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Old 08-16-2004, 04:11 PM   #1 (permalink)
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keeping it up after your first orgasm

OK, for a few years I have been practicing the Cagle exorsizes (not really on a consisitant basis) and I am finally able to obtain an orgasim without the splurge. Now I was under the impression that this is how one would be able to obtain the multiple orgasim within a single erection. Oddly enough, this is not the case. What happens is I orgasim while holding all of my seed inside but the erection still goes down soon thereafter. Am I doing something wrong? Should I just face the music that this is physically impossible and get a cock-ring? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG?? Needless to say I was quite dissappointed when I realizes that my impressions were wrong on this subject and I am hoping that I am doing something wrong. Please help me out ANYONE!!
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Old 08-16-2004, 05:15 PM   #2 (permalink)
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All I can really write on this is to assure you that you are not a freak. On several occasions I've been able to orgasm, shoot, and go right back to sex; but this is not the norm. Normal I shoot, I score, I'm done. Achieving another erection is out of the question for at the very least 10-15 minutes, and that erection probably won't be as hard. I've also managed to hold back from shooting during an orgasm, only to lose the erection and end up in a lot of pain, or spend an hour trying to get it off again.

If there's a technique to allow multiples that I'm just not using, I'd love to know about it.
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Old 08-16-2004, 05:18 PM   #3 (permalink)
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As far as I knew the Kegle exercises just gave you a stronger hardon and made you shoot farther, not stay up after shooting. I also think they intensify the orgasm. But I haven't heard anything about having multiple orgasms with one erection.
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Old 08-16-2004, 06:03 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Where can I find info on the Kagle exercises?
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Old 08-16-2004, 06:51 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Where can I find info on the Kagle exercises?
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Old 08-17-2004, 05:37 AM   #6 (permalink)
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A long while back, on some radio show this chic was talking about how she gives men multiple orgasms, but was hawking a video. Well, I ponied up. What she was showing, and it does work btw, was just before you get off, squeeze yourself at the base of your dick, until the feeling passes, then go back to it. Sounds weird, but it worked for me.
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Old 08-17-2004, 08:02 AM   #7 (permalink)
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you know, I've heard of a technique like that where when you are about to go you hold, not the base of your penis, well I think the best way to describe it is literally holding or pushing on your chode (piece of skin between your balls-sack and your rectum). I've tried that and it worked but I didn't like it really (shit, what are you going to do when you are about to go: "hold on let me put my finger really close to my asshole so you think I'm kinky in a strange way because I'm doing it for myself".) Perhaps if you had a girlfriend and spoke with her about it everything would be ok but I, sadly, usually go for the one night stands (props to anyone who can keep a girlfriend).

Oh and yeah, the cagle exorsizes really help in EXTENDING your orgasm. Where as I used to have orgasims that would last maybe five seconds if I was lucky I can make them last for fifteen seconds now (a good hardcore fifteen seconds is definately worth it). My times might be a little off because I've never actually timed the experience.
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Old 08-17-2004, 10:07 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I've always been able to hold it in during orgasm. I usually can't do a double whammy without taking at least a minute or so break. Also, being able to hold it in during oral sex is great if your girl doesn't like to eat gametes. I have noticed that the orgasms are a little bit better and longer when holding it in.
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Old 08-17-2004, 10:43 AM   #9 (permalink)
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kegel exercises isolate your puboccocceygeus muscle (PC muscle for short). With enough training and practice, it is possible to orgasm without ejaculation if you squeeze the muscle at the right moment (eliminating the recession period in males, you might call it "down time," and making multiple orgasms for males a reality).

squeeze at the wrong moment and you'll go off like a winchester rifle with a hair trigger.

