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Eldaire · 11-08-2003, 01:44 AM

This has probably been done before, but who has advice on seduction (of women)?

xtreemmar1ne · 11-08-2003, 02:30 AM

I don't know about you, but I've found for me it always works best to start with a massage and work from there. If you're good with your hands, this is a great way to start out.

Met22 · 11-08-2003, 12:35 PM

Seduction starts with aura! If you paint a picture without words then you have a chance at seduction. Otherwise you are just a salesman. The less you have going on the better salesman you have to be. Seduction lies in percieving the situation and responding spontanously. It involves courage, to be out there and risk major rejection.

jw_toyboy · 11-08-2003, 04:46 PM

In my experience guys just plain suck at seduction... not just myself, but everyone. Girls on the other hand are brilliant even with just a little confidence they can wrap a guy around there little finger and make them do nearly anything.
For some reason it just doesn't really work for us guys except in exceptional circumstances (like movies!).

sexymama · 11-08-2003, 06:07 PM

Being truly in love is the best aphrodisiac there is! Give her time to know you and love you -- don't be too quick to hope into bed.

Kim_type_thing · 11-08-2003, 07:12 PM

Be into her. Be into her conversation and her energy. Never under estimate the power of chivalry, Open her door pick up her coat buy her a drink*, you'll know if you start to look like a chump, pace yourself.Start physical contact small and casual. If she tosses her hair or tilts her head you are on the right track. Keep it up after the fact or you'll just be a cad

-Kim, who loves a good seducer

*If you buy a drink don't ask and don't make a big deal out of paying. Trust me, she noticed.

Eldaire · 11-09-2003, 02:43 AM

I know the chivalry thing, and if that worked for all women that would be awesome. However, as much as I hate to say it, there are a lot of women out there who just don't respond to it. In fact they seem to respond to the opposite better.

Also, I like the massage technique (I've used it for a couple years now and it's pretty reliable).

ARTelevision · 11-09-2003, 03:07 AM

"seduce women" returns 16,300 results on a Google search.
It looks like everyone and his brother has "advice" on that topic.

Kim_type_thing · 11-10-2003, 01:14 AM

I think that treating her poorly, and I know that sad majority of girls go for that, is not seduction, it's manipulation. Not that the line is between the two is very clear. If seduction is done right she should never have ill feelings toward you.

rufgti · 11-10-2003, 02:39 AM

Let me start by stating that an orangutang is better looking than me. And I still seem to get the cute girls.

I had to rely on other things besides good looks and a ready smile to get by, let me tell you

I noticed that a great sense of humor, excellent listening skills (which includes asking for clarification if you dont get what she's saying coz it shows that you care about what she is trying to convey), being a gentleman, natural ease and confidence and a paced approach seems to work very well.

Seduction has very much to do with how well one can gauge the responses (physical and verbal) of the person you are interested in. Having balls to set the tone is also an added plus. Stay away from arrogance though.

And most important, just be yourself. Women, on the whole, are very, very, very smart and can spot a jerk off right away.

Kim_type_thing · 11-10-2003, 03:17 PM

^^^^ well said

rogue49 · 11-10-2003, 05:17 PM

I suggest be nice to them.

analog · 11-11-2003, 03:06 AM

I can't even... I don't have the words... too many things to say... just think of all the things you could do to her to make her want you, and DO them. Backrubs, massages, music, candles- and don't listen to the guys who say candles don't do shit, cuz those guys don't KNOW shit. Candles are priceless for seduction. Just don't randomly drop tealights around or anything, they have to be placed properly for maximum effect.

Best of luck.

Smoey · 11-11-2003, 08:33 AM

every once in a while, women love a bad ass. So put on that hat and hopefully you have the confidence to be that bad ass for the night, otherwise be the perfect gentleman that everyone else has dicussed

Eowyn_Vala · 11-12-2003, 08:15 PM

Hmmm, seduction, not much experience on my part, but I don't get much a chance to try that with my boyfriend. As for being seduced, well, take most of the above advice. Most of it is pretty good. I must say that my boyfriend can work wonders with the right words and a few caresses. Then again he doesn't have to seduce me.

11-08-2003, 01:44 AM	#1 (permalink)
Eldaire Loser Location: Davidson College, NC	Seduction This has probably been done before, but who has advice on seduction (of women)?

