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Bigger penis.

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by ralphie250, Feb 5, 2014.

  1. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    I'm not fixated on fucking as the best and or only source of pleasure. I love working a cock, and working a big one is just more ... something. It enhances my pleasure and is visually a turn on. I love to minister orrally and with both hands. Wrap my breasts around it, and with oil, and maybe some ice.

    So, yes, a dick could definitely be too big for pleasurable fucking.
    The same would not be too big for me to take a lot of pleasure, uh, in hand.
    And if all the "big guy" wanted was just fucking, count me out. There's (or at least can be) a lot more to sex than just fucking.

    It might be analogous to how you guys, who like tits take more pleasure from fondling, sucking, stimulating a pair of nice double handful D-cups over doing the same things to an itty-bitty A-cup pair.

    From my days as a stripper, I know what you like.;)
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  2. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Large City, TX
    I've posted this before, and will gladly say it again:

    Thank you for your honesty.

    Even though the A Bigger Penis Is Better For Playing it doesn't make 'smaller' guys feel any better.

    Many people, guys & gals, have posted that PIV is only part of sex. The build-up, the anticipation, is largely mental. There certainly is a difference between fucking, sex, & making love.

    Penis size and breast size are analogous when it comes to visual appeal and playing. Speaking for myself: By the time the situation reached breast play I wouldn't care what size they were. And breast size would not be that important in the initial attraction (a part of the total package, yes; a major part, no). The guys who frequent strip clubs are there for a reason, they are not representative of the overall male population.

    Several women have posted comments that a woman's concern over, or confidence in, her breasts size is comparable to a guy having the same feelings about his penis size. In some ways, yes. But when it gets to PIV, the comparison between breast size and penis size doesn't apply: The penis is used in PIV, breasts are not.

    Gotta go.

  3. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    honestly, it seems more like an ego thing to me. the bigger a guys penis is the more women will want them. or atleast that's how it seems
  4. *Nikki*

    *Nikki* Slightly Tilted

    South Carolina
    I didn't read all the discussion but unless a penis is freakishly small it's more than adequate. I've been with a freakishly small one and I will say as shallow as it seems the sex was never good for this reason only. This guy is my best friend now and I literally feel bad for him. He's perfect in just about every way but that and I've watched him go through a bunch of girlfriends and it's always after sex they break up with him. No joke. I mean he's really good in bed but there's certain things you just can't compensate for. I feel bad saying that but I'm also honest to a fault.
    --- Double Post Merged, Mar 14, 2017, Original Post Date: Mar 14, 2017 ---
    Actually a small penis is good for anal though...I almost forgot about that part heh.
  5. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    I know that feeling all too well as im ure mist of yall have seen
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  6. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Large City, TX
    Don't feel bad. You're being honest, which is appreciated.

    The female POV is important to this thread.


    I apologize to the people reading this thread, especially those participating. In reading some of my posts I come across as preachy, and that is not my intent. What sounds like being simply straightforward in my mind sometimes sounds asshole-ish when put into writing.
    Last edited: Mar 15, 2017
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  7. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    I agree. Thanks @nikki for participating. Would be good to hear from more females in sexual topic threads.


    You're OK, Chris. More than OK.:) I just take it as you defending your point of view. Being too nicey-nice defeats good discussion.:(
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  8. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    I know this is off topic, but do women feel the same way about their boobs that we feel about our penisis?
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  9. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Large City, TX
    Ladies, your thoughts?
  10. Shadowex3

    Shadowex3 Very Tilted

    As someone that needs to special order 69mm condoms from another country it's really not that fun being in the 99.96th percentile. Every woman I've tried to have sex with has found it painful after a bit, and I always have to be very careful not to go too deep.
  11. *Nikki*

    *Nikki* Slightly Tilted

    South Carolina
    I cant speak for others but im perfectly happy with mine. Its really apples and oranges I believe. Breast size doesnt make or break how good sex is on the recieving end.

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  12. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    But do women feel the same way about boobs that we do about penis

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  13. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    From what I understand, its a matter of aesthetics for them than ability.
    Women compete in looks more as a part of their self-confidence.
    Men compete in power or ability more as a part of their self-confidence.

    This is NOT always or in total...just a potential factor or trend.

    You cannot say boobs "do" something in sexuality...it's just a reaction to them if anything.
    Men worry about what they can "do" with their dick. It's a thing of competency.

