I top out at about 6.5" It used to annoy me I wasn't bigger but neither of the ladies I've had sex with (in real life. I've fucked 1000s of women in my head) complained. When I was younger and first dating, it took up too much of my focus. I learned that I could do other things to get my partner off. Hand, hand, finger, thumb. I've found the tongue works pretty well. I turned my focus away from the size of my cock and towards getting my partner over the edge.