next time please run a spell check and search for your subject... there are at least 10 other threads about this subject alone.
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Old 08-17-2004, 09:41 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I thought it was unhealthy for you to keep the sperm in when having an orgasm. But maybe it was a different thing, I don't remember that well.
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Old 08-17-2004, 10:24 PM   #11 (permalink)
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it'd be unhealthy if you were to orgasm, but hold the end of your penis with your hand to keep from ejaculating. squeezing your PC muscle prevents the sperm from entering your urethra.
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Old 08-18-2004, 01:16 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Guys aren't meant to have multiple orgasms. We're meant to plant the seed and then fall asleep
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Old 08-18-2004, 03:26 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Guys aren't meant to have multiple orgasms. We're meant to plant the seed and then fall asleep
I'm sure the women you're with appreciate your attitude

just cause it takes a little work doesn't mean it wasn't meant to be. I personally don't use kegels, but with some endurance training i've managed to eliminate the recession period following orgasm.
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Old 08-18-2004, 01:03 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Nothing... Why do we have to always see problems with ourselves that aren't problems?

Is it really that important to focus on performance with sex?

This is a strangely mechanical approach to sex, and I don't quite understand why it is so important whether you can maintain an erection after orgasm or not. It certainly isn't something to worry about. Instead of focusing on these mechanical things as being the most important part of sex, just focus on the person you're with and gaining that emotional connection. It will make sex a meaningful experience rather than an alienating one. Instead of forcing yourself to maintain an erection, just go with it. Maybe you'll maintain one every now and then, or you'll get an erection quickly afterwards every now and then... just go with the moment and don't worry about it. There's no reason to.
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Old 08-18-2004, 03:36 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Nothing... Why do we have to always see problems with ourselves that aren't problems?

Is it really that important to focus on performance with sex?

This is a strangely mechanical approach to sex, and I don't quite understand why it is so important whether you can maintain an erection after orgasm or not. It certainly isn't something to worry about. Instead of focusing on these mechanical things as being the most important part of sex, just focus on the person you're with and gaining that emotional connection. It will make sex a meaningful experience rather than an alienating one. Instead of forcing yourself to maintain an erection, just go with it. Maybe you'll maintain one every now and then, or you'll get an erection quickly afterwards every now and then... just go with the moment and don't worry about it. There's no reason to.

The thing is I have problems with relationships therefore I go for the mechanical side of sex. I do realize that it is better with a relationship but I'm not a fan of committing. Mechanical sex is better than no sex at all.
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Old 08-18-2004, 03:39 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I'm sure the women you're with appreciate your attitude

just cause it takes a little work doesn't mean it wasn't meant to be. I personally don't use kegels, but with some endurance training i've managed to eliminate the recession period following orgasm.
I'm curious as to what endourance exorsizes you are speaking of. Because the cagles do not allow for endourance they just extend the orgasim (at least it does for me anyway) if you are able to do it the right way. Doing it the wrong way does lead to the danger of putting someone's eye out or ruining a wall/ceiling.
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Old 08-18-2004, 10:37 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Instead of focusing on these mechanical things as being the most important part of sex, just focus on the person you're with and gaining that emotional connection. It will make sex a meaningful experience rather than an alienating one. Instead of forcing yourself to maintain an erection, just go with it. Maybe you'll maintain one every now and then, or you'll get an erection quickly afterwards every now and then... just go with the moment and don't worry about it. There's no reason to.
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Old 08-18-2004, 11:12 PM   #18 (permalink)
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using kegels, you can orgasm without ejaculation, so there's no down time and you're ready to go again. the endurance training i spoke of is mostly just having a lot of sex for me it's just a mental thing, I'm not done until I want to be.

sex may be about the journey and not the destination, but it's more fun when you don't need a 10 minute pitstop every 25 miles.
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Old 08-19-2004, 10:06 AM   #19 (permalink)
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using kegels, you can orgasm without ejaculation, so there's no down time and you're ready to go again.
That is the impression I was under but, like I stated before, it just does not work that way for me. Even though I dont release the Yoplait, after that orgasim I'm going back down for the count. Maybe I'm doing it wrong but I really dont think so. Any suggestions bermuDa?
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Old 08-19-2004, 10:47 AM   #20 (permalink)
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it works better for some people than others, maybe you aren't squeezing the PC muscle early enough, or holding it long enough?

