There is an un-named hacker group out there, all you have to do is post your IP address and the pictures will be copied from your hard drive and sent around the world for you... :)

But none of us knows who this woman is, so it is just another one on the internet at that point.

Let me just say that I don't believe for a minute, and feel free to dispute me on this, that no one can claim to be guilt-free when it comes to having knowingly caused discomfort to another person.

And I am not casting stones here. I've done it myself. What I am saying is that, as human beings, I think we have all done it, to some degree, to other people in our lives.

I am sure we can all think of instances where a person came to us and asked or perhaps even begged us to stop doing something that was hurting them or causing them discomfort, and yet we didn't stop simply because it was something we had justified or determined that we wanted to do.

I am not speaking about anything heinous or criminal, I am simply talking about in everyday relationships--all of us, at some point or another, have knowingly or willfully caused discomfort to another human being through a chosen action or course of actions. Be it revenge, jealousy, or just because we were "pissed off" at something the other person may have done to us. Or maybe because we thought the other person was being a control freak for even asking us.

I am not attempting to justify anything in this thread about publishing nude pictures of the ex. I agree that it's wrong and even contemplating how to carry it out for more than 2 seconds is wrong.

I am just trying to say that all of us need to examine our own lives and motives very carefully, because it's my opinion (and feel free to disagree) that we are all guilty of having done something to knowingly perpetrate discomfort on another. None of us can cast stones or act self-righteously (not saying anyone here has). I am trying to generalize a behavior that I think every human has engaged in at some point during their life. Self-examination is the first rule, so to speak.

Hopefully, too, we all recognize the behavior in ourselves and don't resort to again. And hopefully, a thread like this one reminds us that resorting to such antics is immature and childish and ultimately, inhumane, especially if the motive is to knowingly, willfully hurt, or perpetrate discomfort to another human being.

Thank you. Handmedown and I applaude you in being the only one to stick your head above the line of fire with a REASONABLE and rationable comment to put a different spin on things. Rather than the self righteous veiws of for want of a better phrase "Keyboard Warriors" who can only condem rather than even try to understand. Yes I do feel the need to expose her for what she is and has done ..YES I do think I would be justified in fighting fire with fire ...Yet I have not done this in 4 yrs, I have NOT posted pics to anyone or any sites, YES i did in oringinal post put "In short anywhere etc" However Having thoughts about doing something and ACTUALLY doing them are two different things.. Anyhow ONCE again thank you Handmedown for actually putting a "DIFFERENT" perspective on things..(not in no way agreeing with me ...(for the moderators..he merely put a different spin on things) But I fail to see how THREATENING me with being kicked off this Discussion forum is going to democratically have a forum that would work ?? I will say this now JAZZ you wanna boot me off do it !!! but if you want a forum where you can have a difference of opinion without the fret of being kicked off then go grow a small black moustache.. FORUMS ARE FOR OPINIONS .. as it states in your terms and conditions.

So in short if you dont like me im out ???

No, you're out if you act like a dick. As I've explained to you numerous times.

I've got no problem with differing opinions. I welcome them. If they weren't there this would be a very boring place.

What I - along with several other folks - have a problem with is someone acting like a complete dickhead in the face of OUR opinions. It's a 2 way street, Duck. You came here asking for opinions. Several were posted. You then proceeded to lash out at anyone who disagreed with you. If you'd bother to read anything else on this site - you haven't except for the thread you created and snide comment in one of the erotica threads - you'd see that we have lots and lots of respectful disagreement. It's what we do. We're pretty good at it, but apparently you're not. Look at your responses when folks disagreed with you then look at when I started mentioning that there was a problem.

Um, no. I didn't condemn you, and I understood you in terms of your situation here. I think the issue is that you don't understand yourself. There's a difference. You say you're happy, but here you are still talking about "fighting fire with fire" and being justified in doing something knowingly terrible to another human being.

I don't know what brand of "happy" you have, but I hope you kept your receipt and that it's under warranty.

I did condemn his course of action, but I did it very kindly. Apparently so kindly, he missed it.

I said "resorting to such antics is immature and childish and ultimately, inhumane, especially if the motive is to knowingly, willfully hurt, or perpetrate discomfort to another human being."

Just in case: Duck, you are being immature, childish, and inhumane. Just my opinion. Not casting a stone at you. Perhaps reconsider your course of action and make a more mature choice?

ONCE AGAIN... I have NOT done this at this moment in time! Yes i was angry ! Yes i still feel somewaht screwed over ... But FFS on a bigger level I agree.. but have we forgoton WW2, Have we forgot 911? Have we forgoton Hunley? Have we forgot the first Bully that punched you, the first or LAST person that cheated on you ??? We have all moved on form 911 but were ALL STILL TALKING ABOUT IT!!!!

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And yes Handmedown..you did condemn it and Maybe rightly so.. but you did not attack after only reading half the posts.. for that you deserve acclaim!

I noticed that, but I wanted to give you a chance to respond to it first. :)

But it's not so obvious that you are merely venting your anger and airing out your pain.

Are you? Or are you truly seeking advice as to whether you should carry out your action?

I'm completely on your side if you want to get over this. I think you should try.

Cheers Baraka.. HELL yeah ..All done dusted and was so far in back of my mind that I forgot it even happened ..However ..And I'm not going to retract on the "It does not matter how long ago it was issue" The fact of that matter is It is OK for her to do it and not have ANY REPECUSSIONS or penalty's for it as she has the "SAME" access rights to the pics as i DO ... BUT I "WOULD" and I stress "WOULD" be labellled a "sleazeball, B*****, scumbag and and this is what i find slightly "Ironic" I still miss her and want her if I was to do this" ...For those that STILL think I'm not over her ........IT WAS 4 YRS AGO, I'm Married now..Lovely wife ..and she is laughing at your responses !!!

Well if you are married and if she is laughing at least one person is laughing with you, guess that's worth something.

Ew. NO.

I have contempt for my exes. I don't ever wish to see those mofos naked or clothed, ever again.

Go away, bitches.

naked pictures of exes, probably not. as in, no naked pics of girls I was seriously seeing and madly in love with, etc. too many weird emotion. pics of casual/one-night-stand/f-buddies/etc? Absolutely hang on to them. If there isn't any emotional baggage with the pics, hang on tight!!! Otherwise, dump 'em and get on with your life already

no pis at all in this thread??? :O

What if you encrypted her name using a funny human solvable cipher and attached it. Would THAT be illegal? Just wondeirng