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Old 06-01-2003, 08:36 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hey, what are effective ways to finger a woman, that feel the best. Kinda hard as a guy to know what they want. Any advise will be appriciated.
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Old 06-01-2003, 09:09 PM   #2 (permalink)
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There's no one right way. The necessary tactics will differ from girl to girl. Just keep an eye on her reactions, really. When you find something that works, keep using it, then stop using it until she begs you to use it again. Pretty simple formula when you get down to it.
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Old 06-01-2003, 10:35 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 06-01-2003, 11:29 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I've been told, that you finger around, but never in, in is not that exciting, and unpleasant to some girls. Most girls seem to prefer that. Anyone care to confirm?
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Old 06-02-2003, 04:21 AM   #5 (permalink)
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My gf loves when I use two fingers.
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Old 06-02-2003, 04:21 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 06-02-2003, 08:26 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I can tell you some girls like the "rub it out like a bad mistake in math" and others like it "traced like a gentle snowflake"

try both and see how she responds.
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Old 06-02-2003, 08:43 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I haven't really thought about much since my fingers are simply a fore runner to my tongue
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Old 06-03-2003, 08:36 AM   #9 (permalink)
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finger + tongue = good.

play some with her ass = better
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Old 06-03-2003, 09:28 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I've been told, that you finger around, but never in, in is not that exciting, and unpleasant to some girls. Most girls seem to prefer that. Anyone care to confirm?
My experience has been that it depends completely on the person.

I've been with women where this is true, but I've been with one in particular where she liked extremely forceful finger thrusts.

Just talk it out with your partner, especially during the act.
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Old 06-03-2003, 09:44 AM   #11 (permalink)
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It seems like the best tactic is to try all of the above. Left side, right side, over the top, tracing the lips, etc. It also helps to get her to show you what feels good. With some encouragement, she can put your digits on the right trigger spot.
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Old 06-03-2003, 11:10 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Old 06-03-2003, 01:42 PM   #13 (permalink)
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finger + tongue = good.

play some with her ass = better
hot dayum!
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Old 06-03-2003, 01:54 PM   #14 (permalink)
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one finger at a time.
"one fist at a time"
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Old 06-03-2003, 02:38 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Does going inside feel any better, or is it best to stay out?
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Old 06-03-2003, 05:41 PM   #16 (permalink)
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the recent ex liked to have 2 fingers in and around and one on/in her bum...

index and middle in the honey pot and one of the remaining ones in the fudge bowl up to the second knuckle... give it a little push and watch her eyes roll back in her head...

good stuff... wish she was still around to make that face!

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Old 06-03-2003, 05:44 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Old 06-03-2003, 05:56 PM   #18 (permalink)
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the wonderful thing about fingers,
are fingers are wonderful things
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Old 06-03-2003, 05:59 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Old 06-03-2003, 07:29 PM   #20 (permalink)
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You know what?Ive always liked it up and down as a aposed to the round or in and out. Glad my bf found that out Though he needs more practice with his tongue..But if your giving oral..a little sucking now and then does her body good !lol
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Old 06-03-2003, 07:58 PM   #21 (permalink)
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As some have already said, it not only varies from woman to woman, but it varies depending on mood. Watch for reactions. Talk it out if you have to. And of course, practice makes perfect!
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Old 06-03-2003, 09:43 PM   #22 (permalink)
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the only thing I would have to add to this is: don't do the same thing continously.. Switch things up, going back to things more often if it gets a better reaction... if she really wants something, then they will sometimes ask for it..

the worst thing I can think of one doing is the same old motions to the point where it becomes numb... hopefully your girly doesn't let you get that far
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Old 06-04-2003, 01:12 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Like everyone says, it depends. Good to experiment and pay attention to her body language. Make sure there's enough light to watch her face and do different things.

Try two fingers, malm up when she's on her back. Keep the finger pads on the upper surface as you go in. A few inches in, the texture will change a bit and it will get softer. Swirl around there a bit.