try letting yourself go and use the couple minutes to clean up as a chance to prepare yourself for round two. the more practice you get, the more you can reduce your down time.
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Old 08-19-2004, 04:16 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I am nearly always able to keep it up after an orgasm, and always has been. I'll try to explain what happens, but it's the normal thing for me so I don't think about it much.
I find that I inhale deeply, holding my breath for a while and then exhale and inhale lightly while keeping most of the air in my lungs. At the same time I relax my whole body for a few seconds and then I am ready go. My guess though, is that it's mostly mental, just like coming too early.
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Old 08-19-2004, 05:55 PM   #22 (permalink)
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The only time I can quickly get back into the action after the first ejeculation is if I've gone for a long time (i.e. a month or two) without any sex or masturbation whatsoever---at such times I'm so horny that I practically keep my erection after ejaculating and can go for another ejaculation before I lose it. However at other times I need at least 10 to 15 minutes before being able to have another erection.
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Old 08-19-2004, 06:25 PM   #23 (permalink)
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I guess I have borderline Priapism. I get rock hard erections with little to no stimuli. all the time, it does suck cause I have to go through the process of concealing constantly. I guess what keeps me from having full priapism is that it doesn't hurt, and it does go up and down, often. Anyways what I am getting at is that less than 10 minutes after climaxing I will get another erection, never fails. I have never known of an instance where I have stopped having sex cause I couldn't get it up anymore.
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Old 08-19-2004, 07:08 PM   #24 (permalink)
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the more practice you get, the more you can reduce your down time.
I like that, it makes sence. Thanks for all the help guys!
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Old 08-20-2004, 12:03 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I need at most 3-5 minutes of down time after my orgasm before we can start playing again. Most I've ever done was seven in about 4 hours. Sometimes is she keeps the stimulation light but constant I don't actually get soft at all between rounds.

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Old 08-24-2004, 02:32 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Even though I dont release the Yoplait...
LOL! That's hysterical
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Old 08-25-2004, 08:41 AM   #27 (permalink)
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my downtime is under 2 minutes, so...I haven't really had a problem with that

and, my pc muscle is strong enough for me to squeeze and practically deflate my erection (in my experience anyways). It sounds like your perfectly normal. only a small number of people could probably KEEP an erection even after an orgasm. Even if you are like me with minimal downtime, it still does deflate to about half it's size before it starts recovering
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Old 08-27-2004, 10:51 AM   #28 (permalink)
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This is all historical for me now (age 48), but in my not-incredibly-younger days, if it had been a couple of days since sex, I could stay fairly erect after orgasm by staying in the woman and just moving in and out slightly and gently from time to time -- enough to keep stimulated ( it felt good and they generally liked it). This could go on for 10 minutes or so. If she was amenable, I'd start to move more decisively and get fully hard almost immediately.

After two, however, I always fell asleep, so no great stats for me :-).
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Old 08-28-2004, 01:19 PM   #29 (permalink)
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Old 08-30-2004, 12:38 PM   #30 (permalink)
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I prefer to keep everyone happy. First the girl gets an orgasm (oral) then we go for the ride. If she's up for more it's her turn to go for the fuse...
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Old 08-30-2004, 01:44 PM   #31 (permalink)
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the askmen is an interesting article, but I must direct everyone's attention to this thread before you go bragging to your friends about tantric sex: http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showpos...88&postcount=6

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AUGH! DAMN YOU AMERICAN PIE!!!

Look, what you are looking for is NOT Tantric sex, it is Taoist.

Tantric sex they did not care how pleasurable it was for either the man nor the woman. It was about pre-assigned positions that were supposed to awaken a snake that sleeps in the bottom of your spine, leaves your back, and flies into your brain. Now before this starts sounding good to you, one of the "best" positions for this is the man standing on his head, while 2 men hold a woman up so they can consumate... the man tended to black out after a minute or so.

