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Old 07-30-2004, 08:04 AM   #1 (permalink)
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OK, this is my situation.

I'm the girl of my relationship posting this thread. My SO and I are sexually active and have been for pretty much our entire relationship. He became sexually active in his first/ previous relationship as for me he is the first person I have been with. The problem is a while back he was interested in anal sex , I didn't mind the idea at first and we played around a little but due to hurting (hurting for me that is) during certain events he stopped pursuing the idea. It was never really thought about until currently when I had read some previous forums on the idea of anal sex and became very aroused. I thought and decided to give it another try. So I purchased some lube and informed him I wanted to try out the idea again and I think he was very aroused and pleased to hear this. So we were having sex (just decided to put it bluntly) and we decided to try anal, he was wearing a condom and we used lots of lube but the results were horrible. I was in pain, and both of us frusterated.

What I am needing to know is we need suggestions on how to warm up to being able to have anal sex and be pleasant and enjoyable for the both of us.

I really love him and as far as the physical aspects of our relationship I want to please him. So post away.
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Old 07-30-2004, 09:50 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Ok people, so far 30 of you have looked at this thread and have not posted anything. Please give any thoughts or suggestions you may have.
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Old 07-30-2004, 09:55 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Well, there's the thread Tilted Forum Project - Need anal sex advice. a bit futher down the page. Lots of advice in there.
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Old 07-30-2004, 01:32 PM   #4 (permalink)
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YOU NEED TO WARM UP BY RELAXING! WHAT I MEAN IS, TAKE A HOT BATH TO RELAX YOUR MUSCLES. ANAL SEX NEEDS TO BE SOMEWHAT PLANNED. (TAKE A CRAP AHEAD OF TIME) START OUT SMALL, HAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND START WITH A FINGER OR TWO AND WORK UP TO A SMALL DILDO. EVENTUALLY YOU WILL GET TO THE SIZE YOU NEED AND KEEP IN MIND IT WILL TAKE A LITTLE TIME, BUT IT'S FUN ALONG THE WAY. GOING BACK TO WHAT WAS SAID EARLIER ABOUT TAKING A CRAP, YOU NEED TO BEACAUSE IN ORDER TO ENJOY ANAL SEX WITHIN THE FIRST FEW MINUTES YOU NEED TO USE THOSE PUSHING MUSCLES TO OPEN A BIT MORE. AFTER THE FIRST FEW MINUTES MUSCLES WILL BEGIN TO RELAX MORE. HOPE THIS HELPED. ENJOY
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Old 07-30-2004, 01:40 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Anyway... my suggestion is not to worry about it. The more concern you have about whether it will work or not, the tighter your sphincter will clench. I don't know if he tried to put it all the way in immediately, but I find that you have to slowly get it in and it might even take 5+ minutes after it starts to go in before it goes in all of the way.
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Old 07-30-2004, 02:34 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Alright...

this question has been asked many times, and there are several threads well worth reading, I believe most all 'general' advise has been given time and time again.

Linky to a search on the subject

Closing this one
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