Rlyss

Hi everyone. This is just a bit of a silly question I've been thinking about recently. I've never tried anal sex so this could be a really ignorant question.

There's lots of talk about women feeling pain during anal sex, but do us guys feel any pain? I would have thought that something that tight would pe pretty painful on the penis. My penis is pretty damn sensitive and I can imagine anal sex would be like putting my finger in the 'A-Ok!' position and constricting the head.

Am I right? Or is it different when the time comes?

Fenton-J-Cool

If you wear a condom (preferably lubricated) it's actually not that bad. But it depends on the girl.

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motdakasha

An anus is an anus is an anus.

Wear a condom. Too much lube is almost enough. Start small first (fingers, plugs) and work your way up. If the receiver is on top, entry is a lot more pleasant and the recommended position for beginners/first-timers.

It's only painful if you don't do it right. That goes for any gender.

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I also just realized that I misread your post.

If it's so tight it hurts you, you're probably injuring the receiver. GO SLOW. BE NICE. USE TOO MUCH LUBE. Work at the receiver's pace. Start with a lubed (preferrably gloved) finger to get the rectum/anus ready and slippery. If it's a girl, massage toward her vagina since it's feels like the equivalent of fingering her vagina, but from a different angle. If it's a guy, feel for a small bump (which would be forward, and where a vagina would be if it were a girl) and massage it (the prostate gland, a.k.a. heaven).

Then move on to penile insertion when the receiver is ready. Once you get the head in, give the receiver time to relax and get accustomed to the size before making small, slow thrusting motion until the rest of the penis is in. Then you may proceed if receiver gives the go ahead.

Please notice, do not do anything until the receiver is ready.

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Nancy

If you do it slowly enough it'll never hurt. I promise. i know that the hole is damn tight but that only means that it'll feel better for you than when you're screwing a vagina. If you still feel nervous about it you can always warm her up and widen the hole by using a buttplug - that never fails!

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I've never had any problems at all. Pain giving anal sex is a new idea to me...

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doncalypso

The only way I could conceive of it being painful for a man to give anal sex is he fails to put any lube whatsoever on his penis and tries to penetrate her without having lubed her anus either.

But seriously, I doubt he'd even get far enough inside her to even feel any pain from penetrating her because she'd experience so much pain that she'd probably rip his head out.

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Nancy

actually it can be done with no foreplay or lube at all!

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shred

Three words: lube, lube, and lube. Be more worried about her comfort than yours. And enjoy!

tisonlyi

Nancy,

I think I Love You.

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*flattered*

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