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Old 06-06-2004, 10:48 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone.

I did a lot of things for the first time in my life tonight.

I accepted an ex-girlfriend back after spending to months alone, apart from friends, and realizing I can be a much better person. But that was a few days ago.

Tonight, I found m Sony Camcorder and looked up on the net how I could use it as a webcam. Then my recently ex-girlfriend/recently current girlfriend came online. One thing led to another and (I was completely sober, totally in control) I stripped for her, masturbated and came three times for her (in a half hour time period) and talked until 4am with her.

I know this isn't said so often but I think getting back with her, and deciding that from now on I'm in control, was one of the best decisions of my life. That's what I think.

But this thread's in Sexuality because this is the first time I've ever done anything like this. I've never had a webcam for one thing. She told me what she wanted to see, and if I agreed then I did it. She is quite conservative and almost prudish at times, but I could tell that this experience (watching me jerk off with her in a safe environment with no pressure) really helped her. Some of the things she said online were amazing, and she called me halfway through and wow, she sounded very open and very free. She can be very, very conservative, but she loved this, and spoke in language (about both me and herself) like I've never heard her do before.

I stripped naked in front of my camera, I got hard and jerked off, reading the raunchy things she wrote. Then I did it again, and again. While I was doing so I showed her a few things I liked which she'd been a bit unsure of at first, but the fact that she wasn't 'there' and that she was safe, was a huge benefit.

If anyone else has ever done anything like this I'd love to hear about it here This was the first time I've ever done anything like this and I'm feeling thrilled, a little nervous still (an hour after the event), but also very liberated Not turned on though, ssince I came three times and am exhausted!

Anyway, I mainly wanted to tell somene, and since me jerking off to my girlfriend on a webcam isn't exactly something you can tell a lot of people about, I wanted to tell the TFP
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Old 06-06-2004, 11:14 AM   #2 (permalink)
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hmm i should get the gf a webcam, i have one, but i wouldnt do anything kinky with it unless she did hah Sounds cool, ill have to try it out someday...
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Old 06-06-2004, 12:03 PM   #3 (permalink)
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webcams can be very fun ^_^ enjoy the expansion of your girlfriend's sexuality, as well as your own!
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Old 06-06-2004, 02:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yeah, I'm a regular on yahoo adult chat doing that. I can really get off on it sometimes.
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Old 06-06-2004, 05:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I know this isn't said so often but I think getting back with her, and deciding that from now on I'm in control, was one of the best decisions of my life. That's what I think.
Using webcams like this is certainly a controlled situation. There is an exoticism to this that really highlights the hyperreal world we're in now. I understand that it is easy to get very excited about this kind of situation, we seem hardwired for this propensity to display ourselves and to be objects of consumption. You seem very excited about this, but I warn you to be cautious because this simulated atmosphere does not necessarily directly transfer into a workable reality. If it is used as a tool in conjunction with face-to-face interactions, with respect, dignity, and without emphasizing differences in power or objectification then I can see some positive possibilities.

I'm afraid that often in these situations that humanity gets lost, that power has a central role in the excitement, and both the surveyor and the surveyed are objectified.

Let us know how this works out, how it enhances other parts of your relationship, and if later on you still feel that it was a good idea to get back together with your ex-girlfriend.
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Old 06-06-2004, 06:25 PM   #6 (permalink)
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who is really in control here though? she was the one who made all the requests after all, and you just fulfilled them.

using webcams like this can be fun or exhilirating at first. but i don't think it should be construed as an intimate experience.
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Old 06-06-2004, 08:14 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Oh it certainly wasn't a substitute for an intimate experience, and we both knew that we didn't use the webcam because we aren't as comfortable in person.

I found my camcorder last night and in one of those 'I've got a project and I'm determined!' I decided that there <i>must</i> be a way to get it working as a makeshift webcam.

And I was certainly in control. I wasn't being used, we were just having a bit of fun. We're both studying for mid-year exams and we were both online at the same and relieved a bit of stress through the webcam I would have gone over to her house to do it, but I'd had a glass of wine at dinner so I didn't want to drive.

It's not a substitute for our real intimacy, and we most likely won't be doing it again anytime soon. It was just a bit of fun. And I do trust her fully, I know there is absolutely zero chance of any of that footage ending up spread around the Internet.

She hasn't had much sexual experience before I came along and comes from a very conservative family, but on the phone immediately afterwards she said it was a liberating experience for her.

I recommend it, just for a laugh
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Old 06-06-2004, 11:53 PM   #8 (permalink)
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i used webcam with my SO at the time because we were doing the long distance thing. It was still about as close to being intimate as we could and was really hot because it was the first time i'd done anything like it. Yay for webcams.
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Old 06-07-2004, 01:09 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Yeah, I'm a regular on yahoo adult chat doing that. I can really get off on it sometimes.
Yahoo has a adult chat channel? I didn't know that
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Old 06-07-2004, 01:18 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Yahoo has a adult chat channel? I didn't know that
yahoo has heaps, dont go in there expecting heaps of naked girls on cam though. It's usually gay guys pretending to be chicks watching a bunch of hairy fat men beat off. I've never done anything like that on my cam, it doesnt tickle my fancy.
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Old 06-07-2004, 04:54 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Used to do that a lot when I was in a long distance relationship. It wasn't a net affair as such, we spent a lot of time together IRL whenever possible, but living about 4,000 miles apart, webcams provided us with at least some sort of sexual closeness.
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