11-08-2003, 12:35 PM	#3 (permalink)
Met22 Junkie Location: X-posed	Seduction starts with aura! If you paint a picture without words then you have a chance at seduction. Otherwise you are just a salesman. The less you have going on the better salesman you have to be. Seduction lies in percieving the situation and responding spontanously. It involves courage, to be out there and risk major rejection. __________________ Living on the west end dreaming of the theater playing in the Metropolis - Dream the Dream Live the Dream

11-08-2003, 06:07 PM	#5 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	Being truly in love is the best aphrodisiac there is! Give her time to know you and love you -- don't be too quick to hope into bed. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

11-09-2003, 03:07 AM	#8 (permalink)
ARTelevision I change Location: USA	"seduce women" returns 16,300 results on a Google search. It looks like everyone and his brother has "advice" on that topic. __________________ create evolution

11-10-2003, 02:39 AM	#10 (permalink)
rufgti Crazy Location: North of the Border	Let me start by stating that an orangutang is better looking than me. And I still seem to get the cute girls. I had to rely on other things besides good looks and a ready smile to get by, let me tell you I noticed that a great sense of humor, excellent listening skills (which includes asking for clarification if you dont get what she's saying coz it shows that you care about what she is trying to convey), being a gentleman, natural ease and confidence and a paced approach seems to work very well. Seduction has very much to do with how well one can gauge the responses (physical and verbal) of the person you are interested in. Having balls to set the tone is also an added plus. Stay away from arrogance though. And most important, just be yourself. Women, on the whole, are very, very, very smart and can spot a jerk off right away. __________________ Sometimes, you gotta say no to a stripper.... Last edited by rufgti; 11-11-2003 at 01:26 AM..

11-08-2003, 02:30 AM	#2 (permalink)
xtreemmar1ne Upright Location: South Kakilaky	I don't know about you, but I've found for me it always works best to start with a massage and work from there. If you're good with your hands, this is a great way to start out.

11-08-2003, 04:46 PM	#4 (permalink)
jw_toyboy Tilted Location: Australia	In my experience guys just plain suck at seduction... not just myself, but everyone. Girls on the other hand are brilliant even with just a little confidence they can wrap a guy around there little finger and make them do nearly anything. For some reason it just doesn't really work for us guys except in exceptional circumstances (like movies!).

11-08-2003, 07:12 PM	#6 (permalink)
Kim_type_thing Upright	Be into her. Be into her conversation and her energy. Never under estimate the power of chivalry, Open her door pick up her coat buy her a drink, you'll know if you start to look like a chump, pace yourself.Start physical contact small and casual. If she tosses her hair or tilts her head you are on the right track. Keep it up after the fact or you'll just be a cad -Kim, who loves a good seducer If you buy a drink don't ask and don't make a big deal out of paying. Trust me, she noticed.

11-09-2003, 02:43 AM	#7 (permalink)
Eldaire Loser Location: Davidson College, NC	I know the chivalry thing, and if that worked for all women that would be awesome. However, as much as I hate to say it, there are a lot of women out there who just don't respond to it. In fact they seem to respond to the opposite better. Also, I like the massage technique (I've used it for a couple years now and it's pretty reliable).

11-10-2003, 01:14 AM	#9 (permalink)
Kim_type_thing Upright	I think that treating her poorly, and I know that sad majority of girls go for that, is not seduction, it's manipulation. Not that the line is between the two is very clear. If seduction is done right she should never have ill feelings toward you.

11-10-2003, 03:17 PM	#11 (permalink)
Kim_type_thing Upright	^^^^ well said

11-10-2003, 05:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
rogue49 Loser	I suggest be nice to them.

11-11-2003, 03:06 AM	#13 (permalink)
analog Banned	I can't even... I don't have the words... too many things to say... just think of all the things you could do to her to make her want you, and DO them. Backrubs, massages, music, candles- and don't listen to the guys who say candles don't do shit, cuz those guys don't KNOW shit. Candles are priceless for seduction. Just don't randomly drop tealights around or anything, they have to be placed properly for maximum effect. Best of luck.

11-11-2003, 08:33 AM	#14 (permalink)
Smoey Upright	every once in a while, women love a bad ass. So put on that hat and hopefully you have the confidence to be that bad ass for the night, otherwise be the perfect gentleman that everyone else has dicussed

11-12-2003, 08:15 PM	#15 (permalink)
Eowyn_Vala Insane Location: There's no place like home..	Hmmm, seduction, not much experience on my part, but I don't get much a chance to try that with my boyfriend. As for being seduced, well, take most of the above advice. Most of it is pretty good. I must say that my boyfriend can work wonders with the right words and a few caresses. Then again he doesn't have to seduce me. __________________ Cain: I know what you're doing. I've lead troops into battle before. DG: And, how am I doing? Cain: Well, there's less hugging when I do it