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Arousal/stimulation: Images, or the written word?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Chris Noyb, Mar 7, 2014.

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  1. CHERI95

    cheri95 Vertical

    Location:
    melbourne australia
    guys seems more forward about puberty, when i was in year 9 there was a boy in our class that rubbed his shorts during class. its so different to adult life :confused:

    i try to lighthearted about it cos otherwise its worrisome. mum is the opposite and gave me rules for what i'm allowed to wear at "home" :rolleyes:
    --- merged: Mar 24, 2014 at 7:53 PM ---
    nice to have siblings and a dad of any kind :D
    i never met my birth dad.
     
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    cheri95, Mar 24, 2014
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  2. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    After this I'm bailing on the step-brothers going through step-sis' underwear issue.

    You were told by your step-dad their behavior is normal, and to report any inappropriate touching.
    You were told by your mom what clothing is and isn't appropriate to wear at home.

    What have your step-brothers been told?
    Hopefully their "underwear" behavior isn't being excused by 'boys will be boys, especially during puberty.'
     
    Chris Noyb, Mar 25, 2014
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  3. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    If we are taking all of this at face value, then the step-brothers in the underwear thing is an invasion of privacy at the least. Creepy and a step towards more creepy at the worst. Probably somewhere in between.

    You are an adult, right? Did you say how old they were? If so I missed it. But I'd be inclined to have a talk with your mother and step-father and ask them to discuss it directly with them. Maybe with you present, depending on dynamics in the family/house.
     
    Borla, Mar 25, 2014
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  4. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Thank you!
    To Snowy & Borla.

    I was starting to feel as though I was the weirdo for finding the underwear issue creepy.
     
    Chris Noyb, Mar 25, 2014
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  5. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    No, definitely not weird. It is creepy. Teenage boys have a unique capacity to be creepy, as they don't think their behaviors through. They also have a propensity to not understand how to relate to women who aren't their actual sisters or mothers or girlfriends. If you're anywhere outside of any of those roles, it can get weird fast sometimes.
     
    snowy, Mar 25, 2014
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  6. CHERI95

    cheri95 Vertical

    Location:
    melbourne australia
    i'm not sure except for their dad saying to them to stop staring at your sister like that when i did situps. might of told them other things but i'm not sure. oh and he yelled at his 15yearold son for pool wrestling me -not violent so it was fun anyway.

    at first i thought that and didn't want them to touch in my clothes, but its just really interesting now, hard to explain what i mean :confused:
    yep 19. they are 15 and just turned 12 now. i'd be scared if they came in when i was asleep but other than that its just really interesting.
     
    cheri95, Mar 25, 2014
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  7. hamsterball

    hamsterball Seeking New Outlets

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    Coming soon to a galaxy near you

    Yes and sometimes they don't outgrow it.
     
    hamsterball, Mar 25, 2014
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  8. CHERI95

    cheri95 Vertical

    Location:
    melbourne australia
    i felt weird at first but now its just really interesting. in my life i had no contact with boys cos i used to think i was only into girls. and then last year i changed and had a bf but mum did not let him in the home. so its unique to live with males for the first time :oops:
     
    cheri95, Mar 25, 2014
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  9. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    I had forgotten that this thread got majorly sidetracked :eek: .

    I'm bumping it case any of the new members care to share their erotica/porn preference, visual or written.

    I've quoted myself, the opening post, so that the questions and general idea are here on page three.


     
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    Chris Noyb, Dec 2, 2014
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  10. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    The joke about internet porn is that you spend more time looking for your type of porn than actually watching porn.

    I think thats where the written word is superior. In it, everyone is 'your type' of woman/man.
     
    Herculite, Dec 2, 2014
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  11. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Lately, I've really been into a combo of the two via reading various manga, typically yaoi/BL stuff. It leaves enough to my imagination when done well.
     
    snowy, Dec 2, 2014
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  12. Levite

    Levite Levitical Yet Funky

    Location:
    The Windy City
    I have also been known to enjoy the occasional erotic comic. I have to say, though, I just can't get into erotic manga or anime. I don't really have much interest in non-erotic manga or anime-- I just can't take the visual style seriously...I don't know, something about the giant eyes, or the way that like half the characters in Japanese comics don't actually look Japanese. I have a hard enough time suspending my disbelief for actual storylines and whatnot. I don't think I have it in me to get horny off them.

    I tend to like the "erotic parodies" of actual American comics and cartoons. The ones that really look like Marvel or DC characters fucking, mostly. Now that shit can make me horny. Probably has a lot to do with memories of getting major hard-ons for certain superheroines when I was young. I had a lot of raunchy X-Men fantasies, I can tell you....
     
