13, hmmm, an unlucky number?!

1 in high school
11 in college
1 wife

and at one point I was even turning women down! It was just fun to get them naked and fiddle, then walk away! (STDs ya know). Married at 23, when I was reelin' them in, sometimes I wonder...

Still only 27!

0, I'm a total chick magnet.

I'm at 7 and now married, but would...honestly...like to have had more 'experience' before my wife. I find that I'm significantly more interested in experimentation than she is. Am I a 'he-hor', as she has referenced guys who sleep around, or is this typical of guy-types? I'm 31, if that helps frame my point of reference for you all.

Last time I actually counted I got up to somewhere around 40.

Add a couple of years, and I'd stake a guess at approximately 45, maybe 50?

But I'm happily married now and Mrs Mephisto would happily castrate me if I returned to my old ways... :)


Doen'st stop me from appreciating a beautiful woman when I see one though!


Mr Mephisto

Three

19 and done .

I suppose I should update this as the number has changed.

18 men (counting hubby)
12 women

30 people total

8

Update...

9...

9...waiting to make it 10 (the fiancee is waiting till her wedding nite) then staying there

1 with my wife of 17 years

21+

I've always been considerd very mature for my age, so when I was younger I always dated girls that were older than me. I've always been very sexual too ... and have had plenty of experiences before gettting out of high school. During high school/college I worked in a super market and I have to tell you, there's plenty of unhappy women out there just looking for an ounce of excitement or somebody to notice them.

Of course living in a college dorm, being away from parents and the new sexual openess of woman ... well, I've had a few partners.

Looking back ... I'm not sure if I would have liked to have less partners than I had. Believe it or not, there were cases when I refused to have sex with somebody for different reasons, but now that I'm older and maturer ... I'm still not sure if I regret having so many partners. Well, I'm sorry, that's not completely true. There were times when some of my partners were in committed relationships, and because of my immaturity I simply had no respect for relationships. Being in a serious relationship now, that certainly is one of my regrets.

Only one, and it will stay that way.

just my current gf and im damn happy the way it is.

Update...it's now 16.

up to number 9, who's currently treating me well.

Still at 0. Go me. Though I'm still holding out hope for finding that special #1 eventually.

i'm only at 3... the first was a one-timer, but the second i had sex with dozens of times, and the third hundreds of times and counting.

my roommate, however, is well over 70 people... thank god we have seperate bathrooms.

edit: i posted this before i voted, but after seeing the results i'd just like to add that i'm surprised to see that over 20% of the people here are virgins and another 23% or so have only slept with one person. it's nice to see that a large portion of people are still sexually reserved and responsible.

Well, almost too embarassed to admit. I lost my virginity at 20. I am turning 30 this year and I have honestly lost track. It has actually been a few years since I have been that way and I actually prefer to not have sex unless there is more behind it. I got to about 35 when I was 25, but since then I have pretty much lost count. I would guess around 50+. I have no regrets about my past because I feel what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. lol

Two here.
The first one was stupidity I was young and stupid. The second was my husband and there will never be any one else.(no men)

Just because a person has more than one or two sexual partners, does not mean that they are not responsible. I've seen more irresponsibility out of people who have fewer partners than with people who have a higher number.

A better poll would include a person's age and number of partners.

Two. The first was when I was totally hammered and so was she. Eh, I sorta wish the first time had been different, but in retrospect the whole virginity thing was hyped up so much more than it turned out to be. The second would be my current girlfriend of...I guess it's almost five months now.

oh i know.. i didn't mean it like that. i guess i worded it poorly...

what i was trying to imply was that i am surprised that, since all of us are over 18, there is still a large number of us that are virgins... which is good because that means they didn't run out and have sex just to have sex when they were younger.

does that make any sense? i don't know why i'm having such a hard time wording this. :)

:d I was beginning to think I was gonna hafta to check into nunnery to repent for my wicked ways. (I'm not a tramp dammit!)

