, 07:31 AM   #8 (permalink)
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drunk sex is very good (not on the verge of throwing up drunk, just happy drunk)

things loosen up, allows for greatest amount of experimentation,
may lead to things like public sex,
really become true self, if you like it a little rough, etc
the best part is you can last forever cause you're all numbed up

i love it

but i love stonecold sober sex just as much really
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Old 09-26-2003, 09:19 AM   #9 (permalink)
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sober sex is the best.....cuz thats when you know the chick likes you....if ur at a party its prolly cuz of the alcohol
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Old 09-26-2003, 10:59 AM   #10 (permalink)
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sex sober is awesome....

sex with maybe one drink is pretty darn cool too... that way inhibitions are down, but it's not like the beer goggles are in full effect, and there is no memory loss
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Old 09-26-2003, 11:11 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I've never been that keen on sex drunk. It seems to heighten everything but it also, at least for me, open the door to making mistakes like forgeting a rubber or sleeping with someone that you find revolting. Plus, if you or your mate has just vomited and tries to kiss you or give you oral pleasure, that's just not good.

Sober sex seems to be the best for knowing who you are sleeping with and if you do make a mistake in judgment, you can drive home quickly without the worries of a DUI.
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Old 09-26-2003, 11:36 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I've had both and I must say, sober sex is better. Trust me.

Averett, you need to get out more. And yes, that IS an offer.
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Old 09-26-2003, 11:36 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Sex Sober! The problem with sex drunk aint the sex part, it's seeing who you had sex with the next morning.
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Old 09-26-2003, 11:37 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I think happy drunk is the best. Inhibitions are down and each is a little looser to really open up and let things happen. Usually do things you wouldn't do sober but have always wanted to try.
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Old 09-26-2003, 11:38 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Everything is better when you're sober.
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Old 09-26-2003, 12:18 PM   #16 (permalink)
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mild buzz is good-for me and big mama
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Old 09-26-2003, 12:27 PM   #17 (permalink)
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when i'm drunk - the last thing i'm thinking about is sex and/or moving around at all!!
 
Old 09-26-2003, 01:32 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I vote for sex sober. Besides I don't drink anymore anyway.
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Old 09-26-2003, 07:34 PM   #19 (permalink)
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I don't drink. I very much enjoy sex either way, but it's always a really fun time when Quadrette is drunk. She gets much dirtier than she does when sober.

The problem is we're usually out when she's drunk, so she's all horny, but by the time we commute home, she's lost the buzz and gets too sleepy. This has been a problem since we started dating over 6 years ago. We do occasionally make a detour if we're driving, but it's real hard to fuck on the subway.
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Old 09-26-2003, 07:51 PM   #20 (permalink)
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sex drunk is the best cause i can last alot longer. yeah maybe it is just my problem but hey it works for me
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Old 09-26-2003, 09:44 PM   #21 (permalink)
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They both have their pros and cons. I guess sober sex is better because it's more meaningful, but if i'm just looking for a fuck then drunken sex is great. My b/f doesn't like drunken sex. It actually just became a rule in our relationship that we wouldn't have sex drunk. I don't think he likes it because I tend to get pretty obnoxious and stupid (which I don't blame him for at all). I like drunken sex just because I can relax more and let go more. I don't care what's going on or who's around. I can just be me and enjoy the moment.
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Old 09-26-2003, 10:26 PM   #22 (permalink)
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well, i voted for Sex Drunk... (but not too drunk)

theres a thin line on this one.
i mean one drink over that line and the sex just gets messy and even nasty.
but with the perfect amount of booze on board, the inhibitions come down and the adventuous spirit comes out to play.

however, sex while sober can also be very very good.

tough question.
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Old 09-26-2003, 10:47 PM   #23 (permalink)
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they each have thier place in my heart.
sober is good connection sex
drunk is fun let loose sex.
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Old 09-27-2003, 12:38 AM   #24 (permalink)
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drunk can be fun, but i have a fun time more often when i'm sober. (it's also less fun if the guy goes limp due to intoxication....)
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Old 09-27-2003, 01:05 AM   #25 (permalink)
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I guess They both have their places !

