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Bigger penis.

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by ralphie250, Feb 5, 2014.

  1. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    As other men have said here, size doesn't really matter. I've had the opportunity over my sexual life to sample a wide variety of sizes. The one I liked best was actually a little below average. We could do more, position-wise. Other guys who've been above average--there are some positions I just can't do because it's too painful. I've learned to work with what I have access to, though :p
     
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  2. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    Honestly.... Being too big would suck, because it would mean you couldn't slam it doggystyle without nailing the cervix.

    I couldn't imagine going through life without being able to slam it doggystyle.

    (TMI? :oops:)
     
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  3. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I really miss that :(
     
  4. NobleDeb

    NobleDeb Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    I find that licking a guy's balls makes his penis grow larger.
    Seems to work for me every time.
     
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  5. MSD

    MSD Very Tilted

    Location:
    CT
    Just approach it like you would if you were pre-drilling a hole for a screw or anchor - measure the maximum depth and wrap a few turns of masking tape around it there.
     
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  6. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!


    Careful with that or you will go blind.
     
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  7. Street Pattern

    Street Pattern Very Tilted

    As snowy put it: I really miss that :(
     
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  8. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    It depends on the woman...some prefer smaller, some prefer bigger.
    This is based both on physical limits/capacity and their own preference in sensation. (some don't mind the cervix being hit a bit)
    Width seems to be more important than length, at least that's what polls have said. (if they're being done right and honest)

    Many men seem to be more self-conscious than they need to be.
    It's not typically the size, but the skill and attention to detail that they lack.
    For example, my friend is worried about his size...but he's actually "above-average"
    But...from his descriptions of his "activities"...it sounds like he sucks in bed instead.

    Unfortunately, this stuff is not taught in schools. Wouldn't it be nice?
    The subject is so sensitive, so many go through in ignorance.
    If you're lucky, you get a bit of trial & error...a bit of experience.
    But you also have to be "aware" of your results...and hopefully partners who communicate. (honestly & diplomatically)

    However, since many don't share...don't communicate...some are selfish...some partners are harsh...and so on.
    Many never get the appropriate input and feedback they need.
    Ignorance is not bliss.

    I'd focus on the technique, not the tool.
    Because there is no changing your hammer, big or small.
    So you better learn how to hammer that wood well with the one you got.
    Hey, if you do it right...you can make some beautiful pieces. ;)
     
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  9. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    At work..
    That's why I wear glasses.
     
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  10. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Hey, I wear glasses too. Is that why I'm near-sighted?
    Well, if I go blind...at least I've already got a stick to find things with.

    ...*poke* *poke* *poke*...hon, is that you?? What is that?
    (I can hear it right now..."Get that thing away from me!" )
     
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  11. I'll echo the rest of the sentiments in this thread.

    You have what you were born with, just learn how to use it, and the rest of your anatomy, to it's fullest potential.

    I'm a bit below what is commonly reported as 'average', but through a respectable number of partners I've not once had a complaint that I haven't later silenced through improvement of technique in one area or another. At least, ones that they've told me to my face.

    Also, communication, communication, communication. It's imperative.
     
  12. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    You miss licking guy's balls to make your dick bigger?
     
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  13. Street Pattern

    Street Pattern Very Tilted

    Do I have to spell it out? I meant I miss being the recipient of that kind of attention.

    For that matter, I miss providing that kind of attention to lady parts.

    (TMI about my marriage: certain very necessary SSRI antidepressants, as a side effect, are lethal to the female libido. And that makes oral sex just as unwelcome as any other kind. But I need to quit whining about this, and follow my own advice about counting my blessings.)
     
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  14. NobleDeb

    NobleDeb Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    Lady parts are missing your attention :(
     
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  15. Cayvmann

    Cayvmann Very Tilted


    That's what makes it look so weird. The sac seems about a third of the way up the shaft... Not that I'm looking that closely, ya know. Anyway I always wondered why people who were otherwise large would go through with it, but then again big dudes take steroids and get implants because they just can't get big enough...

    Try to be happy in your own skins folks. It's cheaper and less risky
     
  16. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted

    Location:
    Where ever I roam
    [NSFW]

    View: http://youtu.be/-tPsAycQcto?t=46m37s

    (I hope this is the right time @ 46min 37sec, I can only see the preview pictures, not the video)

    This was a TV show from the UK (see what they put on TV over there). I can't say if the techniques work or not, but they seemed to have some success. I would think that these people would be independent and truthful, but who knows anymore.
     
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  17. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    I'm a little late to this, I apologize for basically reposting what others have already said.

    From what I've seen on some of the websites, penis enlargement surgeries don't add enough to make them worthwhile. Sometimes it's hard to say because many of the Before & After images have clearly been chosen to present the After in the best possible way. And even then the results, at least to me, are kind of "Seriously? That's all?". Penis enlargement surgery should really be a last resort for guys who are way below average, i.e. a real medical need.