I occassionally watch talk shows during bouts of insomnia, it's be also curious to know what people consider sex, I've read countless articles, and seen too much on these lame talk shows, that people under a certain age, don't consider certain activities to be sex.

well ive only slept with 1 person and if i could change it i probably wouldnt have done it, i honestly do think that i should wait till my wedding night before i have more sex (and im a guy)

someone said what if our husbands/wives are bad in bed and we just dont know it. well then who cares! if we dont know it then obveously if doesnt affect us now does it?

and we should have a new poll about how many std's people have or have had

Same here. I'm surprised to find that I'm the 85th vote for 0! I didn't think there were so many of us here!

I've had about ten women in my life who were kind enough to share themselves with me, if only for a while. My wife has had only one (and if I ever find the bastard........).

Seriously, though, 0 is a pretty good number. Many times I wish that I could roll back my odometer.

I only had 1, and thats my x.. I dont know if I can see myself doing it with anyone else, its odd, since im so used to him.

13, and I am the most painfully shy, social disorder mf'er you could ever meet. Not exactly the best looking, either. So that # is pretty high considering. Most my friends from back then would laugh at my #! I am actually surprised how low a lot of the #'s on this thread have been, maybe things have changed.
Most of it was from age 16-21...been married 8 years and my sex life is way better now than anything back then. Variety is great for a single guy but it's cool to know where it's been and that it loves you. (at least for this guy) I was ALOT more preoccupied with the # at age 20 then at age 30!

0... came close one time during a night of drunken debauchery, but some pang of conscience clicked in and I was like "dude, wtf."

I've heard that people who aren't virgins regret it big time, I guess because their partner and the other person didn't get along afterwards. I think sex can really fuck things up; emotions, relationships. Is it really worth it out of wedlock?

Is close to 80 something bad? I am 26 and I guess I am a bit of a sex addict/player? I had sex with a lot of girls from age 16 until my early 20's. But in the last few years it has still been a a bunch. I love sex is that wrong?

I'm kind of surprised at the limited number of partners people in this forum have had. I was expecting more.

Seems to be more caution than adventure going on here...

I believe I'm at 36 maybe 37.. not real sure.. Sometimes I wish tehre wern't so many.. other times I'm thankful for teh experience.. only 1 one night stand.. all the others were people I was fairly well aquainted with.. now though theres just one lady for me - and she's more then enough.. .

i have boinked 4 girls. and they all hate me now(i am the master of the hump and dump) fuckit. who needs a relationship at 18?

6 for me
1 perfect beginning
1 One nighter, very nice
1 One nighter, almost as nice
1 Long term great sex, bad timing
1 short and sweet
1 new and going well

My current gf is much more experienced than me, however, we often joke which of us is better, me for having had 5 years of great sex with 1 person, or her having 5 years of crap sex with several.

seems we have a lot of 0 and 1 here.. more so than any other single number ..

I just made it into the next bracket with 2.

1) highschool gf
2) college gf (92% lust; no longer with her)

21+ and no, I don't remember all their names.

2 for me :-)

1. My beautiful wife... been together for allmost 10 years. She had a little more experience - but since I made her cum for the first time in her life - that never bothered me :D

2. We have been experimenting some - and got real close friends with a couple .... all had some nice times.... but distance (halfway across the country) and they having a baby did put an end to the sexual side... at least for now.

7 for me. Though I acchieved sexual satisfaction with only one of them. She is the first and only person thus far to give me an orgasm, and I intend on staying with her for the rest of our lives. Also of the other six, i only knew one of them for more than 2 weeks before having sex with them. A sustained physical relationship with one person entirely blows random sex with many women out of the water. Being able to learn from one another is an amazing feeling. Also, the ratio to which i have had sex with other girls compared to with my one girlfriend of 1.5 years is about 14:325. I am her first and only male sexual partner, but both of us will probably put more than a few more notches on our heardboard (its called synergy).
-evan

31. (I counted them once, a long time ago, when I could still remember them all).

A total of zero in high school, but college and grad school were a lot better. Once I was out of school, in pre-AIDS days, it was fairly effortless.

I've been married almost twenty years now, so it doesn't appear that the number will change.