Also try extending your finger straight out and see if you can find a firmer protrusion coming from the far wll (like the tip of a nose). That's the cervix. Some women seem to like it when you swirl around it gently, or just above it, especially when they're getting closr to orgasm.

Oh, also try putting your index and middle finger inside as far as you can while keeping your (well lubed) thumb gently on her clit. Swirl thumb and fingers around in the same motion, like you're polishing your glasses.

Like I said, try different things and see what she likes. If you're not sure, ask her if what you're doing feels good.

Oh, and oblar is spot on, don't do the same thing forever. Do it long enough for her to enjoy it, not long enough for it to get annoying.
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Old 06-04-2003, 01:39 PM   #24 (permalink)
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The c-spot(mound) seems to be key. Ask your girl to help you find it. I'd recomend giving it up to the c-spot with your thumb and the g-spot with your pointer finger. Ask your girl for directions to both spots.
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Old 06-04-2003, 01:48 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Old 06-04-2003, 06:47 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Yes they are! But I can think of one or two better things..
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Old 06-04-2003, 07:35 PM   #27 (permalink)
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my girl likes 2 fingers. and yea. the come here motion works. it hits the G-spot. like rite behind her abdomen
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Old 06-04-2003, 08:18 PM   #28 (permalink)
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For me its about the rhythm and intensity for the build up for her to climax with power and vigor. Starting softly, evenly and in sync with the motions your girlfriend will provide.. Her body and sounds with give you many clues to follow.. Most importantly enjoy her pleasure with the joy of you being the one to provide it for her..And have a blast.
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Old 06-05-2003, 11:19 AM   #30 (permalink)
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my lady, depending on her mood, really likes to grind on the fingers, like she's getting boned. If she is having a hard time concentrating, i put another one in there. When she is seriously worked up, and wants the monster orgasm, I get all four fingers in there, up to the point where the fingers join the palm, and I let her work hard up against them, and stroke them in and out everynow and then. just about makes her head explode. of course, i am licking everything i can get my tongue on at the same time. seems to work for me.
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Old 06-05-2003, 04:57 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Most of the last few girlfriends like it with thumb on the clit, two fingers on the G-spot and the pinky in the butt. The trick is to get all of them to move in the right way. Takes a little practice.

You don't need to do this long before you switch to tongue on the clit and two fingers on the G-spot and thumb of the other hand on the butt. Then your face gets a bath!

My current girlfriend isn't crazy about the finger in the butt unless she's very horny, like after a couple of joints and a vodka. She's got some bad memories of a previous BF who used the butt a little too much.
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Old 06-05-2003, 05:43 PM   #32 (permalink)
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I would just like to point out that you do have two hands. What you do with that second hand is almost as vital as what you do with your "working hand".
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Old 06-05-2003, 06:21 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Well yeah. A girl has more than just a pussy.

But the subject is fingerin'.

Depending on where you are and how your sitting or lying or whatever, you'll likely be fingerin' with one hand. The other will be under you or her or holding her or the groceries or the umbrella or whatever.

When you're on the bed and you're both naked, then maybe you can get in there with two hands. A cliteral/G-spot/anal triple header.
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Old 06-06-2003, 12:35 AM   #34 (permalink)
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Old 06-06-2003, 02:09 AM   #35 (permalink)
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Old 06-06-2003, 04:49 AM   #36 (permalink)
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and cut your dang nails
yes, verrily important!

me and my bf both keep ours short enough...

skin in certain pleasure areas is very delicate
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Old 06-08-2003, 06:14 PM   #37 (permalink)
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finger + tongue = good.

play some with her ass = better
Couldn't have said it better myself.
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Old 06-12-2003, 08:37 AM   #38 (permalink)
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If it's just one finger, is there a preference of which finger?
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Old 06-12-2003, 12:44 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Old 06-12-2003, 06:34 PM   #40 (permalink)
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