    Knowing to use your hands/fingers & mouth/tongue, knowing your partner's likes, reading what your partner wants, etc. are key to satisfactory sex. In my limited experience, if you have a woman squirming & secreting before intercourse, chances are very good that she going enjoy your dick no matter the size (unless, perhaps, the size is at one extreme or the other).

    Think of this: You can use a finger or two to stimulate an orgasm. Your dick is mostly likely bigger than your finger. I would say two fingers, but some guys have really large fingers.

    Knowing what positions work, and don't work/aren't possible, is important. Let's be honest, there are some positions that require a really long penis to achieve penetration and maintain intercourse. The porn industry* likes to use those positions to "show off" what the males have to offer. In reality, you learn to work with what you have.

    Now two big questions:
    Do some women prefer, even require, a large penis to be satisfied? I would say yes, but the key word is "some." Judging from the posts here at TFP, numerous surveys, studies, etc., for most women penis size isn't that important.

    Do women fantasize about guys with large penises? From everything that I've read & heard, yes, most women do (I know that my wife does). The key word here is fantasize. I seriously doubt that most women, especially those in a committed relationship, would drop their panties for a guy just because he was well hung.

    * I feel somewhat sorry for some of the young guys who grew/grow up with easy access to internet porn. A kid could easily think that his dick is somehow inadequate. I've read some of the "small dick" comments posted on some of the porn sites, and some of the "small dicks" in question are not at all small. Certainly some of the guys posting snide comments are just jerks, but some of them probably have misperceptions of "normal" penis size. Combine those misperceptions with inexperience, and a kid with a 5" erect penis might question if he could satisfy a woman.

    On TFP 4 there are several threads about penis size. Here are a couple of the longer ones.

    EVERYTHING ABOUT DICK SIZE, AND SHAVING **ANYWHERE**! - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

    Ladies, Tell us. does size matter? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

    And the results of a general search.

    Google
     
  18. NobleDeb

    NobleDeb Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    Penis size has no relationship to lovemaking satisfaction for me. For me it's all about passion. I'm sure all you guys know that a woman's satisfaction doesn't revolve around just your penises. Lovemaking passion starts with intimate conversation and touching that leads to foreplay etc. When passion continues throughout lovemaking and into post-coitus intimacy I'm a thoroughly satisfied partner.

    Include me in the most women fantasize about large penises category. I'm currently not in a committed relationship but obviously it takes more than that for me to drop my panties.
     
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  19. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Passion & intimacy are key for my wife & me. I would think that even with casual sex there is some kind of connection that goes beyond what a guy has hanging, or standing.

    My wife & I discuss penis size. I know that one of her favorite wank stories involves a woman riding a 10" dick. She says in reality it wouldn't work. I'm no expert, but my wife has been told by doctors and nurses that she has a small vagina, tight and relatively shallow. When we use toys, seven inches is about her max before hitting the cervix. She doesn't mind some cervix bumping, she can handle a fair amount if she's really relaxed and wanting hard physical sex, but even then eight inches is about it. She tells me likes to feel my balls slapping against her when I slamming it balls deep, and the fact that we can get very physical without her sufering any deep soreness.


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    Ralphie, I'm about to threadjack here, I hope that you're OK with it.
    To be honest, I've wondered how women do handle really long penises (I know that the vagina does lengthen as part of the sexual response). A naturally deep cervix? Can a woman relax/open her cervix? Does childbirth play a role? Surgery (I've read that is how some porn are able to handle them)? Obviously there are positions that don't maximize penetration, but what about when he does go balls deep?
     
  20. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    From what I know I about pornstars (I was friends with a few of them in San Diego), each woman has her own ability and limits.
    And this can also flux from time to time, or even scene to scene.
    Sure, they'll take on a bit more typically than their normal sex life, they're getting paid for it....but I know they don't do this outside of film as often.

    They communicate through touch, similar to riding a horse directing with you legs...if you notice with their hands, they keep it on the man's thigh or such.
    Then they push lightly, grab harder...and other things that look like they are in the throws of passion.
    But the men have been trained over time to respond to these cues.
    So if a man is driving too far or too deep...they're quick to let the guy know to back off a bit.

    Obviously, a normal couple can do this too...and will likely if in some sync. There are tons of mode of communication.
    A lot depends on your mood and body at the time.

    BTW...male porn stars, its not typically the size...its the ability to get it up no matter what, keep it up...and get it off on cue.
    That last part is a tricky one...imaging a tons people impatiently waiting for lunch...and you're trying to cum.
    Size can be "enhanced" by camera angle.

    From the rest of your questions, from what open conversations I've had with women...are Yes, to all the above.
    I'll let them expound on it here.