    Levite, Dec 2, 2014
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  13. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member


    There are lots of naughty doujinshi, or fan comics, based on manga, out there to read. I've read a few. They're not really my cup of tea, usually because the art is not as good as the original product. Sometimes they're good. However, they're generally much more explicit than reading a yaoi/BL manga or novel. One of the hallmarks of truly explicit manga/doujinshi is the use of this shot where you can literally see the penis from inside whoever's being fucked--it's like this weird internal view. It's a little disturbing, and not my favorite angle.

    There are things I really love about some of the manga I've read. Without sharing panels, I can't really explain well how it leaves enough to the imagination.
     
    snowy, Dec 3, 2014
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  14. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    I've always enjoyed erotic fantasy art, the kind of stuff you'd find in Heavy Metal magazine. A lot of it is extra titillating in that it has gothic, horror, and/or BDSM themes. I count the work of Luis Royo among the best. Some of Gerald Brom's stuff is along those lines. I've also been meaning to get into some Druuna for quite a while now. That shit looks fucking hot (and I have a thing—okay, more than "a thing"—for curvy brunettes).
     
    Baraka_Guru, Dec 3, 2014
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  15. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

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    Perhaps my favorite Southpark ever.
     
    Herculite, Dec 3, 2014
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  16. Levite

    Levite Levitical Yet Funky

    Location:
    The Windy City
    Heavy Metal magazine was some of the first stroke material I ever purchased for myself. Druuna was nice, and Ghita of Alizar. Stuff by Milo Manara is often good, and stuff by Kevin Taylor. Though I also liked some less "quality art" erotic comics, like Cherry Poptart and XXXenophile.
     
    Levite, Dec 3, 2014
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  17. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Am I weird in that the fantasy women in comics never put lead in my pencil? I do recall enjoying some "fuck" comics (I wouldn't call them erotic) many years ago, but the people were drawn more like everyday people. Guys had thining hair, the women were a little plump, nobody was overly attractive, no missle breasts, no huge penises, etc.
     
    Chris Noyb, Dec 3, 2014
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  18. POPEYE

    POPEYE Very Tilted

    Location:
    Tulsa
    the opening scene in " Heavy Metal " the animated movie some 35 yrs ago...wow that was hot, started loving fantasy erotica then. and haven't changed. anime isn't the same and doesn't compare.
     
    POPEYE, Dec 3, 2014
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  19. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    We went to the monthly warehouse clearance sale at a local charity thrift store. As we were heading to the check-out I spotted a bin of books that I hadn't gone through. Most were might-as-well-throw-them-away, but I scored a HB copy of The Story of O. I saw the movie, which is actually a decent movie compared to other porn movies from that time, years ago. Hopefully the book will be a stimulating read :D.
     
    Chris Noyb, Dec 6, 2014
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  20. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Thanks, @Chris Noyb for bringing this back to life. Here's another thread I missed that was born and flourished while I took my hiatus last winter and spring.

    I like both images and written erotica/porn. I too remember the Penthouse Letters from my mid-teens. My dad's store sold magazines, including Penthouse and when the adults weren't around my cohorts and I used to read and, at the time, giggle a lot.:rolleyes: When I was fourteen, I didn't know enough to really appreciate all that was going on, but I knew enough to be... shall we say, intrigued.;)

    I like written to be fairly explicit, but too graphic is a turnoff to me, and usually brings out snickering and eye rolling. Same with the too euphemistic "Victoriana" (he plunged his turgid purple member into her..."

    What Sig and I like about written is one of us can read aloud while being worked on by the other. It's definitely hawt to read sexy stories aloud while receiving oral, each act both enhancing and at the same time, distracting from the other.:D

    I like reasonably well done photos, but not too much "set piece" where it just looks fake. The ones with the woman having her mouth permanently open just says posed and fake to me. I like cartoons as well.

    I've spent a fair amount of time on sites like tumblr and imgur and there's some great erotic stuff. I like the selfies of girls. When I was a topless dancer (it seems so long ago... I quit in Febr 2003) I had a talent agent tell me that I had "world class tits," a great complement that definitely went to my head at age 23. But after seeing all the perfect breasts in the selfies and shared photos out there on tumview, imgur, pinterest, etc. all I can say is that there's gotten to be a hell of a lot of competition for that status. And a lot more girls and women willing to show off what the have.

    Too short duration to really be considered videos, but I've become absolutely enamoured of gifs. Some great distilled essence of hot! And the motion is what makes it. The movement of breasts and the cum in mouth gifs are my faves. It is a major annoyance though, to be unable to find the source video.

    Now I don't know what to do. Writing this and thinking about sex has gotten me all ready to go. Sig will get home soon, (he's out shooting pool) and I hot to jump his bones.
     
    Lindy, Dec 6, 2014
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