I like drunk ( not drag ass drunk) sex because you seem to be more experimental and sober sex is good for just wanting to be passionate and make love!
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Old 09-27-2003, 03:38 AM   #26 (permalink)
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i find I don't last as long when I am drunk and tend to push the boundaries more than I should and feel bad in the morning....

pushing boundaries is sober territory..
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Old 09-27-2003, 03:51 AM   #27 (permalink)
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I don't drink. To me, drunk, nothing is any good.
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Old 09-27-2003, 04:53 AM   #28 (permalink)
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I'm noting voting on this issue, as I'm missing a category: "Sex on pot".

Probably I should justify my answer.
1. Drinking does sometimes make it easier to get in the position of having sex.
2. Sex while drunk (meaning more than one or two beers) is crap. Your primary sexual organ doesn't perform well, your senses aren't on par, etc. You probably know that.
3. Stoned sex is another issue. My personal experience and that of others I've spoken to shows that the following happens: Loss of inhibitions, while retaining a sense of the feelings and needs of the other person. Even though I've lost a few of my own inhibitions, I'd still claim that it adds to my experience. Not that I want to be stoned all the time.
4. Stoned sex does tend to be a matter of both doing what they want. But in contrast to drunk sex, it's less a matter of having the "courage" of doing what one wants and the other doesn't, but more a matter of both doing more to the effect of mutual pleasure.
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Old 09-27-2003, 05:07 AM   #29 (permalink)
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Sex sober is definitley better, but Ive had alot of fun times drunk, The first time me and my gf had drunk sex, we got so into it, we did it 4 times, that was the first time we did it more than once
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Old 09-27-2003, 07:37 AM   #30 (permalink)
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Sober is best, but sloppy drunk sex is fun too.
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Old 09-27-2003, 09:45 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Grothendieck
I'm noting voting on this issue, as I'm missing a category: "Sex on pot".
Personally, I don't think it makes a difference if you're intoxicated from alcohol or pot. You're still intoxicated.
- You can experience the same erection problems with pot as you can with alcohol.
- Both alcohol and pot lower your inhibitions because you're intoxicated.
- Maybe for you (placebo, anyone?) it's less a matter of having the courage of doing what you want, but they both do the same thing, and you end up with the same end result.

To me, this is the same issue as with pot and driving. A lot of stoners think it's okay to drive while stoned, but not drunk because it's somehow different when you're high. One time, a guy lied to me about his sobriety and drove a full car of people to a nearby restaurant. Everyone in the car could tell he was stoned and he was driving like shit. He thought his driving was totally up to par. So, I'll let you in on a little secret, they're both drugs and they both impair your judgment. That's why you'll still get in trouble if you're caught driving while stoned--cops agree with me that stoned is just as bad as drunk. To me, there's no difference.
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Old 09-27-2003, 09:54 AM   #32 (permalink)
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I'd have to say sober sex, because my wife doesn't drink anymore and I am not too fond of alcohol to get drunk
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Old 09-27-2003, 12:46 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Old 09-27-2003, 01:35 PM   #34 (permalink)
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There is no comparison. Sex drunk can be an intense experience of unleashed inhibitions. However, all I can usually remember of these experiences is very blurry. Sex sober is usually a little more restrained, but you are sure to remember all of the feelings, emotions, etc. Sober sex is the best imho.
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Old 09-28-2003, 07:14 AM   #35 (permalink)
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sober sex. no question. drunk sex is fair, high sex is a blast... but REAL fulfilment? Sober, thoughtful, intellectual, calculated, and purposeful sex is by far the most incredible, mind-altering experience. I don't just mean then lovey-dovey birds chirping sex, I mean the naughty, kinky, insane intimacy of clear-headed passion. Nothing better!

But then, I always say sex is like pizza... Even when it's fairly bad, it's pretty good... It's better when it's a bit messy, and drunk, high, or straight up, it's something to savor.
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