Taoist sex is what you and especially your woman wants. They believed that when you orgasm you give away a little bit of your energy away, if your partner does not orgasm he steals the energy. Thus, the man (being a male dominated society when it was popular) was in charge of giving the woman the most mind-altering orgams, and as many times/often as he possibly can. The man withholds his ejaculation, and can steal her energy. Supposably after one orgasm caused he gets extra strength, after 3 he is immune to disease, and the benefits keep getting better.

Taoist (pronounced Dao) sex is what everyone things tantric sex is. Sorry for my rant but being in college I'm surrounded by thousands and thousands of verile young guys who want to show off how worldly/sexually knoledgable they are... while all they spew is crap from a movie (though it definately still made me laugh my ass off).

Taoist books are filled with things like the Karma Sutra, except much much more descriptive so even the dumbest guy can learn a few tricks. And for the record the K.S. isn't all it's cracked up to be either... the guy who wrote it was a virgin and only wrote down things he thought up in his mind.
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Old 08-30-2004, 06:48 PM   #32 (permalink)
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The 'Taoist Sex' is about Qi Gong and isn't really a condoned practice since it can work against the goal of enlightenment and can be selfish; the act is meant to balance the various amounts of yin and yang between two people not steal their Qi. Although, I'm sure the practice was pretty popular in early Chinese/Indian societies - I do know of several events in which monks were asked to teach men certain Qi Gong practices so they could obtain immortality by sleeping with virgin women.
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Old 09-01-2004, 12:24 PM   #33 (permalink)
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undefinedWhen I have been working out and running and I am really involved with the woman, I can orgasm and not even loose the hard on and go for another, and the third one it gets a little trickey but it feels really good, cause my dick gets that very swollen puffy feeling and if I come again it feels twice as big, sometimes I just stop after pumping for a long time and just jack it really hard or get my girl to do it if she's up for it, I'm not very long maybe 6 inches but I have a very fat cock with veins that look like they are going to pop and a bulbous head that is cut...
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Old 09-01-2004, 03:01 PM   #34 (permalink)
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I believe relaxation has a lot to do with maintaining a hard erection for an extended period of time. Not too relaxed or you'll lose it... We all jerk off from time to time, so you should know the feeling you get when you're about to explode. When you're fucking and you get that feeling, just change the tempo or the position and continue on your happy way. I usually change the tempo first (slow it down, focus on kissing or massaging for a few minutes) then go. If that doesn't work change the position.

I've also found that if I start with the woman on top, I stay more relaxed and she usually comes first. Then we turn over and can do missionary and/or doggy before I get my first one. There are actually quite a lot of positions for a woman on top... and you get to just lay back and watch the show
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Old 09-01-2004, 04:18 PM   #35 (permalink)
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simple answer for me.

best way to keep going is to have started out with a bladder full enough that you can feel it (you know...the cause of <a href="http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=26423" target="_blank">this</a>?). this is the only way i can continue after the first shot. my $0.02.
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Old 09-02-2004, 01:12 PM   #36 (permalink)
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I have been able to spurt and continue with my wife. She likes the sight of me spurting, and it turns her on that I can keep going with no loss of erection. I discovered this by accident, by the way. The normal pattern for us is that I wait for her to orgasm, then I unload. One time I was extremely horny and turned and couldn't wait. Normally I pull out and wait a few seconds and then start up. However during this particular session I pulled out past the "point of no return" and spurted a bit on her but did not fully ejaculate. It was sort of a half-orgasm. I have started practicing this nearly every time and now I can shoot quite a bit and still keep my erection and go for more. The most I have done is three times just crossing the edge and on the fourth time I let myself go completely. Holy crap! I shot really far and my wife was extremely turned on. Anyway, it is possible.
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