    Which it strange, you don't see men worried about their tongue size...and most women enjoy that in sex.
    Nor do they listen to most women who say, it doesn't matter unless it is REALLY small.
    Nor do you see women worry much about the size of their vagina (not like men do about their dicks)
    But you do see many women constantly considering "enhancing" their breasts by bras and such. (but they often worry about clothes and makeup too...so its looks)

    Remember...breasts are VERY visual...up front, apparent and in your face. (24/7, can't hide them)
    Dicks are typically hidden until the time of sex, often in the dark (and in the end the big factor isn't size but results, ability, constitution, babies, etc)

    For some strange reason, both seems to think bigger is better?
    But which is better???
    A large breasted woman who is cold...or a flat chested woman who can make your toes curl?
    A man with a large dick who is shit in bed...or a small dick man who can make your toes curl??

    What would happen if men's balls were 10 times the size and placed up on their chests?? Could you avoid them? Would we get Ball Bras?? Low cleavage to show off our balls?
    What would happen if women had clits 100 times the size like dicks?? Would they worry about their size? Adjust them in their pants/skirts? Would men worry if they could satisfy?


    I think people should worry about their comfort and self-confidence more.
    And practice, practice, practice.

    And if they don't like you...fuck'em, walk away. Boobs or Dick, it doesn't matter.
    It's your life. Their baggage.
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  14. mikesmiles

    mikesmiles New Member

    Obviously once you stray outside of the normal size ranges size matters! If you are smaller than the normal range it matters. Hello. To suggest that it does not is to show yourself a fool. Can you compensate in other areas? Of course, but if you had normal size and duration and still compensated in those other areas it would be better because you would be bigger. Simple as that. Similar would go for if you are way oversized.

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  15. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Large City, TX

    I would very much like to hear the ladies take on this ^ theory.
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  16. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Large City, TX
    I don't think it's "Simple as that."

    If you are speaking strictly of only sexual pleasure, with all other relationship factors removed, with all sexual skills being equal, it is possible a guy with a larger (but not uncomfortably so) penis has an advantage over the guy who has an adequate size (but not too small) penis.

    But there are many, many other factors to consider. It would take forever to go into detail on each. If you have time & inclination, and haven't already done so, read this entire thread and the earlier and more detailed thread (somewhere in this thread I posted a link to it).

    In brief, based on what the TFP ladies have posted, size is not that important for PIV. Some of the ladies have experienced a wide range of length, girth, and shape:

    An emotional connection. Sometimes sex is pure fucking, simple instantaneous lust. But most times a large part sex is mental. The connection doesn't necessarily involve love, it could be simply liking someone. The connections between different partners could be clear and easily explained, or something nearly intangible and not easily explained. I've heard women explain their relationships, sometimes with guys who aren't exactly hot, say "He makes me laugh.", "He cares about what I have to say.", etc. much more often than "He has a big dick and knows how to use it."

    What she prefers. Maybe a large glans get her off more than a glans that is smaller in diameter than the shaft. Maybe she likes the feeling of being stretched by considerable girth, or maybe she prefers really vigorous thrusting less girth allows. Maybe she doesn't want a penis anywhere near her cervix, or maybe she likes some cervix bumping. Maybe a curved penis hits her hot spots more than a straight one. Maybe she likes the different angles that are easier accomplished with a smaller penis. And of course she might prefer being seriously stretched and having a penis bottom out.

    Not all penises are created equal, and neither are all vaginas.

    Girth. We've all heard about how elastic the vagina is, childbirth is a frequently used example. At what point stretching becomes too much, or is too little, will vary, and her mood plays a role. No doubt some women actually need more stretching, others less. For some it's more a matter of preference.

    Length. Studies report that the average depth of the fully aroused vagina is about 8". We all know, from porn and real life sex, there is much variation. Medical studies report stimulation occurs in the first 2-3 inches of the vagina, the g-spot (IME it's fairly close to the outer first few inches of the vagina), and the clitoris. This indicates the need for deep penetration might be more of a preference than an actual need. With that said, there are women who need (or think they do?) deep penetration to be satisfied, and the same goes for being stretched.

    Sexual incompatibility happens. One woman's stud might be another woman's dud. One woman's Hot Bad Boy might be another woman's N.F.W. Confident, or arrogant? Great conversationalist, or opinionated ass?
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