bal8664

I think there should be a forum specifically for relationships. It says in the living forum to post relationship topics in the sexuality section, but when looking for interesting stories about relationships (not sexual), or marriage tips, or other things, i don't think you should have to go through what kind of anal lube you prefer to use. I think there is sufficient demand for this seeing the number of relationship related posts, and the fact that there is always twice as many people in the sexuality forum.

Thanks for reading my suggestion

CityOfAngels

Many would argue that relationships are base upon sexuality. Sexuality isn't all about anal lube; I've actually never used that stuff, yet I post in the sexuality forum all the time. I think the sexuality forum serves its purpose, and that relationship talk definitely fits in there well.

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bal8664

True, most relationships do have a sexual base, but There are many aspects of a relationship that have nothing sexual about them whatsoever. I was just using the lube thing as an example, because if i wanted to read a post about non-sexual relationship topics i'd have to go through dozens of sexually related posts. Furthermore not all relationships even have a sexual base, some choose to abstain from sex until marriage and therefore wouldnt be interested in anything else in the sexuality forum. I think relationships are easily a large enough topic to support its own forum, as long as people understood that sex related posts go in the sexuality forum and non-sexual relationship topics go in the relationship forum.

CityOfAngels

My point is this: Not only would many argue that relationships are based upon sexuality, but the same people would argue that life itself is based upon sexuality. I'm happy with the sexuality forum being the medium used for relationship talk.

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MSD

Sex related posts go in sexuality, non sex-related posts go in living. The reason that sticky is up in living is because the two forums were originally Tilted Advice, and when they were split, stuff needed to be separated, and a lot of sex posts were still showing up in living.

CityOfAngels

What he said.

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Ydde

I actually think that having a Tilted Relationship forum would serve a need. I understand the point that most would say that relationship problems are based on sexuality.

However, like bal8664 said, there are non sexual relationship problems.

Sex related posts go in sexuality, non sex-related posts go in living. Sexual relationship goes in sexuality, non-sexual relationship goes in Tilted Relationship?

But I agree might be too compartmentalised and difficult to separate the two(sexual and non sexual relationship).

noodles

i'll sign this petition in favor of relationships forum

the split is pretty obvious to me:

if it has to do with sex in any form (which includes relationships in any form if its a problem/question/etc that has to do with sex) = tilted sexuality

if it has to do with strictly relationships in any form (be it with guys/girls/potential-SOs (non-sexual problems/questions/etc only), family, friends, whatever) = tilted relationships

if it has to do with society or people as a generic whole or just plain living in our stupidass world today = tilted living

i see plenty of runover in living and sexuality, enough to probably warrant a third entity.

gh0ti

(bump'ing up this old thread)

I was actually thinking about the same thing and found this ~old thread. I really don’t think Tilted Sexuality and Tilted Living really serve the purpose a Tilted Relationships forum would serve. I like the idea of a place where you can discuss relationship issues that really don’t fit in to sex or living. Many ladies use the Ladies lounge for this purpose as well, I kind of think they get lost in the shuffle.

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I have to say I've felt some confusion and blurring of the lines between Living and Sexuality, but I'm still trying to get my feet wet here and thought it might just be me.

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