10-13-2003, 05:38 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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Dry Spell
I am in the midst of a two-month dry spell with my wife. What is the longest spell that you have ever had with your significant other and what was the reason behind it?
I think mine has something to do with having kids and my busyness at work. For some reason, it seems that she has gradually lost interest in having lots of foreplay and such. |
10-13-2003, 06:18 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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Location: The Internet
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Shitty deals! I've been there too ...
Partner's sex drive was absolutely absent ... begged her to try new b.c.p. and that fixed it !! Perhaps anybody whose partner is on the low-and-no for sex should look at a different birth control pill with a higher testosterone content.
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10-13-2003, 07:19 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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the nookie monster took a vacation for what seemed like a few months, the combination of stress, illness, and other strange distractions on both of our parts contributed to it, but we got past it without any wild problems.
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10-13-2003, 08:58 PM | #8 (permalink) | |
I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
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Sorry to sound like a stickler I've just used about 5 different kinds of BC pills and am familiar with them.
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10-13-2003, 09:25 PM | #10 (permalink) |
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2 plus years. It was a combination of my self-worth issues, and her depression, family issues.
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10-13-2003, 09:26 PM | #11 (permalink) |
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Location: Vol Country
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Well I win I guess.
Although she's not my wife or anything so that changes things, but still, this is a while.......... I'm on an eight month dry spell because my girlfriend is a virgin, and I'm not a cheater.
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10-13-2003, 10:39 PM | #13 (permalink) |
Loves my girl in thongs
Location: North of Mexico, South of Canada
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5 months every spring,when i'm away on business. (for the last three years). As far as i'm concerned, spring is the most torturus time to be away from a signifgant other.
I can feel spring creeping nearer and hate the thought of it. i just hold her tight every night not wanting to let go, and always cradel her in my arms...
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10-14-2003, 12:51 AM | #14 (permalink) | |
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2 months is my max back on topic, when she stopped taking the pill a year ago and had a 2 month period :/ |
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10-14-2003, 12:59 AM | #15 (permalink) | |
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10-14-2003, 05:25 AM | #17 (permalink) | |
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Location: South Africa
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been about 6 months too
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10-14-2003, 06:30 AM | #20 (permalink) |
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I think my longest was about 2 months for medical reasons, right after junior arrived.
2-3 weeks was the longest stretch without physical reasons. Initiate hand to gland combat positions.... comence.
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10-14-2003, 06:59 AM | #21 (permalink) | |
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Just like in that thread about the longest you have been without having sex. Sort of a case of not missing what you never had. If that makes any sense at all.
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10-14-2003, 02:46 PM | #23 (permalink) | |
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Location: ski town
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The longest I went was a month. The only reason was that I was trying to see how long it would take for her to do something about it. |
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10-14-2003, 06:31 PM | #24 (permalink) | |
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There are a number of b.c.p.s out there which can be very damaging to libido ... if I'm not mistaken, Alless is one of them .. Marvelon however is supposedly very good for a "hormonal balance". Certainly something to consider if the sex drive is low ... .. or call me
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10-16-2003, 10:28 AM | #27 (permalink) |
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My longest was right at a year and for the same reason someone mentioned above. My wife was a virgin, and I wasn't going to cheat on her. The longest since marriage was about 3 months (4 weeks before and 6 weeks after childbirth).
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10-16-2003, 10:43 AM | #28 (permalink) |
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Location: Canada
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probably weeks. but we're supposed to fuck all the time cause we're young and happy. any dry spell tend to be mostly because of school/work schedules or because we both live at home. sometime because of that time of the month in there too. just timing really.
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