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Old 04-02-2004, 11:01 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So when you aren't over her, and you try to do everything and anything to get her back. Even coaxing her into telling you all about her new man/men. And when she says "He's coming into town either this month or the next".

And you say "Ha ha ha, you are soooo gonna get fucked."

And she says "Yeah, I know, I'll get fucked.".

And you leave, because it's the only natural thing to do.

What the fuck ? Why does it matter ? I mean shit, there have been so many women in my life, why does this bother me so ? Why do I care ? With millions of people in this world, how can one become so fucking hung up on one fucked up person ?

Geez.
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Old 04-02-2004, 11:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Good fucking question. Your best bet is to find something you don't like about her and focus on it. It'll be your own private separation. Don't bother talking to her any more 'cause it'll only make it worse.
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Old 04-03-2004, 05:48 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Same reason why I grilled a guy I've liked for so long about his blind date. And I'll grill him about how it went the next time I talk to him. While pounding my head on the desk at the same time.

Being hung up on somebody sucks so hard.
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Old 04-03-2004, 09:15 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Good fucking question. Your best bet is to find something you don't like about her and focus on it. It'll be your own private separation. Don't bother talking to her any more 'cause it'll only make it worse.
Yup. Not much better advice than this.
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Old 04-03-2004, 09:40 AM   #5 (permalink)
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On the bright side, you're not getting the "I still love you but I can't be with you" speech. You're not alone, bud.
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Old 04-03-2004, 03:45 PM   #6 (permalink)
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gah, i feel you... TRUST me i feel you... trying to stay close, as idealistic as it is i know, sometimes may not be the best way to move on past this person... just hard to cut ties especially if you still care deeply for them. i'm sorry *hugs*
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Old 04-03-2004, 04:55 PM   #7 (permalink)
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On the bright side, you're not getting the "I still love you but I can't be with you" speech. You're not alone, bud.

I fucking hate that.

"It's not that I don't wanna be with you it's just that I can't right now... we can still be friends and hang out."
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Old 04-03-2004, 06:06 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I agree on the find something negative about them and focus on that. No guarantees that will work though..... Its a tough situation to be in. Hang in there and good luck .
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Old 04-03-2004, 06:37 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I my self hate it when ex boy firends try to hook up with me agian. I know I say we can still be friends but thats cause I dont want to hurt there feelings or friends means friends so dont try and get me back with me cause no matter how hard a guy will try I wont take him back in less I still liked him when we broke up.
forget about her find some one else.
I try not to talk to them any more and when they do call I Kinda get annoyed but i am nice.
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Old 04-03-2004, 07:33 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I totally understand how you guys feel.....in all logic it seems so easy to get over someone don't it? "Oh you'll get over her just find someone new and you'll forget about them in no time!" Hah yeah....how long does it normally take to find another person you genuinely like again? :-/ too long! Just adds to the suckyness of the situation because until you find someone you tend to go back to your old roots and keep liking the other person ::sighs and slams head on desk:: complicated people lol
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Old 04-03-2004, 11:08 PM   #11 (permalink)
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"It's not that I don't wanna be with you it's just that I can't right now... we can still be friends and hang out."
rather get kicked in the sac then hear that again. anyday.
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Old 04-04-2004, 11:26 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Finding something negative can be hard though if you hold that person in such high regard. I know it sucks, and I think we have all been though it. I made a decision that I was going to move on real quick from that point on. I had to just totally immerse myself in things that I really enjoy. Just remember all wounds heal at some point. Stay strong, and always guard you're heart
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